My husband hasnt been interested in sex for a couple of weeks ,I have kind a complained about it and he has been wrking hard and partying so much on the weekend ,that it seems just working or partying and thats it.Do u think its best to just shut up and wait till things slow down! He always says he loves me.Thanx
2007-09-03 09:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He puts his partying ahead of your needs? Kind of selfish if you ask me, and I am a guy.
2007-09-03 10:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if it continues, to have a talk. He may not know how serious you really feel about the situation or that his way of being is getting out of hand. The way I see it, if you're in a relationship and something isn't right or needs to be fixed, then to correct it and not "hope" that it goes away, otherwise, you'll be frustrated and disappointed for a long time. Now, if things don't improve after that, I would start looking hard at the relationship and the person you're with =)
2007-09-03 17:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probable interested but to tired right now so just wait till things calm down and the partying weekends are over.
2007-09-03 17:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by April First 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, sweetie, but you are in this relationship too, and it sounds like he is putting everything else in front of you. It is time for a talk, which you can do very nicely. Don't be angry, just tell him you are feeling neglected and ask how he would feel if you were doing the same thing to him.
2007-09-03 17:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over with him, without being critical or complaining. He's your partner, and you two can work it out together. You could fall pretty hard from a conclusion you might jump to.
2007-09-03 17:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by avnurd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He puts partying ahead of you? If someone truly loves you, he's going to make time to be with you, work or not. I think I would get busy elsewhere, sounds like he's taking you for granted.
2007-09-03 17:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nag and complain until something is done, b/c if he is not sleeping with you he is sleeping with someone....
2007-09-03 17:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by ablockgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
complicated question...
2007-09-03 17:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by emilly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋