My wife recently asked me to spice up our marriage, so she wants to go out to the club and bring a beautiful girl home with us. The thing is, is that I don't think it would help our marriage...but, dammit..it's 2 girls on me! Can anyone point me into the right direction!
2007-09-03 19:31:08 · 26 answers · asked by GoodBadGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why not? i think it would be a good idea. and i mean it is only sex with the other girl, it is your wife who knows, but she is allowing the sex. i say go for it. :)
I see maby people are against this, but really i dont see the problem. I mean all parties would be in agreeance, and the husband and wife, as long as they both are honest and open with each other, i know a few people who have done it and are stil together. they never ended up on jerry springer, and the marriage did not crumble. Its all a matter of preference, and open-mindedness. Personally, it is something i would try as well.
2007-09-03 19:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by lirpa 4 · 4⤊ 5⤋
You're right, it won't help your marriage...Most couples who are look to spice up their marriage often turn to other people instead of turning towards each other. Talk with your wife...and...see just what it is that can be done to help spice up your romance together.
Not sure if she's already been doing this behind your back and has just now decided to talk to you about it...either way, I recommend you get tested...You can never be to sure now days.
Good luck...
2007-09-03 19:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by chowboss74 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO
It could cause more problems than you can imagine
When you married part of the promise is to be monogamous
You will risk disease or even risk losing your wife to the third person in the trisome
Why bother getting married if you both are going to mess round with strangers
You need to NEVER stop seducing your wife.
2007-09-03 19:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen my David my baby look I am gay man married in Paris you country boy so you better listen to me I am gay man married I know from beauty and we are married two years now my husband us Italian and I would never cheat on him or have a tgreesome eww we follow the promises we give to the church when we get married you know even though most Parisians cheat a lot. David don't do it. And think to leave your wife she has no mind at all. My husband would never sat down that to me. I sit all day in our luxury apartment while he is at his office in the investment firm and I wait for my husband to return and have sex sometimes my husband put me in the window nude so everyone down in the street to look us like a porn but better than the one you watch online because this is alive. My husband puts me nude to the window and he puts his cock in my as$ a lot of tourists stop and look to our apartment it is nice this is good but having threesome its not.
2015-06-27 03:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro. .....its your marriage. Why would you, or your wife be so naive. Marriage is sacred. You're putting your relationship and marriage in jeopardy. Stop being a bow wow for a moment and start thinking with your other head. But hey.....its your life.
2007-09-03 19:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say if you value your relationship NO. She could be testing you to see if that is what you want but she doesn't or maybe she thinks that you make you happy but not her. More than not after 3 somes relationships seem to struggle and even split up.
2007-09-03 19:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by teddy_bear_says_os 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is definitely not okay! Her idea or not...it is adultery on both of your parts to do this. And...it will likely not "spice up" anything. It will no doubt lead to heartache on so many levels.
2007-09-03 19:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK MAN IF YOUR MARRIAGE IS DEAD THEN DO IT AND THEN LOOK FOR A GOOD LAWYER CUZ YOU WILL NEED IT!!!
BUT IF YOU THINK THAT YOUR MARRIAGE HAS A CHANCE TO BE SAVED AND YOU REALLY DONT WANT TO LEAVE THEN DONT DO IT!!!
IT WILL KILL YOU MARRIAGE!!!
HOW CAN SOMEONE LET SOMEONE ELSE TOUCH THERE MAN OR WOMEN? I WOULD NEVER LET MY GF EVER BRING HOME SOME GIRL CUZ ANT NO MAN OR WOMAN TOUCHING MY GIRL!!!
2007-09-03 19:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's a good idea! Women can be so jealous. Besides, so many other problems can arise. How would you feel if she decided to leave you for one of these girls? You're looking for trouble & major drama! Are you sure you wanna go there?
2007-09-03 19:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
is your wife suggesting this because she thinks you want it? If she seriously truly wants to do this then go for it. Even if it doesn't help your marraige I am sure you will have a good time. Just make sure your wife is not doing it just because she thinks you want it - it might lead to ill feelings from her later on.
2007-09-03 19:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by kimbathewhitelion02 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋