Marriage & Divorce - 28 August 2007

2007-08-28 17:57:34 · 9 answers · asked by Paula L 1

I have been married for 9 years and together for 18 we have had lots of problems such as bankrupcy and sickness. my husband and i haven't been getting on at all for the last 6 years. he has been sarcastic to me and treating me with a lack of respect as he just cannot show me emotional support so then about 4 years ago i started to close my heart to him cause of this treatment.We have 2 children which makes it worse cause i feel scared of hurting the kids then there is the money independance i am not sure i can do it on my own. about 3 months ago i told my husband i will not put up with his attitude anymore. he said he will change and he is trying but i realise i just don't love him anymore the way a wife should.We r seeking counciling now so he can get help to make me open back up again and to teach me how to realise he isn't being rude anymore. so i am giving this a chance but what i want to know is there real love for me out there. if i meet someone else would that work for me?

2007-08-28 16:59:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son did the dirty on his wife, had an affair and walked out to live with his girlfriend.I helped my daughter in law to pack up and move to her home state over 1000 miles away to be with her family, she took my grand daughter with her.Here's my problem, my son-who refuses to talk to me except when he wants to be abusive (totally out of character I might add) is calling his wife and threatening all kinds of things, he'll fight for custody of the child, he'll set the law on her and things of that nature.My daughter in law is e-mailing me with the details which is upsetting to say the least.My son wasn't raised to be this way and every single one of his friends has expressed their disgust over his behavior. My problem is this, I'm making myself sick with stress over all their problems because I feel I'm being put in the middle. I don't wish to contact my son but I want to stay in contact with daughter in law. Without hurting her feelings how do I tell her I just don't want to know ALL!

2007-08-28 16:52:30 · 8 answers · asked by Sandtone 3

Two of my x pals are going to jail for invading my cyber space and my home, and they think they have gotten away with it, but they are nailed to the cross. They are cowards and little girls instead of confronting me like a man. Should I hammer their as___s or let the Feds handle it??

2007-08-28 16:44:14 · 3 answers · asked by Will S 1

What makes you feel really good? After working hard on something...I just cleaned my whole house and I feel great now---anything make you feel good after a big chore? i.e. arranging your closet, or changing the oil in your car--don't you feel better--it's a chore-gasm.

2007-08-28 16:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by cat 3

2007-08-28 16:25:59 · 7 answers · asked by for the heck of it 1

I recently got remarried for the second time. Thinking that i found someone who finally who could relate to me. Because rust has always been an issue in my relationships, it took me a while to make the decision to get remarried. I am a good, faithful woman to him in EVERY way not only sexual. Lately I have been seeing him post things to different females on myspace that I feel is innappropriate. We both have pages but I tell all my guy friends upfront to respect my husband. Now i feel like if he will do it online he will do it in person if he had the chance. I feel like i should have stayed single. Am i over reacting?

2007-08-28 16:24:10 · 37 answers · asked by Monique 2

my husband has been calling phone sex lines..... why do men do these things? is there any nice guys out there?

2007-08-28 16:23:24 · 12 answers · asked by sweet pea 2

I told him if he ever needed anything id help him out. But he said thanks but he needs some time off from our relationship.Correct me if i'm wrong but when a guy is going thru sad times, wouldnt he want his partner to help him out and not stay away? I feel he is using this to break up with me. What should i do?

2007-08-28 16:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 22 years old and my parents got divorced when i was just 10 years old, i am not over it after 2 years. my dad cheated on my mother, and left her because she found out she had lupus(auto immune disease), so me and my father aren't close at all im lucky if we talk once a month, i dont know who he is and he really has no idea who his daughter is, but i kind of hate him and want to tell him off after all these years....?

2007-08-28 15:22:23 · 17 answers · asked by blazinhotchick84 1

dose he ever want to cheat on me

2007-08-28 15:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by amanda p 1

2007-08-28 15:00:07 · 53 answers · asked by Christopher N 2

2007-08-28 14:50:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need tips

2007-08-28 14:48:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 14:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sure the story will grow tomorrow.

2007-08-28 14:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by MZNAVY 2

2007-08-28 14:34:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since my husband can't get an erection, hasn't had one for months now and therefore we haven't had sex in months, should I cheat on him?

2007-08-28 14:31:53 · 35 answers · asked by Girlon22s 1

2007-08-28 14:25:08 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you get married you share the money you both earn, right? So if the husband is in complete control of who uses what money, and doesnt let anyone else keep it..is that against the law?

2007-08-28 14:21:08 · 11 answers · asked by Clarity. 3

2007-08-28 14:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by dreamyulia 1

2007-08-28 13:57:13 · 20 answers · asked by field 2

he acts a fool. even once I had to call the police on him. he thinks he can tell me anything and i don't appreciate him disrespecting me in front of our daughter. I am not trying to keep her away from him but I think I at least deserve some respect. She shouldn't have to see him curse at me and call me names. I did nothing to deserve such treatment. when he disrespects me it makes me very unhappy and I don't want my child to sense that her mom is unhappy. I have filled child support on him and haven't heard back from them yet. Maybe the courts will decide something..but until then, I don't know what to do. Since he disrespects me, i feel like I have did enough and he doesn't appreciate what I have done for our child as a single parent. He does not acknowledge that and constantly has something negative to say to me. he just gets on my nerves...plz help! Also, he smokes weed and its disgusting when he wants to hold her smelling like weed and being high!!!!! I'm disgusted!

2007-08-28 13:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by boredoutmymind 2

2007-08-28 13:38:57 · 15 answers · asked by gassniffer 2

Should I be worried about this? He says it's just a bad habit.. I get nervous everytime he describes other women as sexy because it's like I have to compare myself with them. What's your experience?

2007-08-28 13:00:12 · 33 answers · asked by ? 6

I got into a fight with my husband over the phone about how much he works and he said if he didn't work a lot we wouldn't be able to afford our house or the nice things he buys me. But I sort of don't think that's important don't get me wrong I like getting gifts as much as the next woman and I do like our house but I'll settle for less if he spent more time with me instead of at his office. So what's more important spending time with your spouse or material things?

2007-08-28 12:36:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How would you fell? If your spouse told you they needed to get away with a friend to Mexico and not with you. The friend is going through a divorce.
Your spouse says she/he needs a vacation from you and the kids she/he has been working to hard.
You know that the friend is a party girl/boy and has that attitude what happens there happened there or never happened.

2007-08-28 12:34:31 · 28 answers · asked by Capt. Jack 1

2007-08-28 12:32:58 · 46 answers · asked by OMG 2

We came from a religous family. My bro got married because his girlfriend got pregnant when he was 17. noone thought the marriage would last, but it did, but he has been unhappy for 30 years. He had an affair and his wife found out and went crazy. We dont talk a lot but I think the affair is still going on. I dont like his wife, she is a controlling sort. I wish he would leave her because he is not getting any younger and he should be happy, dont you think? He comes and goes when he likes and his wife is ignoring that he is never at home anymore. what should I do, I love my bro, but I know he is scared of what his wife will do if he leaves her.

2007-08-28 12:29:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 12:29:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous