Marriage & Divorce - 30 August 2007

some girls say i will lose my virginity when i marry.....i think that if you marry in 35 ,what, you will be a virgin xaxaxaxa(i dont believe it)why this is a taboo (i dont say th girl to be pornostar )if you dont have sex with your bvoyfriend he doesnt stay with you for a day (if hes not a virgin and older than 20)and if you have a relathionship this not mean that you will get married with him ok i dont think that is bad to have sex with a boy that you really love without marriage its not bad

2007-08-30 05:02:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

apparently she is in love with some other guy which is fine cuz i got a hot gf who is cool as hell, should i iniate the divorce or roll with it?

2007-08-30 04:59:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 6months and just discovered that my wife had previously had two abortions from different men. She did tell me about these past relationships(One with a single guy, the other with a married man) but did not tell me she ever got pregnant for these men until i found out about her abortions from a doctor where we did scan test. She apologise for not telling me and asked for forgiveness and i have forgiven her though it hurt my feelings because she did not tell me before we got married.
She is not yet pregnant for me but can't get to take it out of my mind that my wife have had abortions. I really want to keep my marriage but the hard feelings is driving me crazy.........I can't seem to get it out of my mind.

2007-08-30 04:59:06 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine would never remember. If you have a husband that does remember, how would you deal with someone who doesn't?

Ours is coming up. Things have been so crappy between us I almost just want to let it pass without a word. But then, that's not me to not do something special. It's going to be 5 years. What would you do? Forget it, get a gift and not worry about reciprocation, or tell him?

2007-08-30 04:55:00 · 32 answers · asked by Wendy B 5

my best triends fella wants to take me out i keep telling him no but he keeps on i have told him i will tell my friend if he don't back off . i have been told he his great at licking and can drive you made without entering you with his tool . but my husband is just as good i have told this fella in the sex department my husband would leave him for dead . but my question is should i tell my friend .

2007-08-30 04:54:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met my wife 10yrs ago. She is 44 i am 36. She has a 24 yr old daughter 2yr old granddaughter. She has been married twice before this is my first. When we met she was living in a basement appartment working 3 jobs. We promised each other many things when we got engaged. She was going to quit smoking, she wanted more kids, I transfered my job from the city to the country area, which i didn't wont. Anyway now she has quit all her jobs, still smokes, and isn't interested in sex unless I beg. She stays home and finds things to complain about. I work shift work 12-18hr days. On my day off after nights I usually sleep in till noon. Lately i am acused of being lazy all i do is lay around watching tv"". I am the one that worked 89hrs last week. We purchased a cottage and a second rental house and goto carribean each winter. I know these things sound materialistic but how am I lazy? Its almost like I am only around to give he a better life than she had. DOES SHE LOVE ME OR $$

2007-08-30 04:53:42 · 9 answers · asked by oppy911 1

My mom called me this morning, she was crying on the phone and wanted a divorce from my dad. They have been married for 30 years, and this isn't the first time she said she want a divorce from him. She said she's fed up with my dad sitting at home doing nothing, while she goes to work. My dad is a computer engineer, he has trouble finding work because of his age, he's almost 60.
Right now I'm stuck, because my younger siblings emailed me to counsel my parents since I'm the oldest. Do you think I should butt in or not?
The whole thing is ridiculous, why would anyone want a divorce when they're that old?

2007-08-30 04:39:23 · 12 answers · asked by 結縁 Heemei 5

2007-08-30 04:34:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and have been married for 3yrs, together 4+, known each other for more than a decade (since Junior High). We grew up in the same small town, a couple miles from each other.

For three years, we've had a beautiful marriage. Hardly any fighting. We agree on most everything. We laugh, watch T.V. and movies, make dinner together, go out, read to each other, snuggle in bed, talk in bed until late at night, share dreams. The works. I thought everything was perfect. We'd end every conversation with "I love you!" Good or bad.

She is 22 yrs old, I am 23. We got married young. But we're both mature and have made it this far without any problems.

In May, she graduated college. I started noticing very subtle changes in her attitude towards me at that point, but nothing that couldn't be chocked up to standard moodyness. In June, she went to Costa Rica as a chaperone for a High School Spanish trip. She was gone for 2 weeks. When she came back, she was a completely different person.

cont.

2007-08-30 04:32:21 · 24 answers · asked by Mr.Manhattan 2

I got married in March. And now I wish I didn't. I am depressed, I hate my life here. My husband is nasty. Sex with him makes me feel like I am a cheap whore, his kisses feel like hot eels darting around my mouth, he flicks it all over my body and it makes me want to cry. I feel so dirty. I have sex with him, I don't tell him no, but inside I just want it to be over. I can't shower without him, he stands over me while I shave. I hate the way he looks at me. He says I'm beautiful and loves to look at me, but it freaks me out and makes me feel like a prisoner. He takes ever chance he can to smack my bottom or grope my chest. When we sleep, he is practically on top of me and if I move, he moves closer. He wraps his arms around me and I can't breath, his hand cups my breast and I pretend to be asleep. I am a stay at home mom and have no life, no friends, no family within a 600 mile distance. What's going on with me? Why do I hate him so much when I loved him 6 months ago?

2007-08-30 04:29:33 · 29 answers · asked by Lexie 1

my husband has just left me and i feel empty we have been together for 20 years and just out of the blue he has gone no arguments have we had previous to this and he wont tell me why he gone what do i do

2007-08-30 04:26:53 · 23 answers · asked by I&M H 1

why is it so satisfying???

i mean, if i get the occasional one i love squishing it and if i find one on my husband i HAVE to pop it......

is this weird???

2007-08-30 04:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by joey322 6

Like cleaning, cooking, and laundry, without having to be asked to do them?

2007-08-30 04:23:08 · 32 answers · asked by Bryan M 6

Ive met a chap who has the same surname as me, our birthdays are a week apart infact he was due on my birthday, we are the same age, his mum has the same christian name as me and we both have one younger sister and they both have one daughter !!!!
And we are getting on like a house on fire infact he will be moving in with me.
HAPPY DAYS !!!!

2007-08-30 04:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Finish and reach that O so sweet spot

2007-08-30 04:20:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am newly married yes and unfortunately I am still totally in love with my ex husband who is not such a great guy and I know that. We (my ex and I) share a child together that he has nothing to do with and left me because of. Like I said he isn't a great guy, and my new husband is. I just dont think I dealt with the pain of losing my last husband like I should have and now I am heartbroken and confused. Please dont be mean guys I am really really sad and it hurts like nothing I can explain. Has anyone ever been there? Sometimes I wonder what I would do if my ex came back for me, I think I would leave new husband and run with my children, does that make me as horrible as I feel?

2007-08-30 04:15:02 · 28 answers · asked by LilSunbeam 4

2007-08-30 04:12:02 · 27 answers · asked by confusi 2

My husband has cheated on me at least 2 times I know of and I have been thinking of ending it. Well about 2 weeks ago his brother brought me something for my son, and he stuck around for a bit. We were talking outside and he kissed my neck then kissed me. Now things are still going on and I couldn't be happier. I have fallen for him, because I knew things were over between me and my husband. I was sticking it out more for our kids. But we both have said we want to be together forever, the bond is so strong I have not been this happy in years. What do we do. He is going threw a divorce and I am leaving my husband this weekend. I can't think of the last time I was this happy. We have not has sex or anything like that but we tell eachother we love eachother. This is a feeling like no other... I don't know what to do now.. Anyone one with honest advise?

2007-08-30 04:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by so lost in life 1

Would you file charges?
I have reason to suspect that my EX hubby has used my children's information to attain credit. We are still on good terms dispite the divorce..etc. I haven't confronted him about this yet. I won't put up w/ this though. I just don't think that anyone else would have their information. And the ones who would have it would never damage their future like that. So, my question to you is...

Would you file charges against your EX if you were in this situation?

Should I just go straight to the police and file a report (as if I didn't suspect him)? Or, should I ask him about it first?

2007-08-30 04:04:20 · 23 answers · asked by JustAskin 2

We were married 10 yrs and have 2 children. I wanted counseling, but he refused. I asked how can I be a better wife. I'm not saying that I was perfect. He really scarred me emotionally to the point where I felt like nothing. There was no physical abuse. He always threatened divorce and wanted space so he can see where he wanted to be. He packed and moved twice and I told him one more time I'm gone. Well he did it the third time and I left. I gave him what he wanted and now he's giving me so much grief. He wanted to reconcile, but i continued to see the same pattern in him. He still has a place in my heart. He took me to court for custody, he called Child Protection on me, he withholds his child support, I have an upcoming court date, he constantly keeps up strife with kids.

2007-08-30 04:00:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has in the past been mentally abusive, threatening. I was not allowed to have a phone, car or a job until we had been married for approx. 6 yrs. I was allowed a job only because our 3 children could not be supported on his income alone. I am not allowed to "go out" with any friends (even shopping) and if I rebel and do it anyway there is the 3 day arguement when I return. Over the past 2 yrs, my husband has experienced ED and premature ejac. I have been very understanding, we have talked, gone to counseling, spoke with the MD. Even before this we had problems because of the way I was treated. When I would threaten to leave when the kids were small, he would threaten me back with I would never see them again. Now that the kids are almost grown he threatens me with "I'll kill myself". My therapist says he has nothing else to hold over my head and he is desperate. When we have sex, which has to be scheduled for viagra purposes, it disgusts me! Also, I am not allowed to move during sex.

2007-08-30 03:53:23 · 32 answers · asked by goldpony2002 1

Do you think it is ok to call your spouse a B!+c# if you "think she is acting like one" but she does not believe she was?" Why can't I get over this? The hubby and I got into an argument over the phone ending in him calling me the above word and hanging up on me. I believe we are both at fault for this and told him. I apologized for the things I thought I was at fault for and expected him to apologize, at the very least, for the name calling. He still stands by his word choice. He defines a B**** as a woman who is not "using her head." Is that what you guys think? Please help me with this and be honest but tactful.

2007-08-30 03:52:13 · 13 answers · asked by boxiedoxie 3

the reason that makes me to ask such a question is that i met a girl whom i fell in love with and the girl was now telling me that her father will kill her if hears that she is moving out with a guy.and that i should not call her and even if i see her on the road coming with her father should pretend as if i do not know her at all.this arouses the question of a state or condition of a relationship without communication?

2007-08-30 03:51:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was the matron of honor in my cousins wedding. Well after the wedding me and the best man hooked up. We were both married and had families. So we knew the consquences before hand. Anyway we started sneeking around seeing each other. We never intended on being with each other it was only a"lust" thing. But I think that I may have developed some feeling for him. But both of our spouses found out and his wife left him and me and my husband are seperated. But now he doesn't want anything to do with me. He wants his family back but his wife doesn't want him. What am I to do I feel so stupid because I still want him in my life. What should I do to get over him?

2007-08-30 03:49:24 · 15 answers · asked by Punkin 1

was your first few weeks of marriage (or even a month) 'the honeymoon bliss' that everyone talks about.. or was it hard and stressful?
I recently got married and it's been a constant agruement and struggle....

2007-08-30 03:48:34 · 13 answers · asked by stephanie 6

2007-08-30 03:47:02 · 6 answers · asked by tt 1

i met another woman, 2 kids at park/indoor play area. we became friends, exchanged numbers, meet at parks etc with our kids. yesterday she called to meet at mcdonalds play area. i went. brought one child cuz my other kid stayed and slept over her friends. i met her there with her 2 kids and one of mine. an employee and mcdonalds finished her shift and came over to talk to my new friend. it seemed like they already knew each other. my friend told me she was gonna walk her out (emloyee friend) to her car and would probably have a quick smoke and be rite back. i said "fine, no problem". well, she must have been gone for at least an hour leaving me not only to watch my son, who is only 4 and her 2 kids. i was so mad, i left with my son. when she saw me leave, she and friend ended talk quickly. she asked me where i was going. i told her i was leaving. she apolized. she called me later that nite about 4 times saying sorry. never answer her calls. what should i do. thanks

2007-08-30 03:44:05 · 31 answers · asked by havingfun 4

before that i don,t know that my husband can,t go with me but today he said that he can,t go with me cuz his work i am so afraid i can,t do it alone.before that i have make my mind that my husband is going with me but today i am realy afraid that what happened with me at the delivery time its my first baby?

2007-08-30 03:42:02 · 2 answers · asked by sehrish s 1

My wife and I have been married for 13yrs. I am 33 she is 32,we have 5 kids.
She has recently told me she her feelings for me have changed.She says theres nothing there,
What should I do.Should I take it and move on or fight for our marriage....I have always been faithful to my wife..she is my best friend and I thought she was my soul mate.

2007-08-30 03:40:14 · 34 answers · asked by shellhiggs07 2

My husband and I both get brazilian sugarings (like waxing) and we both love it. I started a few years ago and encouraged him to try it last year. We go every four weeks together.

Although he really likes being "bare", he's now embarrassed to use the showers at the gym and the pool and waits until he gets home to shower. Do you think that most guys would feel this way? Would anyone even notice? I have no problem with showering at the gym, but I'm sure it's different for guys.

2007-08-30 03:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by jc 2