Marriage & Divorce - 22 August 2007

Do control people have an opinion about everything?

2007-08-22 07:19:10 · 22 answers · asked by Mr Potatohead 7

I chased her around the house with a scissor. Threatening to snip off her bra....Does that make me a violent person?

2007-08-22 07:16:39 · 23 answers · asked by Mergler 4

2007-08-22 07:16:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

just not praying enough? Sometimes I am too emotionally drained to pray. I always have a pounding in my head. If I am not available for this attention it is our 16 yr old son or the dog that gets it. He gets within an inch of our faces and just yells.
I feel I should be seperated for our emotional health.

2007-08-22 07:07:28 · 14 answers · asked by nursepixie 2

counselor when going through a divorce?

2007-08-22 07:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by beba 1

i hate he does this and the kids from her are very difficult and very bratty as they are not raised with structure and he let s them be brats , i cant stand seeing or having them in our home. what do i do. why doesnt he try to bond with my kids?

2007-08-22 07:05:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married for a year but never lived together we got married in texas we have nothing together i want to know the easiest way to get rid of her without spendin thousands of dollars i really dont want nothing to do with her but i dont know where she is, no phone no address or anything

2007-08-22 07:03:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, basically, I've been dating this guy, for about...9 months. We see eachother once a week, because he's working a full time (& now a part time job).

But now, I'm getting a full time job. So, I've been worrying that I wont see him even once a week.

Background info, lately, when we see eachother, I always have to come see him, because he's too tired after work to bus and see me. (which I can understand after working 8 hours, but it can't always be me)

So, I was thinking of a solution, which was that full time, we each get 2 days off. So, one we could dedicate to eachother, and one for our friends. (and if we don't get the same days off, then whoever has the day off, busses to the other person.
ex. he has wed. off, i have sat. so he comes here wed, i go there sat.) make sense? So we see eachother twice a week, and we don't have to bus after working 8 hours.

Anyway, so my questions: is this a valid concern I have?

And, does this sound like an acceptable solution?

2007-08-22 06:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

you then discovered that they had H.I.V./A.I.D.S, would you still marry that person or what would you do? And why?

Also, if u don't mind would u state ur age and gender. It's for a study. Thank you.

2007-08-22 06:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

and had to evalute their attractiveness - devoid of the 20 years of baggy comfortableness that youre familiary with them, makes you blind to -those changes that have crept in unnoticed with the passage of time?

and how would they see you as if for the first time, now that you're a little saggier or have already well and truly gone to seed!

2007-08-22 06:55:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I were going to church, looking at adopting my nephew, and then BOOM! The floor fell out from underneath me. He totally became a different person. He decided one day he didn't want to be with me any longer. I came home from work and he just came out and said he thought we'd be better off apart. Okay, so I left. You'd think that would be it, eh? He didn't just want to separate and take time off as he said at first, he decided to go a step further and try to ruin me as a person. He has been going around telling all kinds of lies about me. Saying I wouldn't let him talk to his family and that I was manipulative. ??? He was the KING of manipulation. As far as his family was concerned, he didn't have a relationship with them when I met him. Says him anyhow. I tried to push him to talk to his mother. So now I'm not only dealing with a separation, but a husband who is walking around trying to make himself look good by lying on me. What is going on here?

2007-08-22 06:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3

My man was so attentive the first 8 months of my pregnancy, we are both very excited. But now that the baby could come any day hes put like MILES of distance between us...i know our lives are about to change tremendously should i just stay away?...is this normal?

2007-08-22 06:47:35 · 5 answers · asked by Not here 2 make friends 5

we been to gether for 2 yrs. he gave me a promise ring in feb. for val.day.i been putting up wt his ex untill its not funny any more. she uses the kids to get to him.she was married to him for 17yrs. and was not the best moral wife. she left him for another got remarried,and devorced already.she uses him threw the kids. she calls every day,he goes to her house all most every day to drop the kids off from school.he has already took her back 6mths ago for a week. then came crying back saying its not the same and he loves me.i respected him for the kids sake,and cause he was the one who was rejected.but..he says its nothing but she's calls for any and everything.the other day she had a flat. he got mad saying its nothing. but what if i wasnt around would he of went see about her. she has other boyfriends let them see about her.then i heard when she said oh iam sorry i didnt know u were at yr. gf's hm. but i found out she new cause she had just called before he came,and he told her.

2007-08-22 06:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by ladycat 1

What is it with you guys and porn? I don't let my husband watch it, but I once caught him with one and told him if it happened again, it would be the end of our marriage. It makes me feel like I'm not enough, Is that what it is? Help me understand.

2007-08-22 06:39:55 · 43 answers · asked by sassy 2

I stated that I didn't feel special or important to my husband anymore & that it was causing problems in the bedroom & that I wanted to spend more time together outside the bedroom & fix our other problems. And I got a few answers saying that the problem was in my head, it wasn't my husbands fault & that I was being controlling. Is this true?

2007-08-22 06:32:44 · 9 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

I have a Co worker that is cheating on his wife....I know his wife well.......Do I tell?

2007-08-22 06:24:53 · 20 answers · asked by karry 1

I think it`s not possible to buy love, to buy time, and many other things....

2007-08-22 06:23:40 · 3 answers · asked by April 5

I want one. Are there legimate services that really do set people up or are they all rip offs like you hear on tv?

2007-08-22 06:23:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

To help a friend out, my husband borrowed, from my brother, a truck to haul something for a friend. In the process of doing this, the truck broke down, maybe blew the motor. The truck did have some age on it and is known to have problems. As far as I know, his friend has not offered to pay for it. The question my husband and I are disagreeing on is, who should pay for fixing the truck? I say it should be his friend, but my husband said he borrowed it so it's his responsibility. I understand that part, but if he wasn't trying to help this friend in the first place, he would have never borrowed the truck. It had to be towed and my husband payed for that, also. I'm just curious. My husband will end up paying for it, that's the way he is, but I'm just curious to what everyone else thinks. One other thing, I apologize for this not being a sexual question!!

2007-08-22 06:10:17 · 29 answers · asked by Needtoknow 5

My in laws are here from India. They've been here for three months (two weeks before my son's birth) and will stay for another three months. This is typical of Indians - the six month stay.

However, I'm having problems adjusting because I'm not Indian. I'm American and love my independance! According to Indian tradition the parents take care of the grandchildren after birth. At least that's how my husband's family does things. I don't like that idea. I like doing things myself. However, I've been really sick the past month so having a helping hand has been really nice. (I have a 17 month old and 7 week old).

However, my inlaws have been slowly loosing patience with the seventeen month old. Three times I've caught her with her hand in the air like she was going to beat him. She's yelling in Tamil - her native language.

And, my newborn has gotten used to being held and rocked all the time. So - I get no sleep. Is it mean for me to ask them to leave? What would u do?

2007-08-22 05:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6

I almost cheated on him and hes really mad hes a really good guy n i hate myself for doing what i did. I want to know how i could convince him into trusting me again.

2007-08-22 05:49:07 · 16 answers · asked by ..LostnConfused.. 1

I want to surprise my husband with a nice weekend where i pamper him. Any ideas of something i can do??

2007-08-22 05:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by soldiersprincess 3

I had long suspected that they are having an affair.

This guy friend of mine admitted that he's having an affair with this colleague in my dept when I jokingly asked him about it.

He's a father to 3 sons, she's a gorgeous smart lady. Ever since I knew of their affair, they counted me in for some of their gathering & we got very close now.

They care for each other. My female colleague is very understanding, always sparing a thought for his wife & sons. He's very loving towards my colleague too.

I am aware that, in actual fact, they are very miserable. Each of them once asked me if they shld split since there's going to be no outcome (w/o the presence of the other party).

Shld I just stay away from their mess or should I be advise them to split?? I am not trying to be nosey but they are deeply in love but can't be together just because they met too late, I just hope that I can help to end their misery.

2007-08-22 05:47:44 · 17 answers · asked by Momo 3

How can I help my wife achieve one by herself? I mean, things she can do to "please" herself; without me putting "it" in her, but she doesn't like toys and stuff. What can she do and how can I assist her?

2007-08-22 05:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

After all, cheating doesn't just affect the spouses, but it affects the children, as well. I can't help but think that if these people really cared about their children, they would be spending their time with them instead of getting their rocks off elsewhere.

2007-08-22 05:44:10 · 28 answers · asked by tangerine 7

Let's see. I'm 19 and my husband is also 19. Both families approved. We've known each other since 5th gd. And have been together for 5 years. We got married on June 30th, 2007. We both work full time and go to school full time. Any advice for a long happy marriage. I'd like to hear from people that have a long marriage. NOT someone who is going to tell me i'm to young and i'm unsure of myself.

2007-08-22 05:41:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't love my husband anymore. He's hurt me too much and I can't stand being around him. I just want to be by myself. I told him this almost 3 months ago, we were all set to get an easy divorce but now he's decided that he doesn't want to let me go. He's smothering me, he went onto my myspace and deleted all my messages. He's freaking crazy. I know that I am gonna have to deal with him to a certain extent because of our daughter, but he's crazy. He's says that he's never gonna give up and he's never gonna leave me alone. What should I do to get rid of him?

2007-08-22 05:40:26 · 13 answers · asked by MrsWifey 3

Did you see this story?

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20070822/od_nm/russia_crime_penis_dc_1;_ylt=ArM7UKnuJjQAcwtLdWmphV9kM3wV

See? It is NOT possible to live with a man you hate!

Me? I am just glad to live very far away from my ex-husband's so I am not tempted to commit a crime!

2007-08-22 05:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm very much in love with a man who feels the same about me. I'm 39, he is 41 and neither of us have ever been with someone we share so much in common with, have as much fun with or have even been as physically & sexually attracted to.
If things were different we probably already be married. There is no other man I want to spend my life with but him. But things aren't different.
Has anyone else gone through this? How do you deal with the heartache of not being with the one you love?

2007-08-22 05:30:11 · 14 answers · asked by candy'sroom 3

I suggested to someone on here that perhaps she should get even with her cheating husband by cheating on him. A lot of other people here have said that even cheaters don't deserve to get cheated on. Why not? Perhaps the only way they'll realize how much pain they've caused is if they experience it themselves!

2007-08-22 05:21:24 · 38 answers · asked by tangerine 7