i have already gone out with him twice and i want to be with him!!!!!
2007-08-22 08:08:19 · 43 answers · asked by jaja 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"ALWAYS COMPLETE ONE RELATIONSHIP, BEFORE STARTING ANOTHER"
2007-08-22 08:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with most of the other answers. I don't want to sound mean, but do you have memory loss? This man became an ex for a reason and it seems to me you have forgotten that. Look at all the questions about someone moving on and then all of a sudden the ex wants them back. It usually ends up in a disaster because the ex wants what he or she can't have or doesn't want the ex to be happy because they aren't. I fail to see why you are out to get hurt again. Did it feel so good the first time you got hurt that you want to go back for more? I would bet that once you are free to be with your ex, he'll dump you like a ton of bricks. You may not believe it now, but why find out. You committed to another man and must love him enough to marry him so why wouldn't you want to give this marriage a chance? As a wise man once said, " A bird in the hand is better than ONE in the bush!" In other words, take the sure thing!!!
2007-08-22 08:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Needtoknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having a difficult time crafting an answer which will not get bounced by the YA police.
WTF is wrong with you?
Do you have the memory of a cow?
Do you want your ex to court you back have a couple revenge bangs, let your husband know about it, destroy your marriage again and the DUMP YOUR CHEATING @ss?!?!?!?
You probably have not considered that option have you.
Have you considered the "If I cant have her no one can" attitude that would cause him to break up your marriage.
You broke up for a reason. Was it your cheating ways in the first place? I don't much care if you were married to him once you are cheating your husband now.
WTF has your husband done to deserve this? Does he beat on you? Does he drink away the rent money? does he live on your money and sit at home and leave the place a mess?
WTF could he have possibly done to deserve his wife to turn around ONE FREAKING MONTH after the wedding and start whoring around with her EX?
Answer that question?
There is no sympathy for a person who is so thoughtless and devoid of any principle. You are truly beneath contempt.
2007-08-22 08:41:37 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honest answer. You are not a straight forward person and if you you can't stop it, it may turn ugly when whatever you do will come to light. At the end, you will be the one hurt behind it. Athough you are luck to get married after the broke up with your boyfreind or ex husband whichever the case, you have to make up your mind and make a decision who you want to be with. If you have a strong feeling and much love to your ex, divorce your currrent husband. However you know who treats you better. However I might guess that your ex may have realized that the best thing is gone and now he is fighting back to win you back. But the truth is that if you go back, you marriage won't he a happy one. Basical mental torture, flashback memories and nightmares of the other ex-partner. You shouldn't have married if you were not ready to move on from your prievous relationship? Why cheat on you husband? Remember two way killed a hyna. How? A hyna smelled meat from at a V Junction. since he wanted both, he decided to try walk both two way to see which one had a better meat. two feet heading to one way and two the other way and what happened was he tored both of his legs. This might be you if you don't decide now
2007-08-22 08:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh Boy! Girl, you need to make some really hard decisions before you go any further. Your bf has no respect for your marriage and im sorry neither do you. This is why the divorce rate is so damn high. You have gotten caught up in a web of false happiness. Remember why you and your bf broke up in the 1st place? Yeah, those same things will happen all over again. Don't make the same mistake again and ruin your new found happiness. The more you get yourself tangled into this mess its going that much harder to get out. No one has gotten hurt yet, take a step back, turn around and leave him alone. Its gauranteed that you will soon get caught and its gauranteed that it won't last. He just sees you with someone else and it makes him want you. Thats normal for him to feel that way. If your marriage ended over this he will leave you...Guaranteed. Don't look at how you feel now. Look at what you will lose if you got caught and you'll lose every bit of happiness your husband is trying to give you. It's not fair to yourself or your husband. Look in his eyes and wonder how he would feel if he knew.
2007-08-22 08:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by Caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is more to the story with your ex, but with the information you have given you certainly don't expect sympathy from anyone do you?? If there are extenuating circumstances in this story you should add them and if not...I guess that your husband would be better off without a wife that likes someone else so you should just be honest with him and go your separate ways...that is the mature thing to do.
2007-08-22 08:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by lilprincess029 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Y!A should implement computer code that requires any question involving wanting to get back with an ex to contain an explanation about WHY that person was your ex.
He was your ex for a reason, right? If you dumped him, I'm sure you had legitimate reasons, and if they were serious enough to dump him they were unforgivable. If he dumped you, then you should have more self-respect than to forgive him for that so utterly that you're apparently willing to cheat on your husband. This situation demonstrates poor judgment and a lack of maturity on your part.
2007-08-22 08:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
if your happy then keep seeing him!
will your boyfriend be a sort of Mistress to you? will he keep himself on the side lines? if the answer is yes then you can have the two of them, just do not let your hubby find out, and I knew two different married couples who the guy and the girl from the other marriage saw each other on the side for just about their entire lives, from middle school all the way until one passed away last year, nearly 80 years..and both of their marriages were so so happy, really a true story
just have to keep them apart..
good luck
have fun
smile
good luck
2007-08-23 05:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with everyone involved and make up your mind. You don't mention why you & your ex got divorced, but it must have been something big or you wouldn't have gotten divorced!? Why would you want to get back into that? I feel sorry for your new husband....I agree that you should get a divorce now because that's where it's going to end up anyway!
2007-08-22 08:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just should not be allowed to marry... You should definitely break things off with your husband, and then if karma serves as it should, your current ex should leave you high and dry for the next hot thing... You ought be ashamed of yourself...
what the hell is wrong with people today?
2007-08-22 08:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get rid of your husband and go back with your ex and will you do us all a favor? Please.....will you post another question when the ex leaves you again so we can all laugh at how stupid you are and it would be nice to see someone get what they deserve.
2007-08-22 08:36:04 · answer #11 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋