what is way to find males to marry in mid 20's age group and such? i'm in NYC area, I don't know where my husband is hanging out.... I would like to be married? so many women look like they had no trouble finding husband:( all friends are married already! if it become to late - just settle for any male, okay? I AM RUNNING OUT OF TIME RIGHT!??
2007-09-01 14:03:42 · 9 answers · asked by camillabrightside 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
reading comprehension, anyone? I didn't say "dial directory" I said ways to find a decent husband in such a large city, like NYC. I don't know where decent, single men hang out.
2007-09-01 14:15:44 · update #1
If you really want to find a mate, leave no stone unturned!
Seriously, I met my husband in an unlikely place. I went to a goth club because a friend wanted to go. I was bored to tears and ready to leave when I noticed my friend talking to the most awesome man I had ever seen. It was love at first sight and we have been together for almost 8 years, married for almost 5.
Look everywhere! Get out there and meet people! Meet people online and through blind dates, talk to speopl at work and at your gracery store....you can find love anywhere if you are out there!
2007-09-01 14:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well you are not running out of time you can have kids at 40 and so. there was one that had one at 60 so there is no problem. you can try the computer dating and meeting things they have out there. there are some good ones and i have friend that met a guy like this and they are getting along fine. you might want to try this. there are some swell guys out there and avaialbel and loking also i am sure. good luck
2007-09-01 14:12:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just date any guy who asks you at least once.....and don't have a second date if you don't REALLY like him.
Eventually, you will have a date with someone who feels sooo right, you will know he is "the one".
DO NOT settle!! No marriage in your 50s is better than a MISERABLE marriage! Hang in there...and don't rule out the "non-stud" guys....
2007-09-01 14:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait now I'm confused , your looking for A husband in NYC because you lost yours? what he went out for milk and forgot where he lived?
Marriage isnt like ringing the local directory and sayin right I need a husband gimme a name and address and his social security number and how much does he earn per annum .
your not serious.
You dont just SETTLE if your willing to settle go to sing sing or how ever its spelt and hand out your picture and what you can do plenty there.
2007-09-01 14:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop looking. the Man that finds a wife, finds a good thing. do what you love, be in the company of those you enjoy being around and that add value to your life, be the best you that you can be.... this will create the environment to attract the most compatible mate. don't spin your wheels looking for your mate... you will waste value time that could be spent on developing yourself.
If you build you, he will come :-)
2007-09-01 14:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by QueenBeeFee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are NOT running out of time. Just relax, go out with some friends and maybe you'll meet someone. You just have to be patient, and don't worry! :)
2007-09-01 14:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are not running out of time. and secondly just because your friends are married doesn't mean should be. do it when you find the right man.
2007-09-01 14:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by the kidd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you try too hard, you'll settle for less than best.
2007-09-01 14:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay....
2007-09-01 14:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋