Do control people have an opinion about everything?
2007-08-22 07:19:10 · 22 answers · asked by Mr Potatohead 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Convince her she has nothing to fear from your independence, make her confident in your relationship and she can relax.
2007-08-22 07:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since I don't fully know your circumstances I will give a few tips of advice a few different situations. One is that maybe she's not being too comtrolling, she just wants you to listen, understand and like or agree/ care to disagree what she's trying to say to you. Actually pay attention, and actually care to have a say so in something. Then two, she truly might be a control freak, and if you can't stand it, start over, look for someone new, and that you can relate to and likes you for you and doesn't try to control. Now for three, don't go and find a 'door mat', it won't work out and after a while, being in a relationship that you decide everything on gets old and fast. There's over 3 billion people in the world, and in that not every woman has to be controlling, there is hope don't give up !
Best of luck -D
2007-08-22 14:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people in general have an opinion about everything ;) Especially women, Or at least most that I know. If you feel like you are being bossed around, talk to her. Good communication is the only way a relationship will work. Trust me :)
2007-08-22 14:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by Star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot stop people from being controlling,but can stop a person from controlling you by being strong and standing up for yourself.The only time a person can control you is if you let them.
2007-08-22 14:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like to know they are taking care of everything. Why dont you sit down with her and limit what she controls and let her know what you want to control...???? Assure her that you will do your part and she can check but not do and the same with you....I hope this works. You failed to say where or how controlling....
2007-08-22 14:24:26 · answer #5 · answered by Patches6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha I'm sorry that's very funny. I am so sorry for laughing, but you can't make a controlling person not a controlling person. It's the way they know of to deal with the world. (And to hide or keep in check their massive insecurites.)
2007-08-22 14:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont hahaha. Controlling is a personality trait that you either have to live with or you can avoid. If it puts to much strain on you then dont hang around with controlling people, or you can live with it. But you cant change someone.
2007-08-22 14:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by zeroregrets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop trying to control you or your moving on
2007-08-22 14:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Darlene F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's in her DNA.
All you can do it pick and choose which battles you want to fight, let everything else go. Really in the end does alot of what she wants to control really matter?
2007-08-22 14:26:11 · answer #9 · answered by jt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why yes, I do. But if I have hurt someone's feelings, I am sorry. Try ignoring her. I have met some people who are worse than me, and this always works. Just smile and nod your head.
These people who have said maybe she doesn't know or you need to tell her? She knows, and you do not need to say anything to her. Just smile and ignore.
2007-08-22 14:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her she's controlling you.
I am controlling and I do have an opinion about most things.
When my wife tells me what she wants, though, I back off.
Try that with her.
Good luck.
2007-08-22 14:22:20 · answer #11 · answered by Erik A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋