he finally told me on the internet.
2007-08-26 01:28:22 · 23 answers · asked by bootylicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your boyfriend cheated on you because he wanted to be with that other person. Even if he believed you broke up, the last thing on his mind should have been being with someone else since most people in relationships need time to get over the other person before moving on.The fact that he told you on the internet, also shows his knows he has done something wrong, otherwise he would have told you in another way. The fact that he told you is admirable, but he may have told you because he wants to be single figuring what he did you would never forgive him for. The best thing for you to do is to move on. Your trust has been violated and rebuilding that trust may be difficult, so you have to ask yourself, is he worth it and if it was that easy for him to move on, is his feelings for you the same as your feelings for him.
2007-08-26 01:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he could do that so quickly and not be bothered about not trying to fix the problem between the both of you then he isn't worth the time of day in your life! When you love and care about someone I would think it would be a little difficult to be thinking about sex with just anybody even if you thought the other person broke up with you!! I believe this was the best excuse if any for him to find a reason to cheat on you especially if he now thinks he wants you back! If you do consider taking him back make sure he is checked for all std's out there and be carefull that he isn't harboring any that doesn't show up for years. So now you know what you can expect out of him when dealing with his stress. What better way could he have made the better choice in dealing with himself?? If he can throw it all away so easily he would not be someone you could trust when things get a little bad to make any good come out of anything. Hopefully he had protected sex and the girl hasn't become pregnant over it and be connected to this girl for life? See.....he risked even that happening to throw away any future with you if he had a chance to want to make things right after the two of you had a problem together. I would be hurt and sorry that he made that choice to think so little of what we had together to be so selfish so quickly! I think if I were you I would move on in my world without him and find someone that would think more of me to fix something that has gone wrong instead of jumping into the sack to fix it with someone else. Take care of you now and best of luck.
2007-08-26 03:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People reach different conclusions sometimes. My girlfriend and I had been dating for 3 years with problems. I was leaving to go to the beach with family .
Before I left we had a fight and weren't really talking. When I came back a week later, I wanted to work things out between us. The only problem was, she had started dating someone while I was gone. She said while I was gone she decided to move on, because we had broken up. Before I left she was crying and begging for this to just be space apart, which is what I thought it was. I guess I was wrong. Now she thinks its some lame excuse and I'm just grasping for anything I can to get her back.
2007-08-26 01:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a stupid excuse, or it could be the both of you have a lousy way of communicating. Maybe he thought you broke up with him and you obviously didnt think you broke up with him. That tells me you dont have a very good line of communication going. I really dont think that is the situation at all, I think he is using it as an excuse to do what he wants to do. Surely you would know if you broke it off with him or not.
2007-08-26 01:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wasn't this on an episode of Friends? If so, don't fret in another 4-5 years it will all work out.
Well if you didn't break up, now might be the time. He cheated and he told you ON THE INTERNET!!!! What a loser.
2007-08-26 01:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by candy'sroom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Supposedly thought? Lame. Time to find a new boyfriend.
2007-08-26 01:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a couple is broken up, both of you know it. My ex bf tried to use that stupid excuse with me, too. Yes, we had been having an argument, but there is a very real difference between arguing and having problems and actually being broken up. He knows he screwed up and he's just grasping at straws to justify it. IT IS NOT YOU. He did this..
2007-08-26 01:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you think you and your girlfriend broke up?
It's him honey, that's a lame excuse. Then telling you on the internet was also a cop out. I say he's not worth your time.
2007-08-26 01:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy one...as much as it may hurt to hear...dump him. Come on...supposedly he thought you 2 were broken up??? Is he for real????? What lame excuse will he give you next time. Trust me it will happen again.
Good luck!
2007-08-26 01:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gheezzee
that is the worst excuse ever!!! not there there is ever an acceptable "excuse" for bf/gf cheating on the other. He lied.
He copped out with the inet confession. He had the hots for the other chick and acted on it. Find yourself an honest guy.
2007-08-26 01:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by fretochose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋