I don't understand what i do wrong. I cook, clean take care of our son and our two dogs and nothing I do seems to make him happy anymore. His cell is always hidden away and he goes off by himself all the time. He has no intrest in me what so ever. Except when it's time to rub his feet and back because of the long hours he works. He can't wait to be rid of us when were in the house and he teels me to take my time . Any advice?
2007-09-03 07:11:22 · 13 answers · asked by 1hotmama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You probably lost yourself from when you first met and he's not attracted to you anymore. So yep!! he's cheating on you. From a guys point of view........And I'm tired of the excuses that U women had kids.. Blahh,Bla,Bla....
2007-09-03 07:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by IOWA HAWKEYES 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're not doing anything wrong, he's not happy and all the flags are there. Intuition lets us know something is not right and the way he's behaving, it's time to get to the bottom of it.
Any way to check his cell? I'd start there.
2007-09-03 07:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to continue with this relationship, then I would go out to dinner and tell him about how you're feeling. You might be PMSing. Other than that, I feel like you are fulfilling the duties of a wife, you just need to add more affection and sex to the scenario. :)
2007-09-05 08:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by dudenomoreyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're acting like a servant, while his lover is satisfying his sexual needs. Let the house get dirty, feed the dogs, but give them only necessary attention, go out and buy a sexy nightgown and some perfume. If it doesn't work, confront him. You can't live like this for the rest of your life!
2007-09-03 07:22:26 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you have yourself a decision to make (a hard one). First you must figure out what you will do if you find out will you stay or will you go? Then take steps in finding out like getting a detective (pay in cash). I'm sorry to hear that I hope that it will end up in your favor. Good luck
2007-09-03 07:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not rub his feet, make him make his own food & find things 2 do that are out of the house, maybe he will get the point if U have better things 2 do than cater 2 him..make him miss U.
2007-09-03 07:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by katwaxr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he falls asleep and go through his phone....Check the phone bills online or a paper bill..... go to a spy store and tap his phones...now remember you may not be happy with what your about to hear but atleast you will know the truth..good luck and catch his lyin cheatin behind!
2007-09-03 07:46:34 · answer #7 · answered by mommycedano 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up. Or play detective. A womans intuition is always right chances are if you think he is cheating he probably is.
2007-09-03 07:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have become his servant? stop! marriage is a two-way street! it won't work if he doesn't participate. what do you want? sounds like you might be right about cheating. confront him. communication is the only way for anything to work. good luck
2007-09-03 07:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you want your marriage to work.....I work, cook, clean and take care of the house....but I act like his wife and his mistress..lol.
2007-09-03 07:16:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋