i love someone who loves another man she as never met & never will what do i do?
2007-09-03 09:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by i love anne 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks.but i dont think i can.we have been married for 14 years
2007-09-03 10:08:42 · update #1
we have 2 gorgeous kids as well.1 13 &1 14
2007-09-03 19:37:18 · update #2
hello. you could move on and leave her to her fantasy because thats what it is,i take it this is an online love affair? if he loved her too married or not and wherever in the world he is he would have come to her, she is the loser in this she will lose you for one thing if you go and eventually your respect too plus no doubt he has other women online he chats up so she will lose him too .
2007-09-03 10:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by her with the mad ginger hair 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have been married for 14 years and have two kids. You should know by now that the only way to fix what's broken in a relationship is to take the time to talk it out. Talk to your spouse, and discuss with her what you two want to do to repair this relationship.
If you can't get to that point, I would encourage you to speak to a counselor -- even if it is by yourself at first. This will help you to deal with your side of the issues. You can move up from there and work into fixing the problem.
2007-09-04 14:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself why she 'loves' this other person and why she doesn't love you. I couldn't quite understand if you two are together, if so, then i believe there is something missing from the relationship and she is compensating by having this 'fancy'.
If you talk to her and ask her what the attraction is, you could maybe discuss ways of using that to build on what you have. Some couples do have fantasies and that is normal for them, but this is getting between you.
Communication is the key to solving most issues. Also if there is no chance of her meeting him you should think about why you are threatened by it. I personally know I will NEVER meet Brad Pitt, my husband knows this too but laughs and doesn't let it bother him.
This can be dealt with, you both just need to talk.
GL.
2007-09-04 08:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Spammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel that you cannot truely love a person you have never met - its all just a fantasy in the head which obviously seems that the said person is actually living. I would try to restore the love within your marriage by doing a few unexpected things and pamper the love you obviously feel so much for. What I am trying to say is get her to turn her attention back onto yourself and realise that all is not lost.
2007-09-04 05:06:51 · answer #4 · answered by deep in thought 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she "loves another man she
as never met & never will"..?
Thats called a fantasy. .. It is not love.
If you've been married for 14 yr.s,
there's something there, and it's
bigger than the fantasy.
2007-09-03 17:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on, there is no hope for this woman. And if she chooses you, you will be the rebound man
2007-09-03 17:04:57 · answer #6 · answered by ablockgurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on baby...even if she does eventually see you she will never love you.
2007-09-03 17:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and move on with your own life.
2007-09-03 17:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
L-O-S-E-R --- both of you.
2007-09-03 17:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋