I have never used drugs so I have no idea what the obvious signs of a person that uses drugs are? I noticed that my husband was blowing his nose tooo much, he kept sniffling like when someone has a runny nose, and I felt so mad upset and angry I wanted to ask him if he was doing drugs, but we are going sort of through a process where we are trying to work things and planning on going to marriage counseling, he has admitted that he has a problem and wants to change, so I think that is a start, but anyway sorry I got a little off the subject, but my main question is what are the obvious signs of someone that uses drugs? It even came to my mind that maybe the drug is/was cocaine, I dont know but please give me answers on what you guys think it can/may be, SERIOUS answers only! Thank you!
2007-09-03 14:55:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am dealing with the same situation. I have suspected my husband for a few months and finally confimed it last night. Their attitude or personality is the BIGGEST indicator something is wrong. Start noticing the details-he hid his drugs in our storage shed-he came straight home from work into there and had the key with him even at work. The money is a good indicator-but get this-he was buying stuff for someone else-like from a gas station or a store that I wouldn't notice on our online banking-and in return was getting cash money for it to buy drugs. THE WORST THING OF IT ALL??? I am a substance abuse counselor for a living. How embarassing!? But, we tend to deny the worst in the ones that we love. Hope this helps and if it is true, find an al alon meeting at least.
2007-09-05 13:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by rachel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important that you question him. Drugs alters people behavior and it effect their body in different manners. His behavior is the key of determine if something involve. Just take the time to study him like your already observe him fondling his nose.
There are some other ways to focus on. Look into the garbage can he mostly use, search his car, give him a handkerchief so he can blow his nose, and then take it from him to observe it. Does strange friends comes to the house, is he spending late night somewhere else?
Just watch him carefully...I hope he is not doing drugs...God bless
2007-09-03 22:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he never had a sinus problem before--it's possible that he has a cocaine habit. I worked with a guy who always had the runny nose, hyper and rather rude attitude and of course that was after my divorce of a husband who got into using cocaine with his sister and having the experience of that.
2007-09-03 22:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sudden, inexplicable mood swings ranging from euphoria to depression.
Erratic performance at work or at school.
Frequent absenteeism from work or school (usually after payday or before or after the weekend).
Continuous money problems.
Disappearance of valuable goods from the home.
Brief, frequent trips to a bathroom or private room to cover up usage.
Opposite behavior (i.e. a reserved person who becomes overly gregarious and talkative, etc.)
Hope this helps you out.Good Luck on your marriage.=)
2007-09-03 22:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Dude 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cocaine would effect nasal passages... in fact it will rot through the sinuses, destroying that tissue, until the nosebleeds become permanent.
Also look for bloodshot eyes, changes in appetite, changes in sleep patterns, mood swings.
Look for oddball "tools" like single-sided razor-blades, mirrors, small glass vials, burn't spoons, tiny spoons...
If you find anything along these lines, you confront him and make him check in for rehab immediately.
If he will not get himself straight, you need to leave. He will literally spend all his income and anything else he can get hold of to support his habit.
You can wind up over your head in debt, homeless and possibly the mob looking for money.
You cannot ever trust an addict.
2007-09-03 22:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he low on money or leaving the house alot or at odd times?look at his eyes,how big are his pupils?nosebleeds?check fingers for rough spots from lighting lighters.losing weight?does he sit and watch TV or is he always finding something to do?does he have any new friends?
yes,it could be drugs,or a cold...who knows but you should find out,just ask him...they sell drug test in the drugstores now if hes willing to prove himself...but that in itself will probably cause further problems....watch,and think before you react....good luck
2007-09-03 22:10:13 · answer #6 · answered by sleepy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a recovering addict, usual signs of drug use are loss of weight,appetite,insomnia.paranoia,mood swings, lying,always late or not showing when and where expected, pawning items or money troubles.
Its tough but there is hope his admission is a good first step. We addicts are good at manipulating those around us to our benefit so use tough love or intervention.
2007-09-03 22:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by brian s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably keep an eye on his money. but just because he blows his nose alot or act as if he has the sniffle isn't necessary drugs, could be allergies.
2007-09-03 22:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by the kidd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RUN and do not walk as fast as you can from this man!!! Like yourself, I'm not a drug user. However, i am still recovering mentally and financially from a marriage to a "crack" head. For your sake I hope that he seriously wants to change!! However, don't hold your breath! {My ex used to "pretend" to go to work but was always broke}. Please guard your finances carefully! Don't be as "blind" as I was!!
2007-09-03 22:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by 1/2 crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His money situation is usually the first sign, is he always broke or asking you for money. Is he pawning things? Not sure about the nose thing...is he loosing weight? has his eating and sexual habits changed...?
2007-09-03 22:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by BossLady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋