Marriage & Divorce - 3 September 2007

they went out for a year and they were once engaged... I can't get her out of my head and its always in my head that some how she'll steal him back (I've had effing dreams)

2007-09-03 18:30:50 · 4 answers · asked by Rina 1

My GF of two years has decided we need a break and within a day had already said yes to dating another person. Do you think we have a chance in hell at working it out??

2007-09-03 18:23:51 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1

If both parents want the kid and they live in two different states. How do the courts decide if they are both capable parents?

2007-09-03 18:20:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously... what do you value the most?

2007-09-03 18:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by Aussie mum 4

if there is a law that punish those who cheat on their spouse, how do you like the punishment to be? which punishment that satisfy you the most for a cheater partner?

2007-09-03 18:17:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been married 4 years and have no kids.

2007-09-03 18:14:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i got married last april..we were together for 3 years but we broke up a month ago becasue he confessed that he cheated...so hes been here since he was 3 with no papers so i married him to do him the favor and get his papers...we did not live together..no kids...but it was a "serious" relationship...we were still exclusive or so i thought...so he says he's sorry ..wants me back u know the story...so yep now i dont wana give him the papers but my mom says thats evil and it will come back to me..karma...blah blah blah...wat do u guys think??

2007-09-03 18:08:38 · 30 answers · asked by lore 3

just wondering what to do about this

2007-09-03 17:54:08 · 15 answers · asked by evonne i 2

im 16 and i want to live with my dad ...
but will they NOT let me live with him because of what hes 'done'.. like not take my bros and sis.. some of the time when hes suppose too.. and not switiching his job time so he can be with me in the evening if i do go to school there

can they stop me from living with him.. even for what hes done... i AM DESPERATE too live with him because i CANT stand it anymore with my mom??

my brothers and sisters dont mind where they live.. and if i leave.. they are ok with it

2007-09-03 17:53:31 · 7 answers · asked by USER 3

i am not married, but just curious. if a husband had a job transfer and left his wife alone for a long period of time. do you think his wife may fantasize of sleeping with other men while her husband isn't near?

2007-09-03 17:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive gained weight
ive dated and lived with the wrong man
ive started a drinking problem
my family has fallen apart
i dont want to live like this anymore


all im asking for is some words of support... i know that no one on here is going to have the perfect solution to my problem... but i need a friend... i need ANYONE right now... im at the end of my rope

2007-09-03 17:35:22 · 27 answers · asked by MRose 4

He has 3 children, divorced 1st wife from young marriage and lost 2nd wife to cancer. I've met the kids, his mother and lots of friends. They all say that he is a great guy and dad. He called me 4 times in one week to chat and I called him a couple of times. We met last weekend and seemed to hit it off. The children knew about me before I met them. He's very attracted to me and asked what my intentions were with having children and being married. He was worried that I would run when I met him b/c he has so much against him. Should I have any concerns with this one? I've never dated anyone with kids.

I do love kids and hope to have them and he's wants more with the right person. He works offshore 7 and 7 and his mother moves in when he's gone. From what I hear he's very open and responsible. It doesn't bother me that he's been married 2x. He's already told me that when he's home his time is spent with

2007-09-03 17:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by manhunt_kk 2

My husband goes out with friends to enjoy a night out at least three times a month. We have two children...I would like to get out too! It never happens!! I have expressed that it is not fair and now he lies to me and sneaks around to drink beer and have a good time. I love my family, I would much rather be home than out. I do not need to go to the bar and get wasted. Why do men??

2007-09-03 17:11:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

it does the 2nd parent have to take it? My BF took the class over a month ago and his ex refuses - and she is the one that filed for the divorce.... is there any way the judge can make her?

2007-09-03 17:03:57 · 8 answers · asked by mustanglette 1

My husband has cheated before one girl he kissed one he had sex with and one he let her give him oral sex YES 3 times he has cheated and I stayed with him each time I forgave him all this within 2 and a half years but it has been almost a year and i think he did it again I moved to go to school because he's about to get deployed and I found pictures of him with a girl he had his hands around he waist he says that nothing happened that the pictures were a bad idea but he also didn't have his wedding ring on and didnt even tell me he was hanging out with this girl he says because he knew i would get mad. I'm so confused? I love him so much but I dont want to let him go whats wrong with me?

2007-09-03 17:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by pinkdummy 2

My ex husband never took me off of our mortgage and then let the house go into foreclosure. He has been made to pay for my bankruptcy by the judge, but I still must go through the motions of bankruptcy and I'm very nervous about the hearing tomorrow as I've never done this before. For anyone who has been through bankruptcy, what should I expect at my hearing tomorrow?

2007-09-03 15:32:02 · 5 answers · asked by razor_sharp_redhead 3

i have been married for 21 years and have had no intimacy for about 5 years now, i know a man cannot go this long. so do you think he could be cheating or could it be because he is a alcoholic and it has ruined him?

2007-09-03 15:16:29 · 10 answers · asked by HAZELGLEAM25 1

For the last couple nights I've have the same dream. My husband and I were at a store and I turn the corner and see him hiding behind a door kissing another female. I ran away crying and he followed me. I fell to the floor and he stopped and just stared at me didn't say anything. What does this mean?

2007-09-03 15:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been separated for 4 months out of an 8 year marriage. We have 2 kids under 6. Thing is, we separated cause he thinks i cheated on him. There was a guys number in my phone and i admitted to calling him. Based on that, we were over. He moved first and took his name off the lease. I moved me and the kids,quit my good job,and have been in a whirlwind ever since.
I love him. Hes my best friend. When he calls to talk with the kids I keep my responses short and sweet. I don't want to keep reliving everything. Im trying to get over him but kids make things complicated.
He calls last week to say he wants to talk at a restaurant, just us alone. Also said that i need to prepare myself to make a decision regarding the kids. I dont think its custody b/c hes Army and thats not a good idea n id have them anyway. maybe its a child support plea? maybe he wants me back? I dont want to think that,i have to think the worse. the way i see it, bad news can be told@ the mc donalds

2007-09-03 15:01:48 · 16 answers · asked by fofsecrets 1

I have never used drugs so I have no idea what the obvious signs of a person that uses drugs are? I noticed that my husband was blowing his nose tooo much, he kept sniffling like when someone has a runny nose, and I felt so mad upset and angry I wanted to ask him if he was doing drugs, but we are going sort of through a process where we are trying to work things and planning on going to marriage counseling, he has admitted that he has a problem and wants to change, so I think that is a start, but anyway sorry I got a little off the subject, but my main question is what are the obvious signs of someone that uses drugs? It even came to my mind that maybe the drug is/was cocaine, I dont know but please give me answers on what you guys think it can/may be, SERIOUS answers only! Thank you!

2007-09-03 14:55:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last year my ex husband and I split after 15 years. He was served with child support papers, and after they were modified, he lost his job (this was last october). He was far behind in support, put paid a good amount of it off a few months ago. He is now behind again, hasn't paid for 2 months, and claims he isnt working. He wont even give me an address to where he is staying. Is there anywhere I can go to get this from him or to find out where he is living? The support right now is through the state and they cant do much if they don't have proof of him working for anyone. He does stay in contact with me because of our children, but I get the feeling he is trying to "hide" so he can't be found. Any help and advice is great. Thanks!

2007-09-03 14:55:10 · 33 answers · asked by You can do it!! 2

2007-09-03 14:50:30 · 34 answers · asked by BELL F 1

My husband wants to have sex anytime. I'm not in the mood as much as he is. So he says he feels rejected. What can I do for us to meet in the middle or for me to have a higher sex drive?

2007-09-03 14:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by Kimberly P 2

I am haing a hard time getting over a crush on a married man, that I feel like I am such a horrible person.

I just feel like marriage is a thing of the past. I feel like it is a business transaction, a cure to lonely nights solely used for comfort and financial stability.

If anyone has any insight into why marriage is worth it, I would love to know. I respect his marriage and I would not act on anything, but I don't think marriage is for me.

2007-09-03 14:48:52 · 9 answers · asked by lala2007 2

I have never found this before and we have only been engaged for a very short time. I am not the kind of girl that is usually bothered by this but it is driving me crazy! The site was break.com under the NSFW( not suitable for work) pictures. The girls are dressed and it is not porn. But I also think there are some pictures he had made comments about. He forget to take the stuff out of the history and it was done last thurs. and then today the history is deleted. So he is obviously hiding something...I dont know what to think. I want to say something but I don't want him to start lying and hiding it. Is it a normal guy thing??

2007-09-03 14:46:38 · 20 answers · asked by loulou82 2

For example: Pictures of girls who are partly dressed on break.com. And then forget to delete it out of the history, but do it a few days later.

2007-09-03 14:38:21 · 15 answers · asked by loulou82 2

Of the opposite sex classed as havinfg an affair?

2007-09-03 14:28:57 · 18 answers · asked by colin050659 6

I'm in a loveless marrage (18 yrs) we have two teenage boys both headed for college. Should I stay and suffer through for the sake of the children or cut my loses now?

2007-09-03 14:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by chowboss74 1

I'm divorced, and for about the past year I have been dating a wonderful man. He is great but he is EXTREMELY frugal, although he does really well financially. I don't mind good money management. However, my best friend is spoiled rotten by her husband (yes, they can afford it) -- diamonds, a new really expensive car, a brand-new finished basement etc. I love my boyfriend a lot but it would be nice if I could find someone who would spoil me at least a little bit (within reason of course). Now that we are talking about getting married he is complaining about how much the engagement ring will cost! Should I adjust my boyfriend, adjust my friendships or adjust my attitude?

2007-09-03 14:14:06 · 14 answers · asked by writer272002 3

How old do you have to be to get married in Alabama? What do you have to sign and the details? I love this girl and if we can, we've both discussed it privately and with our parents.

2007-09-03 14:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by Big D 1