Marriage & Divorce - 3 September 2007

My boyfriend has an 8 yo daughter and has been completely involved in her life since birth. He has moved to 2 different states just trying to stay near her (ex is in military). His ex recently got married and he heard his daughter call the new husband "daddy" and was very hurt by this. He confronted the ex and she basically told him that she was not going to stop his daughter from calling the new husband that. The new husband had never even met her kids until after they were married (lets you know how much this woman is just concerned about herself and not her kids) and when his daughter did meet the new husband he was only around her one week before he had to go back overseas and she was already calling him daddy. Should this be happening? Is there any legal action that can be used to stop this? This is totally outrageous to me! He is very bothered by this doesn't want his daughter caught in the middle but on the other hand is this fair to him when he has been there since day one.

2007-09-03 02:53:39 · 22 answers · asked by arwen0775 1

I would like to clarify at the start that I have no negative feelings for her or anyone who dutifully adores or adored her, some even spent a night waiting in the queue to attend her memorial service. I can't understand why?
What has been her contribution to the world, let alone the UK, to deserve this adulation? Am I missing something? I only know her from the photos taken of her sitting at the bed side of dying Aids stricken African kids. I know of many other ladies who have done more for their society or family than Diana and no one cares about them.
Ok she had a bad marriage, bitter public divorce and very tragic death, even my Mum and many other Indians cried watching the news. I know of a single mom who has 3 boys from 3 different fathers of 3 different races, she has 2 jobs and she helps her kids with studies and is fully involved in their lives. So do you think Diana has done better than this lady or any one else that you know of?
Please give a short explanation.
Thanx

2007-09-03 02:45:20 · 18 answers · asked by ZZZZZZZZ 4

My ex & I have joint custody & he has been paying me $350 a month. In June, my son approached me to me that he wanted to go & live with his dad & got to school there. He assured me that it was nothing that I did or didn't do - just that he wanted to spend more time with his dad & wanted to go to school there. The problem is that I was under this mistaken assumption that all I would have to do is give up the $350 that he had been paying me. That moeny had been going towards house payment that he left me with along with other expenses involved with our son. Now the ex is stating that I should be paying him. I look at my bills & right now I am scraping by without the $350 that he had been paying me and I don't see how I could come up with anything significant to pay him. The only thing that seems left for me to do is sell the house - but then how long will that take me with the economy the way that it is-what about the child support that he is expecting me to pay before it sells??

2007-09-03 02:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband in January of this year.I left because he is a alcoholic and I couldn't let my kids live that life anymore.When I left we agreed that I was leaving for him to change,and to sober up because he said he could not do it with me in the house.I left with no intentions of divorcing him.I just found out that he has been with this other girl,and now she is pregnant.He has totally ruined my life.I was wondering when I file for divorce can I hold it against him that he got another girl pregant while we were still legally married but seperated?He gives me $100 a week for 2 kids,and rarely calls them.Everything is left up to me.I still can't believe this is hapening to me.

2007-09-03 02:35:49 · 35 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1

My husband is turning 21 on sept 24, and our 1yr anniversary is sept 16.he is going through chemo right now and will continue to do so for another six weeks, with radiation following. I want to make both b-day and anniversary really nice. We are going away for the weekened of our anniversary, but what can i do for his birthday, what do i get a 21 yr old man. I need help!!!

2007-09-03 01:40:37 · 2 answers · asked by Christian 1

2007-09-03 01:27:27 · 18 answers · asked by olivia 1

i'm inlove with someone who's married but they are not in good terms together and the will be divorced. he told me that he loves me but he wants me to stay away and wants me to get him out of my life as he thinks that i deserve someone better and he doesn't want to be selfish. i tried to convince him that i love him so much and that i don't want anyone but him in my life but he's not listening. please tell me what to do i can't live without him and i know he's suffering please tell me how to convince him to change his mind please help.

2007-09-03 00:03:49 · 19 answers · asked by emilly 2