Friend that always ask about my husband........?

Question

Ok I have this friend that I really considered a "friend".We've been friends for about 3 years she calls me her sister.Latley whenever we talk on the phone she ALWAYS asks about my husband a couple of weeks ago she told me that she "Wish she had a hard working man like my husband". What would you say or do about this situation?

Answer 1

Nothing really. Do you think your husband is doing something he shouldn't be? Or are you starting to question your friends trust when it comes to your husband? If it is the second then ask her over only when you know he is gone.

Answer 2

Hi friend,
I believe your friend admires your husband very much and might be secretly falling for him. But let's face it, there are so many men/women secretly admiring a friend's husband/wife. It's a most natural thing to look at something nice and attractive and wanting it. I think instead of being insecured about this situation, be proud that you have a husband that women likes. It's different when she wants "someone like your husband". She is simply setting a standard for her dream man to be like your husband. Nothing really wrong with that..By being sensitive and jealous you're making it a big issue and by being such you become unlikeable to your husband, thus he becomes vulnerable to temptations. But it also pays to be careful and observe..Hey, I also look at friend's wife and tell them "you're one damn lucky guy, having a wife like her"..You could've seen his smile from ear to ear. It's a complement to him.

Answer 3

Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. The automatic red flag is that she wants your husband. On the other hand she may be jealous of you and what you have. She perceives you as a happy person with a great thing and wishes that she had that. Remain supportive of her and encourage her that she will find a special someone who makes her as happy as you. If she starts dissing you and focusing on your husband then you have a problem. If you say anything now you will be the jealous overprotective one.

Answer 4

She probably just hasn't made as good of a choice in her marriage as you had. Take it as a compliment, & I always ask my girlfriends how their hubbies and kids (if they have them) are doing. They know I don't want to sleep with any of their hubbies! But I love my friends & am always interested in how their lives are going, family & husbands included.

Answer 5

i don't think theres anyrthing to worry about,because sometimes when i'm talking to my sister in law i will ask for her husband and hows hes doing,well i guess everyone is different,hes ugly has sin,lol.but they both have a really good relationship,and i admire them,wish mines is like that,but it doesn't mean that i have a thing her her husband,well we're family so guess its different.but beliee me some ppl,when ur consider as ur friend,u really have to keep an eye open.trust no one...

Answer 6

Being a guy myself and have been in that spot of asking the questions. Its the two that he's insecure approximately your courting and he thinks your cheating or he's cheating himself and doesnt desire to run into you on an identical time as your out doing all your element. If he's getting mad then there is a few mistrust there and you're able to desire to communicate approximately it.

Answer 7

I would keep my eye on her when she was around my husband to see how she acts. Don't she have other things to talk about. Just keeping changing the subject to one about the kids or anything else.

Answer 8

Friend that always ask about my husband........?

Answer 9

Is she even my friend anymore?

Answer 10

Choosing between friends..?