How do you achieve closure when you can't get answers to the unanswered questions? And how do you move on without closure?
2007-09-01 12:38:41 · 5 answers · asked by babyred 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes we just have to realize that other people or situations that arise have no regard for how we feel or what we need. Yes, we need answers for closure to help us understand and deal with things. We just have to choose to be happy regardless and make every effort to move on. If other people choose to be that way towards us, then maybe, they didn't care as much about us as we thought they did or as much as we did about them.
2007-09-01 12:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Closure is a term that is overused and over-rated. Everything comes from within you. If you have unresolved issues, take them to a counselor and find peace for yourself. No other person can give you what you seem to think you need. Change your mind and your attitude and move on.
2007-09-01 12:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not easy but the sooner the better. One needs closure before jumping into another relationship or you will be carrying unwanted destructive baggage along.
2007-09-01 13:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bob S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It comes slowly. I hate to say it. We all what answers to everything but we know it is not possible and then we get all emotional. In time it will seem like the unanswered questions is so small compared to what your surroundings is. You need to be strong.
2007-09-01 12:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Closure is over-rated. Just assume the other person is nuts, and make up whatever story makes you feel better.
2007-09-01 12:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋