Now this dog, the guy next door, who invited my daughter and I over to get drunk when his wife went to her mother's home with all the children, is eyeing another neighbour lady. Should I warn this lady? If yes, how?
2007-08-28 09:39:36 · 19 answers · asked by lily on pool 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ps--No, my daughter and I didn't go over. This answerer "I know it all", who thinks that anybody in this world would do such thing, is all dirty in his own mind!
2007-08-28 10:12:10 · update #1
Noshaymatall, I don't need any explanation. I DID tell why I think this guy is dangerous in my earliest questions 9 months ago, you'd have given a better answer if you had read through those questions.
2007-08-28 10:58:09 · update #2
You should really keep your nose out of it. You don't want to get involved with something that is none of your business. If he wants to chase all the women in the neigborhood, then let him.
The good thing is that you have seen his true colors and you are more wise to his intentions!!
2007-08-28 10:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the woman is in danger, yes. Warn her about that. You didn't say anything about him being dangerous though. You did insult him by calling him a dog. That might make him angry enough to be dangerous with you. You didn't say why he thought you and your daughter drink together or would possibly welcome the chance to drink with him. What would give him that idea? You didn't say how you know he is "eyeing" another neighbor. You didn't really give a good explanation of the situation at all. Maybe a thorough explanation would reveal too much about why he invited you over in the first place??
2007-08-28 17:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Warn the other lady about what exactly - if this guy actually DID something immoral or illegal to either you or your daughter, then inform the police and file a report. If is only "crime" is inviting females to his house and offering them alcohol, then you would be making YOURSELF look pretty bad by saying anything to anyone about your experience with him. If I were this lady, my first question to you, would be - "Why did YOU go AND take your daughter to his house?"
2007-08-28 17:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could warn her, but be aware of the fact that she's going to wonder how you know and why you were there when she was gone. Proceed very cautiously or better yet, not at all. Let wifey found out on her own. He'll slip up and get himself caught. Good luck!
2007-08-28 16:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you DON'T want to tell this women is because she might see you in a negative light. She may see you as the agressor instead of the helper. (Shooting the messanger) You don't know the mental capasities of this woman. Your speaking to her might send her off to Crazy Land and you will be first person she attacks.
Just stop communicating with both of them! If he calls or asks for a visit, tell him flat out no and be mean about it. If he asks why, tell him why. If she tries to communicate, be kind, but use excuses like crazy to never be around them...
Just a horrible scene....so stay out of it.
2007-08-28 17:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please mind your business! Sometimes in life we find ourselves so concerned with what's going on in everybody else's life and forgetting that we need to clean up our own back yard. Before running to this mans wife, get yourself together and realize that you should be setting an example for your daughter, not taking her out to get drunk with a flirt. What happens when he starts to look at your daughter differently?
2007-08-28 17:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by KENNETH S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell her about him inviting you over, but not about him eyeing another lady. Whatever you do, don't go, and let her know you were not comfortable with the invite. She'll get the message.
2007-08-28 16:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I dont know how much you know about this guy who is eyeing this other lady. But if you think he is a prevert or could do somthing bad to her then you should warn her or her husband about it, and ask then to please not to mention your name. The lady just needs to becareful because you never know these days, you might think you know a person and bang the kill someone or even rape them!
2007-08-28 17:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see how it is any of your business really.
As long as it's not you who's going to end up in his plate, let them deal with their problem on their own.
How do you know that she really doesn't know already?
I'd say mind your own business and just make sure it's clear to him that you don't want to have anything to do with him.
2007-08-28 17:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to get into the middle of it? I mean it will end up your words against his. About the only thing you can do is mention he was checking someone out.
2007-08-28 16:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋