I am under the impression you are going through a depression that time has slowed down for you and that you feel helpless waighting for me. hold your bearing it is faithfullness we seek in love and sacrifise and it is hard to live this life styel, and I probley understand that more than enyone being that i am here and I antisipate you, in your loving and hating ways it always comes down to your faith in us and your emotional bearing I am scared of your hate side becase I have seen how unstabel you are and the ignorents that over comes you, that is what I dont trust is the side of you that broke my heart time and time again and it seems you have never lerned to control that side of you it had broght out the wours in me and I know that for a while now
thoughs emotional dramatic times we have had I had a strong part of me that just wanted to pick you up and kiss you and hold you close and tell you I love you and some how it would be alright and we would be content but you know that you were never open to the emoitional side of me were I just needed you to love me back right there that hard moment I dont know if you understand this letter pleas write back
2007-08-26 18:26:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-08-26 18:27:25 · update #1
The writer is expressing his love, but with caution. Apparently he's stipulating that you are depress and although he loves you, but when you are depress your character changes and this is the part that he fears of you. He wants your love but he can't tolerate your depression. Therefore, he is tore with the thought on how to be in your life and not became a victim of your anger. He is also claiming that during your emotional fits you became unstable and ignorant that over comes you. This action has broken his heart repeatedly (you that broke my heart time and time again) and you never learn to control that side of you...
In essence he loves you, but he feels that you have mistreated him. You must of done or said something not good that made him to address this letter to you or he may initiated something that made you upset. God bless
2007-08-26 18:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you retyped his letter one of you has very poor grammar! If he wrote it this way you should have fixed it, or did you have the trouble spelling? Well, what ever. He is saying that you can't be trusted because you are emotionally unstable, and every time you get depressed you find someone else to fill your sexual desires. You broke his heart many times, and he wants to trust you, but you have a really bad track record. You can't control yourself. You can't control your anger, or hate as he put it. He is afraid of you because you are extremely unstable. He wishes he could kiss you and love you and make it all better for you.He wants to share his sensitive side with you, but you are not open to a man being sensitive. He also expressed that you have a hard time loving someone back. Sounds like it is over for the two of you. Get some counseling. Things like this have a way of repeating themselves unless you change.
2007-08-26 18:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by gigi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, and he thinks you are a bit depressed, he thinks its hard to live the life style he is in right now,and that he wants faith in the relationship (one not thinking the other one is cheating) He is gonna be here for you through the love and hate no matter what, but he is scared of the side of you that gets mad and possibly revengeful, and how you get mad while ignorant and not knowing exactully what is going on come to conclusions and that broke his heart, but yet he still wants to be there for you and everything to be alright, but you never let that side of him come out.
Wow that was really deep. If this was a guy than you got him in deep it's hard to find that. If it wasn't a guy I'm sorry for putting the he's above, but they are in love with you.
2007-08-26 18:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by SSS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it is extremely hard to read because of the grammer and bad spelling.
But it sounds as if he says he thinks you have been going through a depression and helplessness waiting for him. That you both have to be faithful and love and sacrifice for one another. He wished you were not apart, and is afraid of your hating him, he no longer trusts you, as he has seen the unstable and ignorant side of you that has broke his heart. He had strong feelings for you and wanted to hold you close, tell you he loved you and that everything would be alright. You were never open to the emotional side of him, and he wanted you to love him back as much as he loved you. Please write him back. He sounds heart broken from missing you so much and is very worried you do not love him.
2007-08-26 18:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's apparently asking you to hold onto your faith in the relationship, and to stop thinking negative thoughts where he is concerned.
If he's in boot camp ... that is the WORST time for you to give up on a relationship that you believe may work in the future. They don't have time to write and call home often, but they certainly don't have time to be hooking up with the opposite sex, so don't worry about him cheating.
Get yourself together, learn to think positively, and meet him at the door when he comes back home.
2007-08-26 20:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by devyl gyrl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the person writing deeply loves the person they are writing too, but knows that the person they love has some issues mentally that are hurtful. The writer wishes he could fix the person but can't. Wants the person to seek help and be the person he/she can love without fear of being hurt.
2007-08-26 21:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone who know's the person they love better then the person who received it and is trying to express their emotions in the only way they feel safe doing it.
Its kind of sweet that they know this person so well or how they perceive this person to be even if the person it was sent to doesnt believe it , sometime's it takes an outsider to show us what really is.
2007-08-26 18:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone may still love you BUT does not like you. You have a side of you which when brought out, is ugly & unsafe, except (possibly) when your asleep or coming down. Are you a drug user, prostitute, bi-polar? What is that wicked side that the writer is referring to? Only you two know. You need some kind of fixen'.
2007-08-26 21:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Basicaly he is breaking up with you,and is trying to tell you that you have more hate than love.You did not love him the way he loved you and you weren't there for him when he needed you.He is tired of it.I may be wrong,but the beast thing would be to ask the writer to be more straight forward.
2007-08-26 18:38:35 · answer #9 · answered by avavu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well first of all he is trying to express his fillings through a letter and he love you and that an d that u is tired of waitin on him that when u get mad he wants to pick u up and kiss u and that u need to learn how to stop breakin his heart because it is hard to for give you when u do this to him because you keep doing it ova and ova again bassically hhe love you and that you is breakin his heart
2007-08-26 18:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋