~A few songs were quoted in here, after all, music often times hits home, and hard~
Love grows where trust is laid, and love dies where trust is betrayed. One of the many lessons I have learned on the past 3 years. Another is to not resent being brokenhearted. Many are denied the privilege. I miss you.. theres yet another..
I'm not sure what the future holds but I do know that I'm going to be positive and not wake up feeling desperate. It is what it is, it's not what it should have been, not what it could have been, it is what it is. You taught me that. Although lately i've been feeling like when you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It's like death. It's hard to find me, without you there. But, I seem to be doing ok. I guess it's a bit noticeable my heartbreak. An old man at work the other day asked why I was so "blue". I simply stated I was just missing someone I can't have anymore. Then he spoke some truely wise words i'll never forget. Stop dancing with ghosts(more>
2007-08-26
01:44:40
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Yesterday is dead: bury it and be done with it. There is a time to speak up, and a time to be silent. A time to read and a time to write. A time to learn and a time to teach. A time to listen and a time to be heard. A time to lose and a time to gain. And for all of these things the time is now. Embrace the change! You can't ever let go of all the feelings, But you need to let go of him."
It amazed me how it made me feel better a few words. It was obvious he knew just how I was feeling, for he knew just what to say.
You will forever be in my heart, and i'm positive i'll nver truly let you go. Moving on is simple, it's what you leave behind that makes it so difficult.Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew. You Know what I mean.
Love that remains longest in your heart is the one that is not returned. Though you returned it for the longest time, It took losing you to find me. It would have took finding me to keep me from losing you.
2 hou
2007-08-26
01:45:15 ·
update #1
We don't stop loving someone, we simply learn to live without them. Missing you isn't the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart. Shatters it really.
Someone should sue Disney for planting the ideas in little kids heads that every girl has a prince and everything ends up happily ever after. Growing up you learn that fairy tales don't always have a happy ending, do they? I've learned a hard lesson in knowing you love someone when you want them to be happy even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. And I want to be, and this you and I both know. If I were granted three wishes, they would be You, Me, Us. I've made that obvious being of sound mind I think. I'm scared i'm going to confess. I'm scared of everything, I'm scared of who I am, what I saw, what I did, but most of all I am scared of walking away from you and never feeling for the rest of my life, the way I feel when I'm with you. I'm so sorry I ruined us..
2007-08-26
01:45:53 ·
update #2
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. I don't ever want to cause you another ounce of pain my love. And I won't...
Drugs are the worst mistake anyone can ever make. I lost my life..
Word to the wise ya'll.... stay away from drugs, unless losing things irreplaceable, (ie- my husband) or being one of those tweeked out skraggly things appeal to you...
God bless ya'll
2007-08-26
01:46:36 ·
update #3