can anyone tell me why my wife kicks me out over an argument. then a week later begs me to come back??

Answer 1

I'd be more interested in knowing why you go back.

Answer 2

Sometimes women react out of emotion. If she felt disrespected for some reason, she may have become angry and felt that this was the only way to make you realize that she's not having it.

I did this to my husband before to let him know that I am not the one to be disrespected. He didn't do anything bad but it was enough for me to feel that I was being disrespected. He's not single anymore. I respect him enough to be home at a certain time when I go out with my friends and I expect the same (4:30 in the morning is not acceptable). Those are whore hours.

Now IF, in fact, you are TOTALLY blameless in this.....she may have some emotional imbalance and may need to speak with someone. But, if you did have some part in it, please don't make it seem like it's all her fault.

If you find that she does need help, if you love her.....support her and be there for her. Don't give up on her yet. She may have bipolar or may be depressed (same thing) and medication may make things better.

Answer 3

Because when she kicked you out, she was doing that out of pure emotion and was obviously very ticked off at you for something.

After she had time to cool off, she probably realized that she made a major mistake by kicking you out and she is really, really sorry for making that decision.

Why not talk with her about the situation and make sure that moving back in is what is best for her and YOU!

Answer 4

1st what was the argument over? But regardless, as a woman I know sometimes we make bad judgements in anger. She obviously just needed a break. If she was faithful in that week, and seems to be apologetic for her actions, I say to let it go, but next time, I would remind her about this incident, and if she still feels like you need to leave, I would not go back so easily, show her you will not play her games. Let her see how it feels. Good luck.

Answer 5

Maybe she had time to think and realizes she made a rash judgment. She just needed time alone to cool off from the argument. If you go back you need to set guide rules on fighting. When your having an argument you need to give her space and time for thinking.

Answer 6

She is trying to make a point and she dose not think you are listening, so she is going to extremes , ya ,she is wrong but since you know she is like that , You need to find a way to make her feel listened to and loved . Ask her what makes her want to kick you out every time you have a fight rather then work it out ,, counselings might help

Answer 7

Because she is immature and doesn't know what she wants...she was obviously too young to get married when she did. I suggest the next time she kicks you out that you go file for legal separation.

Answer 8

She needs anger management or she is treating you just like the last man in her life treated her. She wanted to catch you first and throw you out first.

She needs to get over her past affairs and love you as her husband and not as her past boyfriends.

You may be doing all the right things but she will continue to treat you like her past boy friends who abused her- she is taking it out on you.

She has to release those soul ties from the past.

I hope this can help!

Answer 9

Field, we do a lot of crazy thing when angry. She still loves you is why she begs you to come back.

Answer 10

Because she's a pyscho!

If you don't have kids, get out now before you do.

Trust me I know. And the authorities ended up taking her away in cuffs.

The Rat

Answer 11

SHE KICKS YOU OUT B/C SHE IS ANGRY.. SHE HAS NO WORRIES B/C SHE KNOWS YOU WILL ALWAYS COME BACK!

YOU NEED TO PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AND MAYBE NOT COME BACK THE NEXT TIME.. OR AT LEAST WAIT A FEW DAYS OR WEEK OR SO BEFORE YOU DO!

THAT IS RIDICULOUS THAT SHE DOES THAT AND YOU LET HER BY LEAVING AND ALWAYS COMING BACK!