My husband left me for a teenage girl and she's cheating on him already,should i tell him?He told me he cheated on me 4 times during our 18 yrs of marriage,we have 2 little boys and i don't want their father to get a std.
2007-08-26 02:57:10 · 38 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just how old is this teenage girl,your husband is seeing??? and why do you stay with a man who cheats on you??
And don't say it's because of the kids...
Dump him and move on. he will never change.And std is the last thing you should worry about for him ,how about being a pedophile if the girl is underage???
2007-08-26 03:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him how he is being played just like you were in your entire time of marriage to him. Your children need to understand how their father wanted to know that he is still attracted to the young generation and, needed some security in that area. Men usually freak out when they are approaching a certain age and, enjoy playing a field around with young women who have no sense of what is a true relationship! I am sorry that he has disrespected you and your children by being foolish. Remember that you are the better of the two and will only learn from this. I wish you well and hope that someday you will find a partner that will respect and honor your wishes.
good luck
2007-08-26 03:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by gordgato 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband left you for this gal do you really think he's going to listen if you did tell him? He's going to think you're just jealous, or that you just want to start trouble. If he's a big enough 'man' to leave his wife and kids, he's big enough to know if he has a std. Maybe he should hear it from someone else so it won 't seem like you're trying to start trouble. If he did get an std it would be fitting. He wasn't nice to you and the family when he left so why would you be so nice now.
2007-08-26 03:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by flash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't tell him because if you tell him, he's gonna think that you're making it up to break them apart. Maybe if you still talk to him, if you have any idea where you can catch this girl in actions, just call him up and ask him to meet you where you see the girl cheating on him and he'll see it for himself. He'll prolly thank you later on down the road or he just don't care if the girl is cheating on him. But my best bet is if you try to tell him, he's not gonna believe you unless you have solid proofs. So I say if you know where this girl going with another guy, just call your husband and tell him that your kids wants to see him at the same locations. I hope this helps!
2007-08-26 03:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by deafgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you are chomping at the bit to tell him and I understand! But if you really want to see him suffer do NOT tell him! No, no, no! Let him fall so deeply in lust for her that he finds it difficult to deal with when he finds out. He needs a shrink. And what do you care if he gets a disease? If he dies young your kids will get Social Security Survivorship checks every month. LOL You have to get over him. Please have enough respect for yourself to detach from him. Going back to him would hurt you more in the long run. And the kids, too, as you and your x would be fighting all the time. Time will heal your wounds. Good luck!
2007-08-26 03:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't and here is something you can do. Tell a cop that he is dating a teenager. She is a child and he is sick. That is the most disturbing thing I just don't understand why a grown man would want to leave an exprienced woman for a child. I don't see how you can be a mom and not have called the cops on him the minute you realized he was with a child. What if you had a daughter and he was doing that to her.
2007-08-26 03:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by christina h 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your husband get's an std that will be his own fault whether you want it or not. Why would it bother you if he did, you really don't plan on being with him again do you? He has abandonded is family I'd be at the lawyer's filing for divorce on those grounds.
2007-08-26 09:55:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, lady, why do you care about this clown? Better for you to concentrate on getting full custody of those kids. What sort of father takes up with a teenaged girl?
2007-08-26 03:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is under 18, call the police, her parents, etc. He should be under the jail. However, if she is a grown women, simply let it be. His choices have gotten him in this situation. Did he ask for your advice before he cheated on you 4 times? Let him deal with his own misery.... And concentrate on yourself, healing from this horrible situation. Good luck and God bless****
2007-08-26 03:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me i would never tell him let him have the taste of his own medicine i mean you have two little sons right your husband is setting a bad example infront of them they will do the same to their wifes you should let your husband get punished so your boys learn a lesson and they in turn do not cheat on their wives like that.
2007-08-26 03:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Am1!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋