The man has severe trust issues,accusing and distrustful to the point of paranoia.Spouse is mildly overweight, but very attractive.
Man used meth at first, has since been sober 2 years.Both are previously divorced with children from those marriages,no children live with them. Man rarely sees his kids and has a horrible realtionship with his ex. Woman sees child regularly and has an amiacable relationship with ex.The trust issues,sexual dysfunction and his sobreity began within months of each other.They fight often, 90% of those fights centering around the husband's doubts.The woman had a fairly normal single life, but is faithful and genuinely in love.The man's single life was during his meth addiction and centered around sex.He has mostly been with attractive,thin women. He has severe anger control problems and says horrible things during the fights. There is no physical abuse.
He makes no effort at sex,and says its just an "ego thing" to want it from him.Is he just not attracted?
2007-08-30 16:52:45 · 10 answers · asked by hippiemania 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Real love bears fruit. See 1Cor:13. Patience, kindness & trust are some pretty important ingredients in any relationship. Without them your just spinning your wheels. If he doesn't trust her it will hurt her if she stays with him. Take it from someone who hardly ever got the benefit of a doubt for >30yrs. His insecurities WILL become your problem.
Get out as soon as possible or get ready for a life of misery. It's a roller coaster of emotional highs & lows with very little respite. Most people don't change because they're too busy finding someone or something to blame for their problems.
God bless them both.
2007-09-02 10:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by YIC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is more painfull to take a verbal, emotional abuse than the physical abuse... because the tongue gives deeper scars than the knife...
better live the guy... why continue the relationship if the guy does not even visit HIS OWN children....
go on with life and forget the past... make a new life with the kids, focus on them and give them the love that they deserve from a family.. and make sure that it won't happen to them too..
be a good mom to them and let felt that they are loved even their dad is not around..
to the wife move on.. life cannot be repeated.. live youre life to the fullest... and value you're future... for you and to your children...
2007-08-31 00:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by Erizelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a gem of a guy! Psychiatric problems, anger management problems, sexual dysfunctions, difficulties with relationships. Are you trying to sign up for this? Are you nuts too?
2007-08-31 00:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That woman needs to leave him for good. He's messed up in the head.
2007-08-31 00:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it sound like he has some issues that he need to work
out on his on.,time to get some counseling to deal with this
but ti really sound like this is will not end very well for any
one concerned.
2007-08-30 23:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mental abuse is just as bad, if not worse. Y'all need to get him into counseling for his insecurities.
2007-08-30 23:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Star looking at the front door.
2007-08-30 23:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
RUN FOREST, RUN! WAY TOO MUCH DRAMA EXIST IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. ANYONE WITH COMMON SENSE WOULD RUN LIKE HELL TO THE NEAREST EXIT TO A HAPPY EXISTANCE.
2007-08-31 00:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him ,it could a lot better away from him
2007-08-31 00:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
2007-08-30 23:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋