How do I get my husband to stop worrying about money?

Answer 1

When you find that out let me know because my husband get on my nerves at the end of the month.

Answer 2

You need to show him that you can handle money responsibly. If you don't have any saving account then open one. If you shop for clothes/bags/shoes/makeups/etc too much then try to cut it down. How do you know if you shop too much? If you have items still with price tags on and it's been a few months or more. If you have been doing all those things and he still worries about money, then, you need to sit down and talk to him. Show him that there is nothing to be worry about. Both of you should have some money saved for rainy days that can cover for at least 1 year (if one of you or both of you lose the job). My husband and I have been trying to save some money for that. It is very hard because we don't have much left over. But if I can save $1.00 a day then in a year I'll have $365.00. It is sure better than nothing.

Answer 3

I don't know your story about why he's worrying about money. But I will try my best to give you advice.

1) If you often go out to eat, cut down on it and cook your own meals often. Buy food in bulk at superstores like Costco's and Sams Club (US residents). You'd believe how much money you save.

2) If you often go to the movies, rent dvds from Netflix or Blockbuster instead. For example, everytime you go to the movies it can cost $9 per person. You can rent unlimited dvds from Netflix or Blocbuster at $19.99 per month.

3) If you live in a bigger house and can hardly pay the bills, rent an apartment or rent from a smaller home.

4) Shop at Thrift Stores for clothing

5) If you are not currently working and don't have much skills, get a part time job at Walmart, Target, Kmart, grocery stores and other retail stores, even if you are paid minimum wage. Don't sit and wait around for a management position anytime soon, you have to work your way up. Any extra money you make always helps.

6) You can also buy things in bulk on eBay

Answer 4

Same problem! You need to sit down together & make a budget, cut out the things you can't afford, plan how you're going to pay the bills, figure out ways to save money, decide if you need an extra income. You may not want to do it but it'll work wonders...trust me! Also, show him that you're making an effort to save money by not spending as much, clipping coupons etc. If he's worrying about money then you should be trying to figure out why.

Answer 5

Have you guys written out a monthly budget on paper? Often that can help with money worries because you see where the money is going and how much you have left over. There may be things on the budget that you can cut back on like groceries or entertainment (including eating out). Cutting back on unnecessary items will also help with worrying.

Answer 6

He may have had issues with money growing up where there was not enough, and he saw/felt his parents' anxiety and worry. The legacy may have continued. Dig a little deeper, don't just look at surface things and assume he is being unfair or unreasonable. Most times when you understand where the other person is coming from, it makes it easier to adjust your reactions.

Answer 7

First of all let me welcome you to the real world. I have done tax work for 40 years now and money is always the top topic of conversation in and out of marriage. If you can set down with your spouse and settle all things financial my hat is off to you. Don't stick your head in the sand and hope for the best as that leaves a large part of your anatomy exposed. Make sure to the best of your ability that you are both on the same sheet of music relating to finances. Good luck.

Answer 8

maybe you could sit down and do a monthly budget, see how much you are able to save, and what you're spending your money on each month.

maybe if there is more "control" over what is coming in, he will feel better after a time?

that's all i can think of.

Answer 9

If he is worrying about it, that means he is trying to figure out a plan. Let him think, don't ruin his concentration. Would you prefer if it was your responsibility to provide?

Answer 10

Make a budget