Should I wait for a man I have been with for two years he said he is not happy and dont think I am he says we might get back together and I kinda wanna wait an see because we have a baby together but I dont wanna wait and find out he found somone new .........WHAT CAN I DO...
2007-08-22 20:58:14 · 8 answers · asked by Heather marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When a man tells you that it means one thing he has a girlfriend.I know you don't want to believe that. I remember when my husband said those words to me, he wasn't happy and because he wasn't happy he thought i wasn't. He told me we would get back together but he didn't no when, so i waited and waited and i talked to some of my males friends and when i told them about getting back together but didn't no when they both looked at each other at the very sometime and said he has a girlfriend. I ask them why do you think that and they said guys never leave one girl without having another already. And they also told me the only reason he is telling you( we might get back together ) so you won't find a boyfriend in case the two of them don't work out he has you to come back to. Needless to say i didn't believe them because i just knew my husband still loved me. Well not only did he have a girlfriend he had been seeing her for 6 months before any of this started. Tell him you are going to start dating and see what he says.
2007-08-22 21:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? If he is really care about you and his child, he should figure the way to work thing out with you somehow. Because you and the baby need him right now more than anything. Why does he want to put the relationship on hold, and waste your time and his? Either work thing out or let you go so you can move on. Not happy is not a good excuse so he can put the relationship on hold. I think he is leading you on in the way, so you can't be with anyone else. And in the mean time who know he is looking for something new. If he not happy and which make you not happy also, then you should let him go and try to focus on your baby and your future. He is not the only fish in the sea. Find someone who appreciate your love and who'll love you.. Trust me, time will heal your wound. Just matter in how long, but it will.
2007-08-22 21:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get some backbone and move on. Many people have babies together who do not live together. If neither of you is happy, the relationship is doomed, particularly if you're not married. Somehow, the lack of a marriage certificate seems to mean lack of commitment. Are you of the opinion that if you can't have him no one can? Not a good idea. Just move on and build a new life for yourself and your child. You don't need him. He doesn't respect you.
2007-08-22 21:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can really tell you what to do you have to fallow your hart are you willing to Wait and see if he finds someone new and will you be OK with that disappointment if you two don't get back together or do you just want to try to make it work cuz of the child you two have together think about don't regret your decision later
2007-08-22 21:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by chicanaGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he's not happy with you, how would he be happy after sometime and that too is IF you get together. In my opinion its best you move on with your life. Good luck!
2007-08-23 01:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just finding a way to escape reality... it think its best that u move on and live ur life... don't expect for him to come back...
2007-08-22 21:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many men out there find another
2007-08-22 21:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by hjkrol59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on but get your child support
2007-08-22 21:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by shck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋