Marriage & Divorce - 28 August 2007

My husband does not seem to want to have sex with me anymore. We have been together 10 years now and have always had a great relationship in and out of bed. We had a child a year and a half ago and another one on the way in a couple of months. I can't figure him out...He seems to avoid me lately. He will go to his Den and watch T.V. from the time he comes home from work until bedtime which is usually well after I have gone to bed (around 1 am) I wonder if he does this on purpose. Anyway we have had sex once a month if I'm lucky and this only happens if I initiate it. We used to have sex 2 to 3 times a week. I asked him about it last night and he told me That the problem is I am too antiliticall about it (which Iam not this is the first time I've said anything, then he told me all I have to do is come and get it. I told him that it would be nice ig he'd come and get it now and then . Then he replied that Maybe it's an age thing...He's 42. He then rolled over and went to sleep. UUGGHHH

2007-08-28 02:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by wenifer 2

So you are a beautiful woman. You have just finished your child bearing years bringing in 3 beautiful babies. You are ack to the gym and looking good. Do you like being checked out by other men? Do you purposely look around to see if other men are checking you out? If the answer is yes, does it turn you on? Is it just pure inocense? You love your husband very much, but do you also like being looked at by other men?

2007-08-28 02:04:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can tell she is totally in love with me and will be a devoted wife. All of a sudden though the rest of my life is flashing before me - and the fun of this honeymoon period is waning. I'm going off thinking about everything, job, life, everything and feel like I am going to throw up from stress. I feel out of control. Any thoughts?

2007-08-28 01:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by Delay 5

Doesn't something suffer? I know it does in my life. It is my relationship with my husband.

2007-08-28 01:52:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't feeling of fit and joyable whenver i do sex with my wife. I think the O is expaned. what to do for resize & feeling fit

Please guide

2007-08-28 01:52:16 · 17 answers · asked by konitari k 1

me and my boyfriend have been togeather for a year and a half. and it started out good then about 2 months into it we went to the shore(nj) and we got a hotel room and i dont remeber what we were fighting about but i kicked the trash can that we was holding on to and we started to fist fight well i socked him right in his eye and he griped me up by my neck. he never said sorry he told of his friend cuz he though it was funny. he made me look like a moron. anyway..so after that we would alway fight and and he would alway grip me up.so then he had a 35,000$ car and his mom would always b*tch to him about the car payment(hes 23 yrold and the car is under his mom's name) so by this time i was living with him and all we had at the time was the exsect amouth money that the car payment was and his mom took it(his mom would keep him in her room for 2hrs at a time everynight wile i would sit in his room, so rude) so he came back and i told him that he would have givin her half cuz he getting...

2007-08-28 01:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by ARMY WIFE TO BE 2012 4

make you more likely to cheat on your spouse, or less likely to cheat on your spouse.

My wife's Dad cheated on Mom many times, and Mom always let him back in. Finally after 25 years of different affairs the marriage ended. Granted the Mom was a mess for many reasons......... My wife still to this day despises her Father's action and hated how his actions destroyed their marriage. To my point. Is a woman who comes from this background more likely or less likely to cheat on her husband?

2007-08-28 01:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is in Portugal and before he left, he promised to spend the rest of his life with me.

2007-08-28 01:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Mercy J 2

2007-08-28 01:36:52 · 24 answers · asked by Beth 1

My wife assumed I was making the decision without her and told me to move out of the house and find my own place! I then told her that I wanted to talk to her about it, but that it really meant a lot to me since I really miss them.

Also, I feel that she should accept them as part of marrying me. At this point, she says I'm always going to put them first and she's always going to be sitting in the background and never do the things she wants to do. She's basically consented to stay in the relationship but says that divorce is always an option. Any advice?

Any time there's a problem with my kids, she tells me to move out. I'm getting tired of worrying whether or not I'm going to have a place to stay.

2007-08-28 01:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2

2007-08-28 01:33:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 6 years he told me it was over, he stays with his co-worker/ room mate whom he claimed was lesbian and @ some point and time was living with her girlfriend. Is it possible if youe'r lesbian to fall in love with a straight man? She is his lover now . Beating my head not knowing if I am coming or going I am still in love with him and do want him back in time any suggestions.

2007-08-28 01:24:40 · 17 answers · asked by maria s 2

Ok guys I'm serious. Over the last few months my wife (who is 6") has been beating on me (I am 5"4') at home. The attacks are often the result of only minor arguments which I never even instigate. When she attacks I try to restrain the ragged minge, but she is just too strong. Since the beatings started I have suffered two black eyes and was once rendered unconcious with a sleeper hold. I don't know what to do as I am too ashamed to go to the police and admit that I am being physical abused by a woman, although my friends all know from my injuries and they only rub salt in my wounds...

2007-08-28 01:11:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think that marriage laws should include things like polygamy and gay marriage? Why or why not?

And if not, what business do you think you have to meddle in the love lives of consenting adults? If the roles were reversed would you really like someone being able to remove your rights just because they didn't like it?

If you can't tell already, I do not believe the government should have any say in the partnerships and marriage laws of people. As for the people who are simply against it, what right should they have to remove the rights of others?

I am not comparing polygamy and gay marriage in any way, these are just two examples of things that are considered "unlawful" by people who should have no business in them in the first place. Also, I am only including CONSENTING adults. So none of the "why can't I marry my dog!?" or any of the other ridiculous stuff people come up with.. Like dogs have a legal standing in the first place.

2007-08-28 00:54:34 · 19 answers · asked by Mystery Lady H 5

2007-08-28 00:33:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an engineer from Iraq ,I'm 35 years old and I'll immigrate to USA and stay there because I love America and it's people and especially their soldiers who sacrifice by their sorts here in order giving us the peace and the freedom. In fact I love USA girls and women because they are so beautiful and I'd like to know a girl or adult woman to build a real relationship based on the understanding and the real love in order to form a real small family with lovely cute kids and we can finish all of this by happy end " marriage " . I'm muslim and I don't care if she is not muslim or she has kids or devorced or widow or she is rich or poor , all what I want is loving me and loving her from the depth of the hearts , I want her to be from 25 to 40 years old , we couldnn't love each other by this quick letter , I know that , we can know each other on the yahoo messenger and talk to each other , see each other and then she can make her decision after understanding each other .

2007-08-28 00:32:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex wife has announced she wants to go back to live in her home country of South Africa with our kids (who are all primary school age). I can understand her reasons (needing the close support of her family etc.), but our kids are very happy here in the UK, doing well in school, and above all else I think it's important that they have regular contact with both their parents.
I wouldn't be able to travel to see my kids more than a few times in the year, whereas at the moment we live in the same neighbourhood, and I see them constantly.
I do see that she is struggling here as a single mother, but then again it was her choice to have an affair with another man and divorce me. Just because things didn't work out for her as she'd hoped with her new man, it seems unfair on my kids to have their lives disrupted yet further by moving abroard and not being able to see their father more than 4 times a year.
Also SA is a dangerous place with violent robberies and kidnappings, I'll be very worried about my kids living there.

How can I prevent her from doing this? And am I being selfish by doing so? (Her parents will see me as the devil who didn't let their daughter return home, and condemned her to single motherhood in the UK, ignoring the fact that she made this mess for herself).

2007-08-28 00:14:44 · 9 answers · asked by pantocool 1

I have always known that alchohol has been to blame for some stupid **** happening, but I was curious: What woman in here, or woman you know has been very happy in their marriage and gone out with girlfriends. On their night out they had a few too many and ended up screwing someone else. Has this happened to anyone on here? What happened after this happened.

Remember, this is for people who are happy in their marriage but just had a bad night

2007-08-28 00:14:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-28 00:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by vssri_03 1