And if you agree then what's better someone you know or don't know?
2007-08-28 12:12:34 · 26 answers · asked by m-caesar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all this was a question someone else asked me...it's not mine so all of yall can slow yo roll or don't answer! Feel me!
2007-08-28 12:23:09 · update #1
You must be speaking of yourself Juniejuly.
2007-08-28 12:47:08 · update #2
Ill ask your mom mtnhotte!
2007-08-28 13:33:50 · update #3
mtnhottie:Don't get full of yourself shorty! You wish!lol!
2007-08-28 13:53:47 · update #4
I am single, but I have many married friends who do this and here's what they say:
If you are going to play around, do it with another couple not a single person. Bringing a single person into the mix is risking that he/she will develop feelings and not be able to keep it just sex. Every time a single person has been involved, there's been trouble.
Look up swingers clubs in your area and go scope it out. You meet people and ask them about their experiences, good and bad.
Only you and your wife can decide if it's okay for you or not. Don't listen to the ignorant drivelings of children on here who tell you it's immoral. You aren't married to them, are you?
2007-08-28 13:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by meagain 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Morally it is wrong you got married to be with that person for the rest of your life not to say once in a while hey i want to be with another/. when you have sexual realtions that brings wht is called a soul tie.it is in the bible you get litterally bound with the person. Not to get into that to much but See what happens is people try the threesomes.and maybe one person can get overwhelemd or jeolous. it just really makes things complicated. And frankly everyone that has ever told me they were into threesomes. they marriage fell.. So to answer i think no..No it would not be good to do a threesome...Hope you do whats right for you
2007-08-28 19:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Keisha 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
No I don't think it's o.k. It's always a dangerous thing to introduce other people into a relationship. There are many other ways to spice up a relationship. Have you ever tried role playing. Try meeting each other at a club or bar as if you are strangers. If you think you need to bring a third party into the bedroom,then maybe it's time to reasess your marriage.
2007-08-28 19:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by me me 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Back in the day STD's weren't deadly and I have to tell you that I'm a little freaked at death by sex. I have to much respect for my marriage for a 3 way, but if I felt different, I'd be scared of that.
2007-08-29 01:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Devin S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would never be a part of a threesome. If I'm not enough woman for my husband, he needs to go. I won't share him with another woman and I'm not about to be "shared" with someone else either.
2007-08-28 20:30:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Nope
2007-08-28 19:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by LuLu 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
It's not ok, it's cheating and fuels jealousy and distrust.
Who is more insecure in your relationship, if it's your idea, then she is the one who is secretly being destroyed by your proposal. If she is willing, then, she gets to pick the girl. Not you.
If you do this, it will come back to bite both of you.
2007-08-28 19:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by turners_pics 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
This activity would not be acceptable in my marriage. Other people's marriages I have no right to speak for. They get to choose what is right for them.
2007-08-28 19:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Sure!! Just make certain you have the money for a great attorney too
2007-08-28 19:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by madison134 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋
It's a good way to end a marriage. When she finds out you aren't that good of a lover she'll dump you.
2007-08-28 19:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 3⤋