The absolute love of my life is married to another, as am I, but, for 22 years since our split, we have swapped occasional e-mails, and stayed in contact. She is not "in love" with her husband, I am not "in love" with my wife, but things arent "miserable" for us either. We both have two school age children. We have seen each other numerous times, but no sexual contact. We know the moral and religious wrongs here, but this isn't a reincarnation of the past, it isnt lust, it isnt anything but true...everlasting love. We have been "found out" by our spouses, and things are dicey. We have broken off contact, cept for what are most likely "goodbye e-mails". We struggle with the kids factor, the committments we made to our spouses and to God. Obviously, we should not have been doing this while married. The love we share for each other is incredible. It's the stuff songs are written about. It isn't something we have fabricated in our minds. We know we made choices though, and thats whats hard
2007-08-28
07:34:12
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