we live together and no we didn't meet until after we seperated from our sig others. But it is fun to here her say lets get married and I respond but we are or did you mean to each other
2007-08-22 08:06:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you're not going to hell!! And if you are, so am I. I am in the same boat that you are in but with more drama. My husband(of 8 years) and I have been seperated for almost 10 months. Once we split up he messed around with his best friend's new wife. Now when I say new wife I mean they were just married about one month prior. So of course following the revolting news that his wife betrayed her wedding vows with...of all people...HIS OWN BEST FRIEND, they split up. Being my husband's best friend, of course, made us friends as well. When I found out what had happened I did the friendly thing and went to console him. We kept in touch and one thing led to another and now we are inseperable. We now live together and we are just as happy as we could possibly be. (Just to spice things up a bit- cuz I'm sure you're curious-his wife also cheated on my husband(serves him right) AND the guy that she cheated on him with. Nasty huh? Anyway...back to the matter at hand...the marriage talk has come up as well with us as it has with you but we both agree that neither of us wants to rush into anything. But just between us...I don't know how long I will be able to hold him off once our divorces are final :). Good luck to you in your relationship and I hope everything turns out well in the end.
2007-08-22 13:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people at yahoo answers are in NO position to tell you whether or not you are going to hell, so why are you even asking them?
That's between you and God.
Just try to be the best person you can be. Wait until you divorce before getting together with someone else. If you don't want to divorce, then work it out with your wife.
2007-08-22 08:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by LimboChamp 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't know the laws where you live but I think being married to more than one person at a time is illegal ( so I hear ) kind of in same boat I'm egally seperated from hus but my BF is legally divorced.
2007-08-22 08:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go to hell. You were not the cause of each other's break up.
Now, you have a second chance of happiness, try and make it happen!
Good luck.
2007-08-22 08:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to hell for butchering the English grammar and punctuation.
2007-08-22 08:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with hooking up with someone else if you are already separated from your spouse.
That's what a separation is for, to see if this is what you want or not.
If it is, then proceed with the divorce.
If it isn't, then go back to the marriage ;)
2007-08-22 08:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
good question, i ask myself that same thing. from when i seperated from my husband, then started seeing someone after. i personally have a hard time forgiving myself. and wonder if God forgave me. i often wonder, if i was set up by the devil in the whole divorce thing.
2007-08-22 08:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by lbrady 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No you are not going to hell unless you cheated on your wife and that is why you are separated. Why be separated? Either get a divorce or work it out?
2007-08-22 08:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lely 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, there is no hell but what we create for ourselves here on earth.
Second of all, just enjoy eachother and see what happens, but neither of you need to jump into another marriage.
2007-08-22 08:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋