my best triends fella wants to take me out i keep telling him no but he keeps on i have told him i will tell my friend if he don't back off . i have been told he his great at licking and can drive you made without entering you with his tool . but my husband is just as good i have told this fella in the sex department my husband would leave him for dead . but my question is should i tell my friend .
2007-08-30 04:54:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you take the risk of fooling around with your best friends man? You are just asking for trouble, from both sides. Yes, you should tell your friend that her man is a cheating womanizer, if she's really your friend. And as for you why should you care how good he is at "licking", you are a married woman, so it shouldn't matter.
2007-08-30 05:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by CSmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you are leading him along. By discussing how great your husband is you are engaging him further and secondly, you are slightly progressing his behavior forward. Furthermore, I wouldn't tell my best friend, because you are just as guilty. How would you like it if she were to discuss the sexual performance of her boyfriend with your husband?
If you are sincere in not being bothered. Tell him so and leave it at that. No discussion, no smiling, Nothing. If he doesn't get the hint, then you may tell your best friend. But first you need to get your own dirt swept up before you can go dumping someone elses in your friends' lap.
It sounds to me like your inquisitive? You want to know what he likes with that tongue of his because you've heard the stories.
Just my two cents.
2007-08-30 12:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by I Love Him Always! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying you and your friend aren't close, but unless you have this guys texts asking you for sex or something recorded on a tape player, she will not believe you. She might even end her relationship with you out of jealousy that you are trying to steal her man. You shouldn't even be talking to him like that. Just say you are not interested. If you want to spare your friend you need to get proof belive me.
2007-08-30 12:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by chinita25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me why you even talk to this creep. Those who boast about how good they are in bed are usually crap. Tell him to f**k o**. Not sure whether i would tell the friend. If she announces that they are going to get married then i would warn her off. Hopefully she will find out for herself what a creep he is.
2007-09-02 12:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by chelsea19622000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh YES!! I think you should. You don't want your friend to be stuck up with a sucker like that do u??
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2007-08-30 12:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by AYOOZe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend that you tape record the conversation between you and the guy and then play it for your friend AND your husband. Sounds like the guy is a real loser, so he deserves whatever he gets.
2007-08-30 12:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by tempest_twilight2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell her.... wouldn't you want to know ? and if he is hitting on you i am sure he is hitting on some other ones also.. She might get ticked off and might not believe you are first but you will put the thought into her head and he will trip up and she will see him for who he is.. she will thank you for it later.. actually why are you discussing how good your hubby is anyways? maybe he gets off just hearing about it? deb
2007-09-03 00:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by debbie_cerra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your friend. If he's willing to do it to you her best friend then who else is he hitting on or doing?
I would also tell your hubby so that way he knows to keep that guy away from you!
2007-08-30 12:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you posted this question, and more than that, I really can't believe you don't know how to handle it. Some people need to have things written out in crayon to understand. I don't have crayons, but I'll say it anyway.
If she's your friend, she deserves to know, especially if she's your best friend as you say she is.
2007-08-30 12:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, he will only try it on with someone else when he gets bored of pursuing you and being knocked back and the next girl he tries it on with may well do something with him. tell her and your husband too. FYI. little bit too much info about his sexual prowess, it really has nothing to do with the question.....
2007-08-30 12:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋