and had to evalute their attractiveness - devoid of the 20 years of baggy comfortableness that youre familiary with them, makes you blind to -those changes that have crept in unnoticed with the passage of time?
and how would they see you as if for the first time, now that you're a little saggier or have already well and truly gone to seed!
2007-08-22 06:55:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To right I would Looks and appearance arnt important. SHE IS STILL THE SAME ON THE INSIDE AND I LOVE HER TO BITS
2007-08-22 09:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by david p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow -- you sound either really insecure, or you have a chip on your shoulder. In between the lines you've written lies alot about physical attraction, having kids, and no longer talking too each other. I could wrrite a BOOK on THAT one!
As for your first remarks... if I were single again, I would go by the guys personality, not his looks... SOME really good-looking guys are totally stuck on themselves. And I don't like hugely obese guys either. MY hubby of 30 years with me is just an ordinary looking guy... it's how well he clicks with my personality, likes,dislikes, and sense of humor that get mel.
2007-08-22 07:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes... Kind of a funny story on these same lines. Last week my wife went to a party before I did. When I finally got there, I saw this woman from the back as she was walking toward the buffet table and thought to myself, "Dang that woman is HOT!!" it turned out to be my wife in a new dress with her hair up. She got a good laugh out of it when I told her. We are both in our forties and have been married for 12 years now.
2007-08-22 07:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by smf_hi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm with my partner 10 years, and I still think I would be attracted to him if I met him now. I would make different decisions - I may not have chosen to live with him, for example!
I was married young, and there is no way i would look twice at my 1st husband!
2007-08-22 08:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by marie m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My partner only gets my first look, I love her more than I did 22 years ago. Age is a natural part of life, I would hit on her If I wasn`t married to her even now.
2007-08-22 07:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by I tell it like it is 5 · 9⤊ 0⤋
well my bloke is 57 and i am 44, he was aging when i met him 11 years ago but i found that attractive, i would still give him a glance if we were ex's unless we broke up in a bad situation... now if i saw my ex husband again i wouldn't give him the pleasure of me looking twice at him, that's a big waste of a glance.....
2007-08-22 08:33:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might look but I wouldn't hand anyone my life on a plate again
2007-08-22 11:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Paul R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MISTER, I don't know about you but as for me
things like beauty, clothes, ETC. are the sign of
a materialistic person ---- too shollow for me ---
someone i would not spend much time with .
I'll take an honest heart every time --
2007-08-22 07:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ghost Ryder 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would pick him again been married for 22 years and has been a good husband
2007-08-22 10:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to think about this one................wouldn't hesitate to go with my feelings. Love him just as much now as I did 14 years ago.
2007-08-22 08:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋