My husband and I just been married for about 2 years and we done alot of kinky things. He told me that his sister used to make him try on her lingerie when it was in the early teens I thought it was funny and cute! He said he liked it alot but never done it since then. So i was wondering If I should make him try a few of my lil sexy things on hahah! Just wondering if any other wives or g/f has done this to their guys and what ideas would be good to dress him up in. hahah We both have this weekend off so i was thinking about doing it to him this weeked. Thanks again for your input and ideas!
2007-08-28 10:57:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its more common than you might think. if you guys are both into it, then why not? after all, many people say that guys who wear women's lingerie are gay, but its not true. in fact, it's a desire to be closer to the feminine form, a deeper connection with your gender. enjoy it. ride the wave.
2007-08-28 11:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe I'm "out of it" but what does wearing lingerie have to do with being a slave? I've heard of transvestism, and I have heard of dominance and submission (D&S), but I've never heard that the two are necessarily connected.
2016-05-20 03:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though the two of you get a long well in the bedroom department. If it is something he wants to try and you want to or don't mind it; then why not? It's your marriage so do what works for the two of you. I don't think I'd go with a thong though! ha ha
2007-08-28 11:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by littleone 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I haven't had my husband do that, but honestly, what would it hurt? If you both like it, go for it. My personal opinion is anything goes as long as nobody is being hurt by it. All different things turn people on, so do what works for you. I don't always get off on what my husband wants to do, but I give in for him and in turn he does the same for me with things.
2007-08-28 11:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Allyson 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are both comfortable with this go for it!
But a word to the wise, you can't start and then expect him to stop. Chances are he is a closet crossdresser who has been stifling his desires. Once you let the cat out of the bag, it will be out for good.
Of course if you want to use this as a way to "reward" him for good behavior.......you might also want to do some research on BDSM and crossdressing. I think you both might enjoy!
2007-08-28 11:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be careful..Fetishes can lead to other behavior that you might not like. If your marriage is sound and you both have a "freaky side", then more power to you! Keep those little details to yourself! What you do in your house is your business!
2007-08-28 11:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might still like it or he may have gotten over it - I thought it was fun for awhile, but the novelty wore off.
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2007-08-28 11:04:02 · answer #7 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that if i were there's a chance you will end up a talk show with him talking bout he's a female prostituite on the weekend thought he went out of town
2007-08-28 11:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no way would i let mine dress up in anything for a female because i would feel like i was going to have sex with a female then.it just wouldn't do a thing for me,if anything it would kill my sex drive.its not manly but i do know there are some that do that for roleplay and actually enjoy it,more power to them.its just not for me and my man.if you are really thinking of doing this though,i hope it works for you.
2007-08-28 11:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should try it hun--it will be fun--I bet he gets hard the instant he pouts on the lingerie. E-mail me when he answeres the wuestions about it turning him on when he was younger
2007-08-28 11:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋