Marriage & Divorce - 3 September 2007

in that marriage or not?

2007-09-03 23:56:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-03 21:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by Cristiana T 1

I'm a GRANDMOTHER now and only 35 years old!
I had my Daughter at 14, and she got pregnant and had her son at 14. I have had custody of him scene we got home from hospital he's now 8 and the one TRUE JOY of my life!

T work 2 jobs SAFEWAY, scenes I was 13 and COSTCO for last 12 years and sometimes I have to work 17 or 18 hour a day at least 2 days a week.

This past Friday I worked from 3am noon at Safeway, then 12:30 pm till 8 pm, when I got home 10 minutes later my grandson had not been feed, but that was okay because my grandson made dinner for me, what wrong with this picture?

He used the Toaster oven and made me a BLT, Perfectly he then pulled out a plastic pan and put my feet in it and got hot water for them to soak! Again I ask whats wrong with this picture?

My Mother who lives with me free of charge brought home a guy walked by and took the wonderful sandwich my GRANDSON made for me and gave it to the guy of the night.
Again whats wrong with this picture?

2007-09-03 21:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other family had one child. the husband, an alcoholic used to abuse the wife (domestic violence). the husband did not either love or support the wife and the child. the wife and the had to quit- to overseas. the husband had to use all the ways to humilliate the wife- he created the story that the wife has eloped with another man. was it wrong to quit from domestic violence?

5 years has passed, the husband does not bother to support his child though the child lives with the mum but the husband insist that the wife should go back and sort the issues.

in this situation, do you think the wife should go back to her husband?

will the husband change his unreasonable behaviour?

will the husband start taking his responsibilities in caring, loving and supporting his family- wife and the child?

please comment.

2007-09-03 21:39:34 · 19 answers · asked by cecilia m 1

My husband and I got married October 2005. I paid for the wedding, got no ring, and have been very dissatisfied and embarrassed by the entire event. We met each other online earlier in 2005 and in a spare whim got hitched. The sex we had in the beginning of the relationship created my son who is 12 months old who I love more than anything in this world. I only knew this man from his IMs and from 5 months of in person contact before the October marriage. He lied a lot about who he was, his past, etc... I can't stand his family either and have many issues with this. I feel really disconnected from him and I don't even find him attractive. I can't stand him. I try to for the sake of our son but I just can't do it. I basically fell out of love with him. I don't know what to do. Is there a way to reconnect with him? Asides from the lying and a few verbal outbursts he isn't a BAD person, just someone needing redirection. I just don't know what to do. I feel so old and ick and I'm only 24.

2007-09-03 21:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by mizrox@verizon.net 1

2007-09-03 21:24:32 · 25 answers · asked by cecilia m 1

My soul mate of 20+ years and I are at an impasse. We have weathered many storms together and each has made our love stronger. Then about 10 years ago things began to slowly slip away. Now at 20 years of marriage we still both love each other.....I'm just not too sure we are in love with each other anymore. We are in a routine that never changes. Neither of us can find things to talk about together when we used to stay up until the wee hours whispering and talking so much that we really didn't want to go to sleep and stop all of the sharing of ourselves with each other. Now we sit on the "love seat" together and watch some t.v. after dinner. We hold hands and speak niceties to each other but we really have no communication between us. Then it's off to bed, kiss, kiss, say I love you and then we turn our backs to each other and go to sleep. Is there any hope for us? Does anyone have any suggestions or advice?This is really serious so please, no silly or meanspirited replies. Help please

2007-09-03 21:00:00 · 27 answers · asked by Linda K 2

2007-09-03 20:47:57 · 8 answers · asked by Washington 3

My husband is not pleasing me in bed at all, for the past month our sex life has been so bad. We never had this problem I love my husband very much; I know he is not having an affair because we spend every minute of the day together. We own a bar and we work together, shop together, we do everything together, I think that is the problem that we spend to much time with each other but my husband said no that isn't it. But his mind just is not in the bedroom. He has turned into an awful lover. What should I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings.

2007-09-03 20:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i hear that a man should do $ex with his wife after 2 days(after doing sex).should man do sex rgularly or after 2 or more days

2007-09-03 20:40:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife needs $1500 so she can go back to school plus she needs a new laptop. I just found out that I have $3k coming to me and within 20 minutes of my wife finding out that I had some money coming, she asked if I could pay her tuition and buy her a computer. At first I didn't mind, but I just found out that she has been blowing her money in a forex trading account. So far, she has lost about $1k or so (that I know of). I asked her if she was trading in forex and at first she lied about it. Im really starting to feel like she is taking advantage of me. I already pay her car payment, which is $700, when she blows her money and can't make the payment. Ive asked her to let me handle the finances, but she just gets mad and indignent. Im considering telling her that she needs to bail herself out bc if she really wanted to go back to school, she would have set up monthly payments on her tuition and used the money she lost in forex to buy a computer. Would it be wrong of me to tell her that?

2007-09-03 20:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by John B 1

I am from India and reside in India.

2007-09-03 20:26:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-03 20:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by JOHN 2

we both are in love fro the past 2 years. we cant leave each other. we have tried leaving each other..but we were unsuccessful in that.. i cant marry anyone else. i cant even think of anybody else. the boy's family is quite well off , educated. even my family is very well off and educated.but my parents are not agreeing at all. what shud i do..plz suggest me.

2007-09-03 20:02:38 · 14 answers · asked by neha a 1

Will you like to tell me What are 4 advantages and disadvantages of keeping a servant ? male or female .

2007-09-03 19:47:38 · 7 answers · asked by Heights! 2

2007-09-03 19:46:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife recently asked me to spice up our marriage, so she wants to go out to the club and bring a beautiful girl home with us. The thing is, is that I don't think it would help our marriage...but, dammit..it's 2 girls on me! Can anyone point me into the right direction!

2007-09-03 19:31:08 · 26 answers · asked by GoodBadGuy 2

that get on with life because they are happy outgoing people. Now to what degree can he read minds?

2007-09-03 19:26:57 · 13 answers · asked by woptie 3

we where messin around on my carpet, and i pinched his but and pretended to bite him ( i nibbled his arm a lil )

so he grabed my fist and jamed it in my mouth and i started to cry and wimper...(couldnt exactly talk) and he made my fist hit me like three times...

it drew blood and split my lip... i dont think he was playing because he saw me crying and i know he heard the wimpers... i dont even want to go near him right now...hes never done anything like this before...

what should i do?

2007-09-03 19:20:46 · 26 answers · asked by codie rose 1

my husband is fine with me till i mention a certain womens name he works with then im every nme in the book the only way i can get him to do anything for me is if i go through her but when she is away oin the weekend he treats me fine unless i say her name hell say im leaving you and her i think hes cheating we got three kids what do i do

2007-09-03 19:16:15 · 12 answers · asked by thomas f 3

My fiance is well educated but broke, divorced, co-parenting a 14 year old princess (oh, I mean daughter) every other week. His daughter is VERY rude to my son who's also 14, (his dad passed away 3 years ago, so obviously he's with me full-time). My fiance is hounding and hounding me to buy big, expensive home for us all to live in because "dating" (the going back and forth) just isn't working. We have opposite money habits, different parenting styles and we're both 57 years old. (Might I add, his dog is untrained, too.) Other than that, everything is peachy!

I need you to help me tell him that I DID buy a big fancy house (I've been "lying" because I haven't told him) but I don't want them to move in! (I'll be moving there after the 18th of Sept.) And, I don't want to get married. He has a bad temper, and he's going to be very disappointed, so: WHAT DO I TELL HIM? (Thank you!)

2007-09-03 19:09:34 · 18 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4

My wife cheated on me while on deployment and she has settled in with her new man already. So i am actually feeling bad about going out with other women. She has clearly moved on even though we are only separated and not divorced yet. should that matter? i find it hard to move on. any advice, suggestions, comments, questions, etc...

2007-09-03 18:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by shyboy84 2

i am a 23 year old muslim male living in usa, and this girl who is almost 22 living in bangladesh, we r deeply in love with each other. we really want each other but unforetunetly she got nikah (married) not willingly with someone else, and now after 2 weeks she has to leave her house officially. and stay at her the new place. she is going crazy, she wants to be with me and i am going crazy as well, but we dont know what to do now, if we elope that would hurt our families, and its bound with family respects and all, but we cant live without each other thats for sure, now what can we do, what can i do. i have no idea, so plzz guys help me out give me ur best thoughts to overcome this nightmare.

2007-09-03 18:48:40 · 7 answers · asked by tanvir s 1

love
marriage
punishment

2007-09-03 18:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by JAYAMEGA 1

stating among other things that they had had an affair, and cited specific dates, location, and with whom, and you knew your wife to be the kind of person for whom this wouldn't be unthinkable, what would your reaction be? what would your reaction be if you were a naturally jealous, somewhat controlling person? i'm not going to be sending such an e-mail, and i didn't have the affair, just to be straightforward, but i know of a similar "situation". this e-mail would've had a name and additional unflattering info as well, so it wouldn't be anonymous either.

2007-09-03 18:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by abc123 1

Could this guy be interested in my wife. She says he stays voluntarily past his shift to talk to her.

2007-09-03 18:43:02 · 23 answers · asked by Lenworth E 1

Me and My wife are both dual Military with three girls. One together and the other two from previous Marriage with ex and old boyfriend on gef behalf. Anyhow she is deployed to Kuwait and ahs filed for divorce from there because I told her that I bought a motorcycle a week after she left for deployment and wrecked it not even a month later. Is that a legitimate reason for divorce? And then she adds to it that I'm not there for her emotionally whaen she feels she needs me most. I Love My wife and I dont want the divorce but she's determined and like I mentioned, she filed from Kuwait and I recieved the papers in the mail and filed my response. On top of that she willfully accepted orders to Hawaii without considering me or the effect it's going to have on the kids. I dont know what to think. Everytime we talk via email or on the phone, she ask me if I'm taking care of buisness as far as being gone by the time she returns in November. I staying in California. How will Custody work also?

2007-09-03 18:39:15 · 7 answers · asked by nortondo 1

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. I always know what I want. It doesn't take me forever to realize it. I have talked to him about marriage and he says "in the future, you need to finish school.... " and so on. I'm kind of old fashioned. Don't get me wrong, I partied in HS until I got sick of parties, party friends, drugs...... etc. I know I love him and I want to do things the right way. We're doing things backwards. We live together (beautifull apartment), have sex and we're not married. I want to get married but I don't want to make him feel forced. One more downside........ahhhh....... I'm 18 and he's 27.
I don't believe age has anything to do with anything. And please don't be like " OH.... you're so young, live your life". I don't want to date a lot of people. I want to be with one person. I don't want to try on guys like frickin jeans. If you can give me some good advice I apreciate it, but if you don't.........ahhh... don't waste your & my time.

2007-09-03 18:35:50 · 17 answers · asked by Girlie Girl 2

leagally???

2007-09-03 18:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am going through a divorce after a marriage of 1 year. Wife has remained separate for almost a year now and have no kids.

If nothing more i do feel a need to connect to the female species but am not ready for a relationship or any physical thing as am not divorced yet. Have joined certain activity class to de-stress myself where i meet a number of females. Many are eager to get to know me better (my assumption) at the same time i feel a certain girl(married) is eager to share about her personal life. Ofcourse i don't want anyone's emotional wreck as i have enough of mine. But is there a possibility of being just normal friends with her and nothing more or too much of emotional exchanges would mess up things? I admit i find myself quite vulnerable.

Thanks in anticipation of your answer.

2007-09-03 18:31:01 · 10 answers · asked by protege 3