It seems like we have just gotten into a routine and I would like to try to spice things up.
2007-08-28 08:24:27 · 9 answers · asked by justwin7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex isn't the problem, we have a great sex life I just am looking to try to do the things that would let her know that after all these years the fire is still there.
2007-08-28 08:55:02 · update #1
Wow, how wonderful! There are lots of things...maybe, take her on a weekend getaway, bring her flowers for no reason, cook dinner, take a bubble bath together with candles around the tub or in the room. Play slow music and dance naked in the dark. Give her a massage. Have tickle fights or pillow fights. Play strip poker. Go to Spencer's and get some playful games. As long as you're trying, that's bonus points in my book! I hope your wife appreciates you? Good luck!
2007-08-28 08:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
doing the little things that we all take for granted is a good place to start. the big romantic dinners are nice but you can't do that everyday.
come up behind her in the kitchen and tell her how beautiful she is. bring her coffee in the am. go for an evening walk holding hands. bring a small bouquet of flowers for no reason. it may not seem like much but it will help you remember what attracted you to each other in the first place which inevitably leads to "spice".
2007-08-28 08:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can bring her flowers and then take her out to a nice dinner and the two of you could talk about when you first got together or the little things that you two do that makes your heart beat. Almost anything sweet when it comes to women leads to sex, but not just sex, love making! You can do it use your imagination.
2007-08-28 08:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cook her a nice steak, chips and pepper sauce. Crack open some bubbly. Give her a nice thinking of you card. It's the little things that count.
And for a bit of 'hows your father' (wink, wink); clean and tidy the bedroom, fresh sheets, have a shower, light some candles and get some classy massage oil.
2007-08-28 08:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Smokeabella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out catch a movie maybe a chick flick, take her out to a nice dinner and then depending on your age pop a pill if need be and make love to her like a porn star
2007-08-28 08:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by JUAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing a picnic in the park or fixing her a romantic dinner by candlelight fix her favorite meal or go out for dinner,dancing,and to the movies or take her to the theater or a play if you do the candlelight dinner fix her favorite meal and you serve her hand and foot she does not do a thing at all or find out what her fantasies are and fulfill them.
2007-08-28 08:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
flowers take her to a romantic setting a weekend break
2007-08-28 08:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
romantic dinner, then bring her home, candles, rose petals on the bed
2007-08-28 08:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by naughtygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat her
2007-08-28 08:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Big V 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋