some girls say i will lose my virginity when i marry.....i think that if you marry in 35 ,what, you will be a virgin xaxaxaxa(i dont believe it)why this is a taboo (i dont say th girl to be pornostar )if you dont have sex with your bvoyfriend he doesnt stay with you for a day (if hes not a virgin and older than 20)and if you have a relathionship this not mean that you will get married with him ok i dont think that is bad to have sex with a boy that you really love without marriage its not bad
2007-08-30 05:02:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this not mean that with anyone you but with a man that love.and you dont protect your self.i really believe that is not bad .you fill the love with somene that you are in love .you have experiences and you can make you husband more happier in bed.and all of you that you said that i marry and i will do sex you marry in 20 and something make a kid take divorce you also mary the next one and make another kid.this is not more correct than too marry fromm the age of 28-35 and have all the sexual and the rellathionshp experiences that will make you the perfect husband and will not be worried if i try with one more before marriage how it will be.and you dont marry just to marry but the right one and you must search for this not to marry the first because hes the first my mother said
2007-08-30 11:51:56 · update #1
sorry take protection imean
2007-08-30 11:54:05 · update #2
I think its a personal choice that everyone has to make for themselves.
I was a virgin when I got married and so was my husband. I was 18 he was 21. I see no problem either way because i think you have to live your life how you want to.
What a thumbs down because i half way agree with you. I dont care who goes out and has before they get married. Go for it. Live your life how you want. I was just telling you my personal experience. I said nothing against your choice.
By the way we werent virgins because of taboos we read or preaching from parents, Goodness knows especially not that on my half. ( my stepmom was constantly trying to get me to have sex as a teenager because she wanted grand babies) We just had both never found a person that we wanted to have sex with before we got married.
And we didnt and dont see sex as a chore. Sex is one way to express our love for one another.
2007-08-30 05:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think everyone has the right to decide for themselves but in my opinion our society puts to much emphases on sex. I know that when i was ready i was ready and just because i had had sex before when i dated a new guy doesn't mean that i would have sex with hI'm. I personally believe sex is something to be enjoyed and not a chore. My suggestion to everyone would be to do what is right for you but at the same time consider the other person involved. If that person says im not ready don't push them and vice versa.
When I started dating my husband i wasn't a virgin but he was but it was okay with me and fine with him as well. neither one of us looked at whether or not we were virgins we looked at all the other qualities.
I also believe that you shouldn't expect a person to be a virgin or not depending on how they look or act or that you should say that an experienced person is better than a virgin because it isn't always true.
Yea some women and some men think that sex is a chore but most of the time that is because one or the other in the relationship expects sex.
2007-08-30 05:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lindy G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when i got married he wasn't because he was married before me he had only bin with her but he waited almost 2 years before we got married and I'm glad we waited and so is he he didn't leave he stayed and he was 26 when we got together. so you just have to find the right guy
2007-08-30 05:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by nikie_atkinson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think both men and women would like the thought of
"being first" and the enjoyment of that "once in a lifetime"
gift. By same due respect, if the love is there the importance
of virginity don't amount to a hill of beans.
2007-08-30 05:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not 100% sure of your question. I don't think it is right...but I don't think anyone waits for marriage anymore. I had my ex fiance wait until we got engaged. I thought he was "pure" also. Then I ended up with a STD. It was one that was curiable, but it certainly made me think about things. Here his buddies hired a hooker for him for the night on his 21st birthday. Isn't that a great present an STD. If a girl isn't pure doesn't make her any less of a person. I just hope that you protect yourself. Don't end up like I did. I was lucky and I learned from it.
2007-08-30 05:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by hard rock girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was a virgin when I got married at 22 my husband was 28 and we were together for a year. We love eachother and he had no problem waiting.
2007-08-30 05:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by sarah W 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
This questions is like throwing random words into a hat and letting them fall as they may.
Anyway...
1. who's a virgin before they marry nowadays?
2. test drive before you buy; you may end up with a lemon.
2007-08-30 05:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It is up to each individual person.Nothing wrong with having sex before marriage and nothing wrong with waiting either.
2007-08-30 05:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
personally i don't prefer a virgin.I would rather have someone i'm going to spend my life with experienced sexually,and know at least as much as i do.Virgins have so many taboo's they read about that sex is a chore for them.....George
2007-08-30 05:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by tgeorge12000 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would NEVER marry a virgin, no way
I want the experienced woman in my life
2007-08-30 05:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by timestamps 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋