Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2007

I really am not in the mood to get in bed with him. I think it's because of his attitude. I tell him how can he expect me to sleep with him when we just had a fight.

He gets upset and minor stuff and then minutes later acts like if nothing even happened. Then he want to sleep with me like if we never even fought at all.

What should I do? How can I get him to understand for a woman it's not just jumping in the bed - I feel i have to want to do it too and I am not going to want to if we just had a fight.

2007-08-22 14:06:41 · 23 answers · asked by recklessly in love 1

be around my dad because my parents are divorced and he used to always work when i was a kid. I don't live with my mom i jjust live with my dad and my brother lives with my mom. It's not like my dad is mean or anything i just don't like to be around him.

2007-08-22 13:44:54 · 7 answers · asked by wintennis91 2

Do they look forward to expressing themselves in this way to men*? Are you one of them*?

2007-08-22 13:41:59 · 17 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7

I work with a guy that is interested in an older woman. She is 15 years older than him. I was just wondering if guys like older women and why?

2007-08-22 13:40:51 · 20 answers · asked by delorisjp 2

my husbandhad a vacectomy 11yrs ago and we are swingers,since then we have a new baby we thought it was the other guys but it looks like my husband and other kids, can this be possible?i had sex with my husband and the other guy on the same day...

2007-08-22 13:39:46 · 24 answers · asked by diamond33m 1

There's a saying that you know it's love when: they're late home, you don't know where they are, and you'd rather they were cheating on you than dead in a ditch somewhere. My husband left me for another woman eight months ago. I often find it easier to think of him as dead (and not because I wish him dead). It hurts less. If anyone has been through something personal that's relevant, which would you prefer - that he/she died, or dumped you for another?

2007-08-22 13:38:39 · 41 answers · asked by clio 4

Ok I have this friend that I really considered a "friend".We've been friends for about 3 years she calls me her sister.Latley whenever we talk on the phone she ALWAYS asks about my husband a couple of weeks ago she told me that she "Wish she had a hard working man like my husband". What would you say or do about this situation?

2007-08-22 13:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by 4xsamommie 3

My older sister is married but they can't support having children right now. She was using birth control but of course abstinence is the only thing that is 100% to prevent pregnancy. So she stopped having sex with her husband. He is now going to file for divorce because they haven't had sex in 3 months!!!!!!!!!!! What is she supposed to do?

2007-08-22 13:23:15 · 14 answers · asked by Meadow 1

I don't know what to do, I want to save our marriage! I love him so much! We've only been married a little over a year. He says he just isn't happy anymore! We are now expecting a little boy due Oct. 4... I want this all to work out!

2007-08-22 13:21:46 · 26 answers · asked by angelalexsgirl 1

2007-08-22 13:05:13 · 11 answers · asked by virago 2

She is living with a man and is very self sufficient, but he is a sucker when it comes to her manipulative ways. He is not far from retirement and doesn't even have a pension built up yet.
I don't think he is really thinking this through and I think he is going to deplete his savings because of this. How can I prevent him being taken advantage of in this way and who can I talk to about it?

2007-08-22 13:04:43 · 4 answers · asked by kip 3

(without parental permisson)

2007-08-22 12:52:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle and aunt are about to get divorced. They have been married for almost 24yrs and have 3 boys. The youngest is just heading out to college. My aunt had an affair, which had been going on for at least a year, and is now moved out. My uncle didn't ever beat her, cheat on her, etc. My concern is that she is going to be getting 50% of everything, even though she is the one who had the affair. I don't know if they have a prenuptial agreement, but I was wondering if there was anyway to help my uncle keep most of everything. He was supose to be retiring in 1.5yrs, but now can't because she is going to take half of his retirement. What advice, arguement in his defense, etc. can you give me so I can help this wrong situation become right?

2007-08-22 12:47:02 · 5 answers · asked by Lissa Ann 3

and all of the sudden, she started "joking" about her past sex life, even when I never said sth related to it! like eg. "yeah well you are not that good in bed" or "... well if I told you the kind of things I have to imagine to have an orgasm when we have sex, you would be offended"... I kept on with with the game since we were on the msn and i really tought she was kidding, but what got to me was when she said "well you are the first one to complain about my performance"... at that i told her " lets stop joking like this" and when i asked her if what she told me were true, which i consider not, she refused to talk about it... when you girls are mad... do you make up these kind of things to get even? Wasnt that a bit too much? She used to tell me i was the best lover she ever had... Am I overreacting? When I asked her again of course she said it was not true, but now i have my doubts...
BTY it al started with me joking about her IQ, a really dumb childish thing! not 4 her..

2007-08-22 12:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

heres the thing I feel that my husband of almost 9 years has been having an affair. he hides phone calls from me by either deleting them or by going outside to take them. he treats me differently I am so very confused. He talks to women online and I deletes them I found out by logging on to our joint email and a female popped up. He got a text message at like 10:30ish one night and left at 2:30 because he "couldn't Sleep" and went to work and has even told me that there is proof that he was at work? also a few nights later he got a text message at like 12:30 midnight and told me that it was his uncle but it wsn't it was a coworker. but he says he doesn't love me the way he used to but I have seen that spark in his eye that he once had for me when he looks at a co-worker and it ticked him off when I comfronted him about it. Swearing that he could never feel that way becuase he could lose his job, I said what about you family??? what do yall think ?

2007-08-22 12:36:13 · 15 answers · asked by manda 1

Having been divorced for 2.5 years now, I find myself constantly having sexual fantasies about my ex. Honestly if she walked in the door right now and wanted to actually get back together I wouldn't (not in a million years). But when she enters my fantasies it's all I can think about. What does this mean?

2007-08-22 12:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by Kyle P 1

issues such as finances, child-rearing, chores, etc.? Or did you just talk about the wedding colors?

2007-08-22 12:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7

Last night my husband wants me to scramble him some eggs. And I'm all excited because we're newly married and I've been practicing on making omeletes and wanted to try it out instead....Well, he says to me I didn't ask you to do what you wanted to do...I want my eggs scrambled...So we get into this arguement over all things "Eggs!" So, I tell him my feelings were a little hurt because I was just trying to suprise him with something new! And he tells me he doesn't understand that and if he tells me he wants scrambled then that's what he wants..ok then on another note,,,, I have this real issue because he is a manager at his job and his co-workers call and text him all time of night! One person in particular is this lady..She calls and text him sometime at 1 in the morning! And I tell him that I feel disrespected because why would she feel like she could call him so late when she knows he's married! I'm just venting and thought I'd share......

2007-08-22 11:57:12 · 22 answers · asked by Maddison 2

2007-08-22 11:32:13 · 20 answers · asked by Secret 2

When a couple who DO NOT have any kids get divorced, do they still keep in touch through the years???? Im in between on this one..I mean it's obvious that once you marry someone that you care for them very deeply, so I guess a card or phone call every so often would be okay you know, just to see how they are doing. But then again you clearly wanted this person out of your life for one reason or another. Im not married or never been divorced. Im just curious.

2007-08-22 11:23:50 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-08-22 11:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by April 5

Should being in a unhappy marriage situation for like about 13yrs, be a good excuse to get out of a marriage relationship?

2007-08-22 11:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Do you think if you've made love a lot during dating period, it is more difficult to have a long-lasting happy marriage? Is it true or not.. any personal examples?

2007-08-22 11:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by YucaKacamata 1

2007-08-22 10:59:32 · 23 answers · asked by Lmy1243 1

I am seeing an older man (20 years older) who has been seperated from his wife for over a year. We have been intimate several times and he has told me that he wants to see me have sex with another man (a large black man) and he doesn't want to divorse his wife until he knows for sure that i can go ahead with his fantacies. I feel i am just being used. What do you think?

2007-08-22 10:58:28 · 31 answers · asked by love 1

She is a stay at home Mom, but she works part time. She struggles with depression from time to time. I just think it's a matter of thinking positive, but she says it's not so simple. She wants to leave me because she feels like she isn't good enough. She won't go to counselling because she says we don't have the money to spend on it. How should I handle this. Is there anything I can say or do to make her feel better?

2007-08-22 10:50:59 · 18 answers · asked by robinslooking 1

If the wife really truely loves her husband and she is a real good woman, raise with good morals, but not too happy in the marriage relationship. Could she cheat on the husband? If possibly yes. How would the cheating process start out, another man making a sexual move on her [the wife] or the wife making a sexual move on the other man?

2007-08-22 10:48:39 · 18 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

Is there a free program or a way that will enable myself to find what my husband has been doing online.

I know he has MSN Messenger and Yahoo Messenger along with MySpace and I have the information to gain access to his acounts but I want to know what he has been doing in the past.

Im here alone now with two children and I want to show proff to my lawyer of what he has done so its not a she said he said issue.

Myself and my children thank everyone who helps us.

2007-08-22 10:42:05 · 19 answers · asked by zaqw12345 1

My co-worker is always on myspace. The problem with that is, she is always messaging back and forth with her ex-boyfriends. I know this because she tells me the naughty things they tell her, they invite her to lunch all the time. She is addictied. Her husband is a family friend of mine, and i feel so bad because they just got married. should i tell him?

2007-08-22 10:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by patty b 2

I I feel Iam at the last end.Please help.

2007-08-22 10:38:24 · 39 answers · asked by Wonderstar 6