Marriage & Divorce - 28 August 2007

My husband was corresponding with another woman and the letters were quite graphic and of a sexual nature. Even though i have seen these letters, he denies he did anything wrong. It was going on for about 18months - 2 years. This happened a couple of years ago but i just found out about it.

2007-08-28 12:27:55 · 23 answers · asked by madiesmum 6

high school?

college?

or post college after you got setup in your career of choice?

2007-08-28 12:19:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if you agree then what's better someone you know or don't know?

2007-08-28 12:12:34 · 26 answers · asked by m-caesar 2

Is it weird for two people to date and have kids and stuff like that until they die, but never get married? Not that nobody has proposed, just that they got denied a few times and are afraid to ask again. I mean like... they kind of want to get married, but at the same time they are afraid to make the commitment. What do you think they should do?

2007-08-28 12:11:27 · 32 answers · asked by Courtney 1

I really love her and want spend the rest of my life with her, but its hard to understand that she wants to wait, can someone enlighten me why.

2007-08-28 12:08:22 · 25 answers · asked by Red Sawx ® 6

2007-08-28 11:56:14 · 19 answers · asked by Confused Chick 1

I have been married for 8 years and I love my husband very much. he's the greatest husband in the world. I have 3 children.
the terrible thing is i have been cheating on my hubby with my ex for the most of our marriage.

I have had another affair with a man at work and twice from a bar my friends and i go too.

now,I am pregnant. I KNOW it is my EX's baby
I really want to confess all this to my husband. how do i tell him something like this?

Will God forgive me and will God please let my husband be understanding? please help me!

2007-08-28 11:52:34 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dealing with this for over 2 years my B/F cheated on me with his ex, now the only problem I have is that she on occasion is coresponding with him via email, and this has happen since we have been back together he said he told her that we were back together, but to be honest I am not sure if she got it. I totally trust him the issue I have is that I have totally cut all tie with any of my ex's fling or whatever you want to call them while we were broke up. I feel that it should be the same. Should I email her and tell her how I feel? Just want her to stay where she belongs in the past no need for them to be conversing or chating anymore. I feel if I do this it will put my heart at easy and close the book, does this make sense? Or am I just being silly. We have a good thing and want to keep it that way. Please help letter is ready and waiting to send.

2007-08-28 11:41:41 · 15 answers · asked by harley G 2

We have been married for 28 years. The biggest problem has always been sex. I worked full time and raised 3 kids, and was exhausted most of the time, so sex was the last thing on my mind. Now that the kids are grown and gone, it's still the last thing on my mind. I don't feel like he is attracted to me at all any more, because he spends so much time on Voyerweb. I don't think he even cares about what I think or feel anymore, because he never seems interested. It's always my fault, because I don't want to dress like a slut, and flash strange men to turn him on. I don't think I should have to do those things. He says it's to bring excitement back to our sex life. I am very uncomfortable with it. Are we just completely sexually incompatible at this point? I really think he wants to divorce me, but I keep thinking we can work it out, but I can't seem to get past my "hang-ups" Is it me, or him???? Help, I can't live like this anymore!!!

2007-08-28 11:32:53 · 15 answers · asked by CSmom 5

me & my husband have a major problem, and we decided to separate, we have a new born and we live in his parents house. i need to leave the house but he wont let me bring our child, what should i do? and what are my rights. pls help...

2007-08-28 11:32:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have known this friend for over11 years, only recently ihave become un comfortable with her actions.

2007-08-28 11:23:44 · 12 answers · asked by uwigrad 2

My husband and I eloped almost two years ago. He is in the Navy, I had dropped out of college at the time (not at all related to him, it was a personal decision). We had never "officially" been boyfriend and girlfriend, however when he came to visit we just decided that since we had been in love for so long (5 years) and neither of us cared about weddings and I didn't want to live there anymore we should just go ahead and do it. We called up a Justice of the Peace, got married, and I moved with him to Connecticut from Ohio. My parents were devastated. I was the Salutorian of my highschool, and their expectations for me are very high and strict. They have been trying to make me get a divorce since I got married. They have met him and liked him (until we got married). I am 22, he is 23 and we have no children. I adore him, but with the constant pressure from my parents, I am starting to wonder if they are right, and whether it is worth the pain I am causing them. Any insight?

2007-08-28 11:17:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I just been married for about 2 years and we done alot of kinky things. He told me that his sister used to make him try on her lingerie when it was in the early teens I thought it was funny and cute! He said he liked it alot but never done it since then. So i was wondering If I should make him try a few of my lil sexy things on hahah! Just wondering if any other wives or g/f has done this to their guys and what ideas would be good to dress him up in. hahah We both have this weekend off so i was thinking about doing it to him this weeked. Thanks again for your input and ideas!

2007-08-28 10:57:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My relationship with my 15 year old stepdaughter is very difficult. My husband got very upset with her and told her that if she doesn't have respect for us she is not welcome at our place. My SD is very upset with him and she blames everything on me. Every time he doesn't show up at her baseball game because he is extremely busy she tells her coaches and friends that her dad's bitchy wife didn't let him go because she is jealous of her mother. I told her one time that she was acting like a spoiled selfish b**** and she told all her friends, her mom and her stepdad that I called her names, made fun of her and called her a b****. I apologized for that, I said I was wrong but I also told her that I am not going to let her disrespect her father. She is acting hateful towards me and says that I told my husband that she couldn't come to our house anymore. She always says good things about her stepdad, so I must be a problem. What should I do? Should I just not worry about her hating me?

2007-08-28 10:39:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 10:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We already have one child who is 7 years old. I have wanted another one for about 3 years and he refuses to let me get pregnant. This is what I really want. Just one more and he won't allow it. I am so confused, please help me.

I know my avatar name is Angel of Death, but I am very serious about this question. Thanks for all the help.

2007-08-28 10:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by Angel of Death says F-IT! 6

You have been in a relationship with a girl you claim you love and she loves you back with all her heart and you know she loves you so much because you feel it inside you. One day you ask her to marry you and she bursts out crying you know she loves you. But all she says is, "this is a big step in life, are you sure you want to do this?" But you know she loves you and you love her... Now my question is, "Would you allow her to think about it?" Would you honor her request??

Or would you automatically take this as a NO and even though she practically begs and says that she was going to say YES all along, and you know she loves you with all her heart.

2007-08-28 10:34:24 · 49 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3

2007-08-28 10:23:27 · 14 answers · asked by K M 6

my husband tells me he loves me and doesnt want a divorce. but he cheated on me twice. now he and i have decided to take a break. and i think once he realizes he does need me it will end. but i have decided to date. do you think even though he has done it to me, that he will care if i date other people? i dont want to ruin my marriage but i cant sit around forever.

2007-08-28 10:21:24 · 26 answers · asked by funnygalsc 2

For married couples, what is the rule when it comes to your money? Is it OUR money? or MINE is still MINE and YOURS is still YOURS? or does the wife really have a say on her husband's money?

Is there a law that says that once you are married, you own what he owns?

2007-08-28 10:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask because I am considering it in the future. My ex and I didn't want to divorce but we didn't get to the courthouse quick enough to get the paperwork away from the judge. Now that the divorce is final we are trying to get back together in hopes we can remarry. We both love one another very much and our divorce was a misunderstanding about mis-information. Moral of the story was not to trust meddling in-laws who spread rumors (that aren't true). I just wonder how successful it is. We are going to counseling and taking it slow. Suggestions? Comments?

2007-08-28 10:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did it happen ?. How long had you been talking etc ?.

2007-08-28 10:08:05 · 35 answers · asked by Emm H 2

sorry darling,,but i have blisters on my butt ,from sitting down all day on yahoo answers

2007-08-28 09:45:16 · 46 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

Now this dog, the guy next door, who invited my daughter and I over to get drunk when his wife went to her mother's home with all the children, is eyeing another neighbour lady. Should I warn this lady? If yes, how?

2007-08-28 09:39:36 · 19 answers · asked by lily on pool 2

2007-08-28 09:30:28 · 34 answers · asked by Robert D 1

do in one day? Is 5 times a good number for a 36 yr old?

2007-08-28 09:22:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend says his ex girlfriend got his newly changed cellphone number from the internet.

Is there a place where you can get this type of information.

Yes she does know my home address although it is not my billing address.

Yes she has my first and last name.

2007-08-28 09:20:09 · 11 answers · asked by Kathy J 3

ok, i got good feed back from my fart question.

do any of you like to have a conversation while pooping? i mean is ur spouse there when ur in the bathroom?
i do, i even have my daughters do the same(only me) they tell me to sit down with them and have a chat. do any of you do it?

2007-08-28 09:16:36 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's hard because he has aplogized and expects it all to be back to normal but his hateful words really cut deep and it's gross when he comes in for the kiss and more because I just don't want to be touched by him anymore right now. But then he will be irritated because he's not getting any... so what the eff?

2007-08-28 09:03:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here are the examples of "happy" marriages in my life.
-Two parents that separated four times when I was a child
-A brother who has been caught cheating on his wife, and his wife took him back but still won't let it go
-Grandparents who have been married for almost sixty years and they can hardly sit in the same room together.
-A cousin who is so miserable in his marriage that you can see his jaw clench every time he is within five feet of his wife
-A sister who is in the process of a divorce because her husdband likes to look at little five year old girls on the internet.

Gee, no wonder I'm not looking for "the one". Why do people still ask me why im not married yet?

2007-08-28 09:03:11 · 20 answers · asked by Morgantown32 2