Marriage & Divorce - 30 August 2007

Someone I know confided that he, a married man, has been constantly seduced by a married female boss, to the extent of sexually harrassing him ala Demi Moore on Michael Douglas in Full Disclosure. Should he be faulted if he gives in?

2007-08-30 22:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by Tita 1

Someone I know confided that he, a married man, has been constantly seduced by a married female boss, to the extent of sexually harrassing him ala Demi Moore on Michael Douglas in Full Disclosure. Should he be faulted if he gives in?

2007-08-30 22:32:58 · 19 answers · asked by Tita 1

I am having sex with my ex wife occasionally. is this correct? she is real hot & naughty.

2007-08-30 22:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by lincolnveto 1

im wondering..my guy he just got to know me..i mean we've been in a relationship for 2 weeks+..but on the day he got my number,right after that day,he already talk to me about getting engaged or even married..isnt he a bit rushing..?? i dont know why he's into me..??im confused..is he really serious with me or just want to get married with me because no one wants him cause he's a bit old..as in he's 24..or is he just curious for sex..??

2007-08-30 22:14:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

how would i tell him without hurting him
married over 11yrs.my heart isn't in it anymore
please help

2007-08-30 20:55:31 · 17 answers · asked by nicky L 2

And why are they always so nice to other ladies n not their wives always.

2007-08-30 20:48:46 · 25 answers · asked by candie 4

do you ever think about him/her? why and about what?? if possible, would you ge back together ?

2007-08-30 20:45:02 · 10 answers · asked by C. C 2

i am very unhappy in my marriage and really want out the problem is he never let me work in tweny years,and now says how will i pay the bills as i am not good at nothing,are house is rented and i have two small children how much maintenance does he have to pay for each child in the uk ,as i will work at what ever if i can just get by

2007-08-30 20:34:17 · 21 answers · asked by Jenny 1

My husband and I have been married for quite some time. He likes to play games on the computer and apparently, with me. Although l love hearing him play his games (from the basement), I would like to see him in our marrital bed.

I have tried everything. I see the shadow of him in our room, and hear him with me, but physically he is not there. I miss him. I love him and I think he still loves me. But I can't seem to get him to come to bed.

We have an intercom system in which he'll talk to me, but that is all the communication we have.

I miss my husband and wanted to know 1. what can I do to get him to stop playing on the computer and come home to bed. 2. what are the chances he'll ever just STOP and committ to us?

2007-08-30 20:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by xxxcariooo 3

Men only who were given that ultimatum.
Im fixed and she knew it. I have 2 children previously.
Fast forward after 8 years married, her "time running out" she wants me to get reversed. Thats B.S. I'm too old for that.
So she gave notice at work, I cornered her into admitting that she's leaving in a month. Says she still loves me but not in love ...Whoever made up that line had too much time on their hands. Probably a fantacy Harliquin book writer, she reads way too much. And the t.v. soaps! It's no wonder women are out of touch with reality.
So she's gone in a month.I'm getting her car ready, helping her pack. we are still civil but sex went to the wayside years ago. When it happens - it's usually Ok. Last couple years , it's the shits.
Took a drive midnite to the park and snoozed about an hour. Came home and got accused of having a gf! just because i Got upset and left cpl of times before.
She leaving and worried about me getting what I should at home and dont? WOMEN =NUTS.

2007-08-30 20:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by reinformer 6

2007-08-30 20:22:49 · 8 answers · asked by dhey 1

It could be your finances(debt-free), better parents, given up your favorite junk foods for weight loss, save a meaningful relationship with your spouse for marriage.
(No drama please)

2007-08-30 20:17:16 · 29 answers · asked by ☃FrostyGal♪♬♪ 4

I'm married 19 years, I'm 48 & hsbnd 41. We hv an overall ok marriage, couple of major crisis. Last winter I got really depressed due to loneliness. Our 2 children didnt wnt to spend time with me (17 and 12 then). Husband works a lot & tired when he was home. He wanted sex a lot but i did not feel cared for or appreciated.
Last May when i was really fighting depression (under Dr care) I met this man online. He is single, 35 y and offered me his sincere love. He lives ovrseas & I feel totally in love with him. Somehow my hsbnd found out i was online too much, all the way until last week he installed and espionage software on PC.
My online bf loves me & wants to marry me, he assumed im divorced, I never clarified. I hv plans to meet him this Nov.
My hsbnd is accepting how much he neglected taking care of me and ask sincerely for a last chance. I know family is + important but I gave 19 ys of my live to 3 people that are ungrateful, I feel used and I realized I desrve to be :)

2007-08-30 19:48:21 · 33 answers · asked by gracegptx 2

My friend grew up in a broken family, she currently split up with her hubby and would not get back with him because she is currently involved with her half brother. Her hubby discovered all about it and still tried to win her back to no avail. No one knows her relationship with her brother except me and her ex hubby. I cant stand the situation, she wont listen to me. It also turns out her brother is a womanizing jerk who keeps on hutirng her. She has 2 kids ages 11 and 9. What can i do to help her out of this situation? I am tempted to let her mother know but hesitant...pls help!

2007-08-30 19:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by mitchiko6teen 1

I married a man with a son who at the time of marriage was only a year old. I had 3 girls ranging in age 8 to 14 was much older then my husband by 9 years.

His real mother left him at the hospital when he was born because being a mother was not cool. Her loss my gain because my son has been the light of my life. His sister all loved him and spoiled him from almost the day he got married.

I can't even think how my life would be if I had never had this young man in my life.
Sad part now his father and I are getting a divorce he's in love with another woman his own age. he asked my son to stop calling me his mother MY SON REFUSED!
My son who is in IRAQ again is heart broken, I'm fearful that he might get hurt over that distraction because his father has asked him to stop writing me or even contact me.
My son a SEAL told his father that he was lucky he's not in his line of fire.

Any advise, I need to make sure he know I LOVE him, and still his MOTHER no matter what happens?

2007-08-30 18:40:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last July 4,2007, I was confined in the hospital due to heart enlargement.The schedule of payment in my friend is every 15th and 30th day of the month.He's forcing me to pay my credit as soon as possible.Our company had deducted me a P1,000 every payday for my hospital bill and my rate is only 272.00/day. I cried the last time he talked to me because he said a lot of things that terribly hurt me.The barrowed money is P3,000 plus the interest P3,000.He gave an interest every 15th and 30th day of the month also.Any advices from you?How can I budget my money if I was the only one working in the family.My husband is jobless...How can I explain to my friend that my salary is not enough and he knows it because he's my co-worker.

2007-08-30 18:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by summershane 0530 1

I had actually filed last year. We went through full custody hearings, the works. Soon after, he called me to proclaim that he'd "beaten my *** in court" and got "his kids back," but now he wants his wife back too. I didn't really want him back, I'm sick of it all but we went into counseling anyway. After few months I see he doesn't really want to change, he doesn't want to work on it - he just wants to keep his "family". He constanty undermines me in front of kids, telling them they don't have to mind me, letting them do stuff I just told them they can't do, letting them sleep in bed with him (then there's no room for me in the bed and I have to sleep in my kids bed or on the couch), picks fights, provokes me in front of kids. I asked him if he wants me to leave - he just grins and says "do what you want - I just want MY kids with me." Occasionally after an episode he'll bring home flowers. But nothing has changed. I am in despair. I feel trapped and humiliated in this marriage.

2007-08-30 18:00:25 · 25 answers · asked by jahzebel 1

i want your opinion and also unbiased suggestions plz...
my hubby drops his colleague everyday....she is a very proactive gal and gets along well with my hubby.I am informed most of the times n once in a while i get to be picked up if our timings match up....but it bothers me....i kinda am feeling very angry n i feel like asxking my hubby not to go with her....but i know one can't control others....but this is bothering me.....
so funny i am a very social crature n i have tons of frnds who r guys....my hubby is kool with it...
plz help...

2007-08-30 17:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

A few of the details. I'm 33, he's 40, we have 2 small boys. He deployed to Iraq and cheated on me with a female soldier there and a KBR contractor on his location. Neither were "emotional" involvements....more...."physical" hook ups....I'm trying to figure out if I'm a fool...or a fighter? I sent him care packages every week....and he says it honestly had nothing to do with me...that it was "mentality" of it all...said the female attention was crazy there with his unit (they had 8 married women deploy in his unit 4 have come home pregnant and their husbands left them...because it happened in Iraq)...and losing people every day....and that it just "happened"....he loves me..doesn't want me to leave....any answers? suggestions? thanks..

2007-08-30 17:49:36 · 25 answers · asked by broken_angell74 1

I am engaged and at times during an arguement/verbal fight he says he "could just punch me in the face" or push me out of his truck. Never has but makes comments. About 1 month ago we were arguing and I honestly dont recall exactly what I said but next think I know he is on top of me choking me on our bed, he was squeezing hard enough to scare me. He stopped and I told him recently that he scared me when he did that he apologized again but says I say things to make him mad. He does have a foul mouth when it comes to arguing he has no problem calling me a f...b...or the c word. Then we argue last night and I made a comment to him and laughed at him & he came running down the steps to me and was kinda on top of me like he was going to choke me but he didnt. I have told not a soul about this. I have been with him 4yrs, in conversations I have mentioned us going to counseling & he wants no part of it. Has anyone ever had this happen to them? What was your outcome? Thank you

2007-08-30 17:21:30 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I forgot to tell you that she wrote me a letter on how i change and how she felt guilty when i say to her that she doesn't love me that much she said sorry that she had to give up just like that do you think there's a good chance for her to come back?

2007-08-30 17:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-30 17:06:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really need help understanding Jehovahs Witness. So far what I have looked up and asked people is not good stuff about it I feel like it has changed my brother so much and it hurts to see him following there beliefs its almost like a cult. I also heard they aren’t aloud to play sports or watch it is it true? I don't know anything about being a JW so please no one get mad at me for asking about this i'm just very upset for my brother he had all these dreams and it seems like his "new family" is changing him every day, i would like to support him and be there for him but i do not like the girl or the family that he married they are very rude and stuck up and to make matters even worst they are JW and tell him not to see my family! I think they have brain washed him i don't know just someone please give me some insight on this!

2007-08-30 16:58:27 · 20 answers · asked by Ashlee 1

Im married for almost 3yrs now , my wife left and told me she wan't to find herself i admit i did some mistakes like i nag her sometimes and i always get want i want in our house like the car that i want and etc i really love her and what do i need to do she's been away now for almost amonth she changed her phone number and i don't know her where abouts her friend is keeping her away from me pls help need advice

2007-08-30 16:55:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

The man has severe trust issues,accusing and distrustful to the point of paranoia.Spouse is mildly overweight, but very attractive.
Man used meth at first, has since been sober 2 years.Both are previously divorced with children from those marriages,no children live with them. Man rarely sees his kids and has a horrible realtionship with his ex. Woman sees child regularly and has an amiacable relationship with ex.The trust issues,sexual dysfunction and his sobreity began within months of each other.They fight often, 90% of those fights centering around the husband's doubts.The woman had a fairly normal single life, but is faithful and genuinely in love.The man's single life was during his meth addiction and centered around sex.He has mostly been with attractive,thin women. He has severe anger control problems and says horrible things during the fights. There is no physical abuse.
He makes no effort at sex,and says its just an "ego thing" to want it from him.Is he just not attracted?

2007-08-30 16:52:45 · 10 answers · asked by hippiemania 1

would you still deny it because she didn't see or hear other person? The only evidence is make up traces, hair etc... and would you try to do it again??

2007-08-30 16:27:23 · 4 answers · asked by soccor_mom 2

2007-08-30 16:20:00 · 12 answers · asked by nobodiespaintball 1

i recently gave birth to my baby boy. but saw some porn in my husbands computer. he told me he needed to be satisfied and he did this so not to drift off. what you ladies say or do?

2007-08-30 16:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf is 9 years older then me (26/35). he's been going through a tough divorce for 2 years and it is final in a few months. we've been together for about 3 months now and i just got the "i'm not ready for a serious relationship" talk. I understand...but this is also not the kind of guy you give up so easily. i decided to be patient and continue to see him. How do i make him want me sooo bad without being pushy? and how do i prove our relationship would be nothing like his past? (i think he knows that but is scared...obviously)

2007-08-30 16:12:33 · 20 answers · asked by Jax 3

Ugh, my dad and i usta be pretty close, he tells me he loves me, that im his princess all that other jazz, but its mostly threw text message.
My parents are divorced and i never see him anymore, we always make plans to do stuff but he is busy w/ work alot, he outta town or in town but still has to work.
He has agreed to see me 3 weeks in a row but he keeps canceling, we were going to tomorrow and he was gonna pick me up at one, i just text him saying "i cant wait to see you tomorrow" and he says "i cant" i replyed "why" and he hasent texted me back, i tried calling but no answer.
He tells me he loves me but now i dont know if i believe him.

2007-08-30 16:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous