my parents tought us that marraige is a sacred union. all my life i beleived in that, til i got married myself.
when divorce is not an option, how can one keep herself from worring and hurting in a one way relationship?.... life is a valuable thing... how do i find joy in it? other than marraige?
2007-08-28 18:29:52 · 5 answers · asked by rekha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well that depends on what happiness is to you... Some say that the only way to find true happiness is to be at peace with yourself.. take time to get into you and what makes you happy.. that really is the only way to enjoy life. Why worry about things that really don't matter a month or a year from now. When you die one day and you move on to bigger and better things.. will you have wanted to have wasted so much time on someone else or doing what you thought was right and what made you happy..
sometimes religion helps... i don't know of what faith you are or if u even have one.. but go to this website with an pen mind... it helped me..
www.ezreality.com
2007-08-28 18:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by logic-x 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess I would ask why is divorce not an option? To be honest if you are in a one sided relationship there is no silver lining. If you allow yourself to be used as a door mat then that is what you will be..... sorry but that is the harsh reality of the situation.... you can't make someone love you if they don't.... and you can never be happy where there is no love.
I've just read the other answers that were presented to you and I wanted to be ill....... no matter how good you feel about yourself if you are in a relationship where you give but get nothing in return then you will always have someone there that will bring you down and test your resolve... this is no way to live your life. It is living a lie and only half a life. If you are so opposed to divorce then don't get one but at the same time don't live with someone that doesn't appreciate you either. Create a life that is separate from him..... maybe some day he will grow up and realize what he is missing and then be willing to be an equal partner.
2007-08-29 02:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you are broght up like that i was also. but there are times when it can't help cause of the way you were brought up not every one goes that way. if you have a loveless marriage then move on. God does not want you to be unhappy. you have to take each day and if this is problem you can't live like this rest of your life get out of this and move on and he will know you are ok there isn't just one true answer when one is unhappy. take care good luck
2007-09-01 23:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-29 01:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by walawala 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk with jesus he will lead you with your heart he never dissappoints.
2007-09-02 00:38:57 · answer #5 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋