For the last couple nights I've have the same dream. My husband and I were at a store and I turn the corner and see him hiding behind a door kissing another female. I ran away crying and he followed me. I fell to the floor and he stopped and just stared at me didn't say anything. What does this mean?
2007-09-03 15:10:11 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a dream, it doesn't mean anything. We cannot control our dreams, period.
2007-09-03 15:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just an interpretation of how we feel emotionally.
Your confused and at a stand still wondering which way to go and so your sub-conscious is putting this in your head , it really has nothing to do with your husband cheating , the fact he just stands above you looking down and not speaking maybe means he is confused as to how to help you out of a hole you think you put yourself into.
For 8 months on and off I dreamt my husband's ex wife was moving back from another state to our state and I caught them in a kitchen after what I'd viewed as them kissing the guilt on their face's said it all.
Its mainly insecurities and confusion that put other people in our dreams , she did end up moving back to our state in April and hell would freeze over before he'd touch her again , especially considering he just saved his son from her mental abuse last night and is now going for residency of him.
Dont annalyze it to much give it a while the end of the dream will present itself and you'll realise it had nothing to do with your husband at all.
2007-09-03 15:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your subconscious dream of your fear that your hubby may cheat. All married women (I think) dream this dream in some variation at one point or another in their marriage. Heck, I've been married for over 20 years, and I'll occasionally have a dream where he's kissing another woman, or taking another woman out. It doesn't mean anything, honestly, least of all that he IS cheating on you. The only times it's ever meant something for us is when I wake up after this dream mad enough at him to hit him--and I do just that--then he wakes up wondering why in the world I just hit him. LOL
2007-09-03 15:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had dreams like that for over a year looking back on it now i know my brain was telling me that my husband was up to know good but my heart was telling me know way would my husband do that to me. Well 8 months later my husband moved out. Looking back on it now if only i would have acted on what i was feeling maybe my heart wouldn't still be broken after all these years. Your subconscious is telling you something is wrong so what are you going to do about it.
2007-09-03 15:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kristian E is most likely right about this and I agree. There are many different theories to dreaming that I learned in my Psychology class. The three theories I learned were Traditional, Psychoanalytic, and Modern. From my notes, these are the theories. TRADITIONAL - source of insight, gateways to other realities, way to gain insight into reality that you cannot when you are awake PSYCHOANALYTIC - comes from subconscious which are memories, hidden fears, forbidden desires, and wish fulfillment. MODERN - neurons are firing and the cortex tries to make sense of the neurons and changes them to different forms. I believe that dreams are a combination of psychoanalytic and modern. I am not saying whether or not your husband is cheating, but you are probably being to nervous about this situation. This is probably renting too much space in your head so you are dreaming about it.
2016-05-20 22:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It's just a dream. Last night I dreamed that aliens came to Earth and gave me special powers to change my eye color and see into people's minds. Oh and half the time in my dream I was a man and the other half the time I was myself.
2007-09-03 15:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it for goodness sakes. It was just a dream. If your relationship is otherwise stable I wouldn't worry about it. I have dreamt that other women were interested in my husband and it actually enhanced our intimacy. Something about someone else wanting my husband makes him all that much more desirable to me!!
2007-09-03 15:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by porkchop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean a thing...it is just a dream...I have the craziest dreams that make no sense at all....I woke my husband up the other night because I was laughing loudly in my sleep...and I have no idea as to why.
2007-09-03 15:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Anasha,
I had similar dreams years ago. My husband was walking with another woman, holding her hand and kissing her. I ran after them and called his name, but he wouldn't stop.
Later, I realized that it was my unconscious picking up on "hints" and "clues" that he was cheating on me - and had been for YEARS. I didn't want to believe that he was capable of such a despicable act, but he was.
I would say that you are picking up some "clues," yourself. I would also say that your unconscious is telling you that you are strong enough to make it without him and there is NOTHING he could say to make you stay if you learn he is truly cheating.
Good luck. I hope it isn't so.
2007-09-03 15:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Peanut 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It could be your afraid of him cheating one day. Pay it no mind it is just a dream.
2007-09-03 15:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋