Marriage & Divorce - 3 September 2007

2007-09-03 10:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

i love someone who loves another man she as never met & never will what do i do?

2007-09-03 09:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by i love anne 5

I am 29 and I love being single but my mom tells me that I have to get married at some point in life. She also told me I have to have two kids for some reason. How much longer am I allowed to enjoy my single life until I am forced into getting married (which I don't want to do)?

2007-09-03 09:53:12 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband hasnt been interested in sex for a couple of weeks ,I have kind a complained about it and he has been wrking hard and partying so much on the weekend ,that it seems just working or partying and thats it.Do u think its best to just shut up and wait till things slow down! He always says he loves me.Thanx

2007-09-03 09:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by jessy 3

is he not just just putting the wheels in motion,,,

2007-09-03 09:48:57 · 15 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

Only serious concerns are accepted and those who know what it feels like loosing a spouse

2007-09-03 09:48:17 · 13 answers · asked by Richard K 3

I am 14 and am wondering if u could get married at that age legally in America.

2007-09-03 09:34:24 · 17 answers · asked by john 1

it seems like everywhere i go, i hear people talking about divorce, or spliting up, or moving on, or moving out, and lawsuits, and restraining orders, and even murder!!!!! what has happened in the world??? will someone please explain this to me?

2007-09-03 09:17:26 · 8 answers · asked by natyep :] 5

I do not want to judge my friend and her marriage. What I do want is another person’s opinion to see if my view is off base.

My friend (a female) is married to a guy she adored since childhood. He is younger than he and she had a child to a previous relationship before dating and finally marrying him. He had to finish college when first married, but also took part time jobs to equal her income, and made more than she. To make up for not working full time and because she hates to cook, he does all the cooking, cleaning, running errands, yard work and childcare. They now have a child together also.

Often he is approached by women and at work was inappropriately approached to which he opened addressed the matter. She gets mad at him when women are interested in him, yet he never goes out without her, but she likes to have a ladies night out at least once a month where as she dresses to attract men.

She complains that he is not romantic enough, even though he designs jewelry for her, creates romantic trips and treats her life a diamond in the rough.

On vacations and when she is with her other friends, she rebels and acts like he is a loser. He gets quiet and is full of turmoil during these times.

It would break my heart to ever see them part, but I cannot figure out how she can be so thick. If they do break up, she will sleep all the time (like she often does now) and ignore her children and cry he was so rotten. Short of waiting for this to happen, is there a way to get her to understand that she needs to put some effort into her marriage?

2007-09-03 09:15:11 · 21 answers · asked by Traveler 4

Somehow it seems that the christian idea of boundaries governs everything. Once married there are 'rules' to stifle natural urges and to dictate behavior in a given situation. Overlooking the fact that life expectancy has dramatically changed in the last 75 years, the modern world seems to take such rule bound scrutiny less and less well. Why can't relationships be based on how much people genuinely like each other and not on fascist demonstrations of love? Not necessarily 'open' marriages, but more forgiving ones that allow for natural impulses seems more human, doesn't it?

2007-09-03 09:08:21 · 10 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7

I agreed to make a list of where I spent money but he is going overboard on it. I have to go down to the penny - including when I buy a bottle of soda when I fill the car up with gas. On the other hand, he takes at least $500 (normally more) from each of his paychecks - paid every two weeks- and I can not ask him where any money goes. He pays none of the bills and does not buy groceries. If I ask him to pick up milk, he wants me to give him the money for it. He got mad when I told him I could not pay all the bills, buy food, get the kids what they need for school, pay taxes & insurance on $500 every two weeks. Now he wants a receipt for everything I get. Plus I have started a temp job and he wants me to pay as much of the bills as I can out of my pay then come to him for every thing else I need. He makes more than double what I make but he thinks I should pay everything and let him have more to save. He even hides thousands by giving it to his mom for safekeeping. Help!

2007-09-03 08:52:19 · 20 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2

2007-09-03 08:51:20 · 12 answers · asked by no name 1

I don't understand....it's like he just doesn't want to get along. He's nice long enough for us to have sex then right back to being mean. What is going on??? He tells me he loves me at least 10 times a day..but then why try to argue over stupid things? I feel trapped and so unhapy...what do i do?

2007-09-03 08:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-03 08:27:21 · 19 answers · asked by anglemoma 2

I hate that my husband is into porn and i feel helpless about it. He says it's a guy thing. Is it? Do all women feel this way? Do all women dislike porn?

2007-09-03 08:04:31 · 17 answers · asked by bengalchick 1

2007-09-03 07:42:41 · 9 answers · asked by bernadette g 1

My mom passed away last year, and the cause was smoking for 40 years. A few days agao I received a card from Philip Morris saying, oh we lost touch with, please contact us to get more coupons. I am sick to my stomach to read this. Philip Morris can go jump off the bridge losers. Cigarettes are big business but I just don't get it. How do we keep our kids away from this life killing habit? Neither I or my wife smoke and never will.

2007-09-03 07:39:28 · 29 answers · asked by rob b 1

we dated, he left and and hes back after 5yrs to tell me he still cares, wot do u think

2007-09-03 07:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by halima 1

2007-09-03 07:14:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand what i do wrong. I cook, clean take care of our son and our two dogs and nothing I do seems to make him happy anymore. His cell is always hidden away and he goes off by himself all the time. He has no intrest in me what so ever. Except when it's time to rub his feet and back because of the long hours he works. He can't wait to be rid of us when were in the house and he teels me to take my time . Any advice?

2007-09-03 07:11:22 · 13 answers · asked by 1hotmama 1

I am legally divorced and remarried . My son is 7 yrs old and I would like to apply for my son's passport in India.
I do not want to use my first husband's name in my son's passport as my son doesnt even know who the his real father was. he left us when the child was 5 months old.
Instead I wish to have my second husband's name as a father of the child who is taking all the effort to keep us happy.

It will be wonderful if anyone could help me with the procedure (if exists) to fill in my second husband's name as my son's father in the passport.
What kind of documents are required to do the needful.
Cant I use mother's name instead of father name itself?

2007-09-03 05:50:16 · 11 answers · asked by D S 1

An ex does you wrong... You of course break up, then they still want friendship, but you still have feelings for this person. You do swallow alot of pride and bit your lip from time to time as best as you can, being they are now with the person whom was one factor of a few, in the breakup. Over a two year time now after the breakup. You still long for this person but the ex only wants friendship as they state 2 your face, but when asked by one of your friends if other was not in the picture would they go back to you, and they say " they could", then how do I just become friends and deal for "in the meantime". I want to be w/ this friend still even the most would say " are you stupid, for what she put you through". yet I know I could be perhaps just a friend, but how do i let go of the past the love feelings and bottle them up, and then also let go of the bitterness I too that tends @times to creep up on my thoughts. I know I can't wait for this ex, but i want 2 still see her.

2007-09-03 05:31:51 · 20 answers · asked by Patsy Cline 2

i just got joint custody but i stiil pay chid support

2007-09-03 05:11:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My spouse and I have been separated for over 3 years and are currently going through a divorce. Yesterday I found out he created a MySpace page with my pictures and information slandering me. I’ve contacted his command about this and his implications that he’s going to kill me but they’re not doing anything about it. I’ve spoken to JAG and they contacted his command but nothing has been done. My local PD says I don’t have enough for a restraining order. I don’t know what to do or who to talk to. Can someone please help me?

2007-09-03 05:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by fhl 5

My boyfriends family picks his child up from school everyday, he then takes him home to feed and bathe him when he finishes work. He then drops him off to the mum. Between him and his family they pay for the food and clothes. And she is now asking for csa because ive moved in. We can just about to afford to likve now let alone having another outgoing.

Where do we stand?

2007-09-03 04:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a man and a woman get married, there should be a law on the books that says that each one of them needs to have an escrow account with $10,000 dollars for each of them, established in the bank before they can tie the knot. For the first ten years of marriage, the state government should be in charge of those accounts, and if the couple wants a divorce, they can have all the money back except for whatever number of years they didn't stay married.

For example: a couple who only stays married two years will get a rebate of $2000 dollars, three years - $3000 and so on. Whatever the balance is, the state should get to keep it and use it for school and road improvements, etc.

A couple who makes it past the ten-year mark should be rewarded, and the state should match their account dollar-for-dollar so that they get back $20,000 each. That's $40,000 for the kids' college fund, a new house, whatever they want.

Any couple who divorces in less than a year should lose it all.

2007-09-03 04:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by dreamchaser8860 6

2007-09-03 04:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My children (boy age 8 and girl age 11) enjoy going to church with step mom and I, but ex said that I promised to raise the children catholic during baptism. I think their mom is just looking for excuses to be mad at me.

2007-09-03 03:58:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says she will not change it because my x wife has not changed her name yet, am I ridiculous for feeling bad about this?

2007-09-03 03:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by Charlie2006 1

I've always heard people give advice of, oh chemistry fades, you should never marry someone just for sex. Well what if sex is really just that important to the people. People marry for all sorts of reasons, esp these days. Love, Money, children, convenience, etc. What is so wrong with marrying someone who you have great sex with?

2007-09-03 02:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by gally g 1