Marriage & Divorce - 26 August 2007

My husband left me for a teenage girl and she's cheating on him already,should i tell him?He told me he cheated on me 4 times during our 18 yrs of marriage,we have 2 little boys and i don't want their father to get a std.

2007-08-26 02:57:10 · 38 answers · asked by betrayed 1

my wife went out w/a friend the other night and lied 2 me about it. she only came clean when i said i called the friend she was supp 2 have been with, but i didnt really after coming clean she told me that she wanted 2 tell me that she was going to meet up with this guy & have a few drinks but she knew i would argue w/her about it and not approve. they r old barhopping buddies & use 2 pty all the time tg. she says there is nothing 2 it and never was in the past but I've had female friends like this and i know how it wks when u pty all night and then go hm drunk. anyway... she says she didnt tell me bc she didnt want 2 fight and didnt want 2 hurt me. i am very hurt she lied and then there is part of me that feels like she was trying 2 protect me and admires she didnt want my feelings 2 b hurt. Am I a complete idiot and should i lay down an ultamadium or what?

2007-08-26 02:49:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like such a nag but I can't stand the sloppiness.....

2007-08-26 02:44:39 · 23 answers · asked by hmmmmmm?? 2

So, my boyfriend and I (I think) are getting engaged sometime this year. He's in training right now for special forces, but I have this feeling that once that first part is over in a couple of months, he may ask me! Yay! But here's where I need some advice. We've been trying to figure out if I would move to wherever he is stationed once my lease is up in June. Problem is, that even once he's done with training and PCS's to a post, he'll still have so much more training or could be deployed right away. So logical thing to do is to wait and see what happens once he gets his orders? But, he won't know that until possibly the beginning of 2009, and if we get engaged within the next few months, I'd like to be married to him by then!

And, he's worried that if I move to NC (where he's training now) after my lease, that I'll REALLY never see him since he's out in the field so much... ok understandable.

2007-08-26 02:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an arranged marriage two months ago to a boy from India. We have signed the marriage papers there and he is in the process of getting his visa to come to be with me.
After marriage we spent a week together to get to know each other before I returned to the country where I reside. We will be having our hindu wedding ceremony when he arrives here.
I have been trying hard for da past 2 mths to contect with my husband mentally but there is no love there at all. I'm only now finding out that he is not educated, cant speak english and we have nothing in common, he does not show any effection towards me at all, He also speaks and treats me like I am his friend not a wife.
I understand that he maybe shy & unexperienced, but so am I & at the least he should be showing some effection toward me and trying to get to know me right?
I need advice on what to do in a relationship like this. Will it work out or shud I get out of it before I get stuck in a miserable marriage?

2007-08-26 02:29:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

All be required to take a 3 month course on marriage and what it's really all about. Do you think this would downsize the divorce rate? Do you think the age your allowed to get married should be increased as well? Give my ? a star if you agree.

2007-08-26 02:21:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thats all he's talked about for the last few days is gambling. I know last year he went out a couple of times with another female, to gamble at a popular casino. I was not there, but heard about this from my kids and other people. He feels its okay now, to have "friends" from the opposite sex to go to different activites other than going there with me. I would never do this to him, or consider it either. What's going on here? Am I reading to much into it? She's a gambler and I'm not. We do not need nor can afford to gamble hundreds away right now. If we could, I'd love to join him once in awhile.
What should I do?
We've been married for 27 years.

2007-08-26 02:20:12 · 33 answers · asked by hillaryc59bc 4

My friend Cailey, is a lesbian whose sleeping with a married woman at the married woman's house with her 2 year old son there. My guess is this husband is going to eventually catch them and give my friend the a** beating of a life time! I've tried to warn her but she doesn't think it will happen. who here thinks it will?

2007-08-26 02:10:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really love her from the bottom of my heart. But she do not. From the moment I saw her on wards I suffer from her love badly. I forget everything except thinking of her. It is about a year. She knows as I love her; but she is not voluntaire to help me. I need some advice; how can I forget her?.

2007-08-26 02:01:01 · 6 answers · asked by ABI 1

~A few songs were quoted in here, after all, music often times hits home, and hard~


Love grows where trust is laid, and love dies where trust is betrayed. One of the many lessons I have learned on the past 3 years. Another is to not resent being brokenhearted. Many are denied the privilege. I miss you.. theres yet another..
I'm not sure what the future holds but I do know that I'm going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. It is what it is, it's not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is. You taught me that. Although lately i've been feeling like when you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It's like death. It's hard to find me, without you there. But, I seem to be doing ok. I guess it's a bit noticeable my heartbreak. An old man at work the other day asked why I was so "blue". I simply stated I was just missing someone I can't have anymore. Then he spoke some truely wise words i'll never forget. Stop dancing with ghosts(more>

2007-08-26 01:44:40 · 12 answers · asked by big_gurlz_dont_cry27 1

I really love her from the bottom of my heart. But she do not. From the moment I saw her on wards I suffer from her love badly. I forget everything except thinking of her. It is about a year. She knows as I love her; but she is not voluntaire to help me. I need some advice; how can I forget her.

2007-08-26 01:43:09 · 10 answers · asked by ABI 1

he finally told me on the internet.

2007-08-26 01:28:22 · 23 answers · asked by bootylicious 1