he says that he cares for me and wouldn't take anything in the world for me. when he looks into my eyes i fill his heart has love for me. should i wait to see if he does love me?
2007-08-18 09:29:47 · 23 answers · asked by Scarlotte S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only time will tell. Is he old enough to be going thru a midlife crisis? It may just pass. If you really love him, try working on it ie. counseling, bringing the romance back, a second honeymood, whatever it takes. I hope it is just a phase and you work it out.
2007-08-18 09:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is so confusing. At times throughout our relationships we sometimes question whether we're making the other person feel as a whole and so at times we may even ask if we are right for them. But reality is that once upon a time you both swore to love, respect, etc each other till the end of time. There may be other issues presently upsetting or unsettling your husband. Have a good heart to heart and put all your cards on the table. Be mature and open minded during this conversation and attempt to get things back on track and to rejuvinate the love for each other. Best of luck to you both.
2007-08-18 16:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i would try the advice that crazylegs has posted for you, about talking and if that didnt work i would suggest that the 2 of yous need space and time to think!
But answer this question first: Do you really still love him or is it that you are used to each other, and is the case of better the devil you know than the devil you dont?
If you still love him and this is really what you want then fight for it, try and understand and then you will be able to sort it, it is gonna be difficult and you will be sad on occasions but always keep in mind your goal,. If you still love him and want your marriage then i would fight for him, do things you know he likes be more responsive, show happiness and laugh, even though you might be sad, make him enjoy your company that he will want to be with you cause you make him laugh, take extra pride in yourself, make him want you more, go away for the weekend with your friends make him miss you give him time to miss you.
My thoughts are with you and i hope soon happiness comes back to you.
2007-08-18 16:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by mzarqa64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer to this. If he is unsure then you probably are too. He cares deeply about you, but he doesn't love you. This would be kind of a sad way to keep a marriage. A lot of marriages become more strong friendships over time, but there still has to be a level of love and passion. I think you both need some space to sort this out.
2007-08-18 16:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa's Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe people fall out of love sometimes as easily as they fall into it. Couples can drift apart by letting life in general and its events come between them. Money, homes, careers and even kids can rearrange your priorities. Before you know it, almost imperceptively, you're miles apart. You need to be number one in each others lives, above all else - even kids. If you're not a couple first, the rest is nothing. If you want to save your marriage, find out what's wrong and try to fix it through counseling or whatever. Or, if you feel the same way, end it. The choice is yours. Decide on a plan of action and stick to it. Good luck.
2007-08-18 16:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, fight for him. Do things that you know he loves. Work with him to find out where things went wrong. Perhaps even get some counselling.
Don't just wait around -- because then he will just see that you don't care enough to try. He isn't telling you he doesn't, he is just saying he is not sure -- so make him sure.
2007-08-18 16:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husband .... do you have kids ?
If you don't have kids then do what your heart tells you.
Do you want to love you some one who doesn't love you anymore ?
Love can't be begged , love can't be forced. Enjoy the time you have now .. Go out and enjoy the split for a while. Things happen in life. Life is good go enjoy.
2007-08-18 16:38:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe take a week or two apart. If at the end of that time he likes being on his own more, then just go your seperate ways and if not then you will know what he wants. People can truely love each other and not be "in love". Sometimes we just lose track of our feelings because of so many other things going on in life.
2007-08-18 16:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me if He's telling you that is because something its not working properly in the relationship. I'll suggest to talk with him about what He likes most about the relationship and what He doesn't like. Try to fix things a give a fresh start. If you love him you have to do something ....... Take action!
2007-08-18 17:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. I don't think that it's worth waiting to see if someone really loves you. They either do or they don't. Don't waste your time when you could be putting all your effort into someone who really wants to be with you and love you for who you are and what you have to offer. Good Luck!!
2007-08-18 16:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by !~!~Edward~!~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋