Are happier than children IN broken homes. True or false?
2007-08-22 07:54:05 · 11 answers · asked by meagain 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
true. lol
I was a child in a broken home... parents living together, fighting, lying, cheating, stealing blah blah blah blah blah... it was just ugly and it hurt and it was difficult. I moved the hell out to get away from it and they're STILL on again off again, bad mouthing each other to us kids... sadly my little sisters are in their teens and have to stay there.... I moved out at 20 and put off school, I am going to school but its much harder with the full time job and all.
2007-08-22 08:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two main words: HEALTHY ENVIRONMENT. The children will be most happiest in a normal & healthy environment no matter if it's one or two parent home. That question is so general because so many issues can be at play here. If two parents living together is there evidnece of arguing, fighting, abusing, doing drugs, drunks, etc. then no the children will not be happy.
And vice versa for the single parent. Are the kids being left with a baby sitter all the time, are the kids being left alone all the time, do they have a lot of trafffic of derelicts running in and out the home, does the parent bring a lot of "friends" over.
2007-08-22 08:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Caramel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got divorced from my children's biological father because he got into cocaine, drinking, and physical abuse. They were little, but saw too many things during their short lives. Soooo, I don't consider my divorce giving my kids a "broken" home. I made it a "fixed" one! I remarried a remarkable man who helped me raise the kids to be happy, stable adults. My sister stayed with her husband until the kids were grown. But they fought, slept in different bedrooms, had affairs, and were so wrapped in their own selves, the kids were neglected. Sooo, a happy marriage is the best for all, but a divorce can be second!
2007-08-22 08:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by zen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merely by way of fact a pair receives a divorce, it does not stick to that they are warping their toddler's view of love and intimacy. it incredibly is achievable that the toddler has different opportunities to work out a working marriage - grandparents, uncles and aunts, pals, so one failed marriage isn't the only type. no one receives by using existence without some disillusionment. mothers and fathers comprehend they could desire to be waiting to stay mutually and have a loving domicile for their toddlers, yet there are cases whilst couples merely can not do it. It does not recommend that the youngsters could desire to tutor out a large number. All it skill is that the mothers and fathers could desire to artwork that lots harder to handle one yet another with know and attention, if no longer love. And do a solid interest of elevating their little ones. do no longer positioned then interior the impossible place of being interior the middle, enjoying one element against the different. For the sake of brevity, there are countless procedures that divorced mothers and fathers can strengthen healthful little ones in the event that they desire to take the hardship to get some counseling, and be taught to know your ex, regardless of in case you do in comparison to them. it will be pronounced that no rely how tricky mothers and fathers attempt to grant their little ones each income of a solid upbringing, a number of them will finally end up screwed up, besides. There are merely too many procedures a toddler can get in hardship at the instant, and it can not all be blamed on a dysfunctional domicile.
2016-10-09 01:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit using your children as a catapult for want to use the term--"just not happy" Depends if its just normal fighting that happens in married life from time to time--then NO
If theres Abuse Major then YES--
2007-08-22 08:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot compare the two, having a fractured family is what was in the cards for me. I just count my blessings and know that there are much less fortunate people than myself in the world. I did not have a vote in the matter.
Do not feel sorry for yourself, no matter what, it is toxic.
2007-08-22 08:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sad question here. Kids can learn to cope from broken homes, but living in one is hell on them.
2007-08-22 08:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither - it depends on how the parents are around each other, and the children, regardless of the living arrangements.
2007-08-22 08:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not enjoy your question. But my answer is "from".
2007-08-22 07:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by James! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-08-22 08:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋