Marriage & Divorce - 1 September 2007

H'e getting ready to crash again, I can tell when it's coming. I really need to get out of this relationship.
Been together 10 years

2007-09-01 02:51:03 · 9 answers · asked by monabow 1

We know each other for 5 yrs and married for 17 yrs.. total 22 yrs....My hubby bought me two dozen of roses in the morning.., and anniversary card....he ask me for dinner tonite...what I should wear for dinner .?????? formal or casual?????

2007-09-01 02:02:42 · 9 answers · asked by back2future 5

2007-09-01 01:44:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is not directly outta the blue, but we recently had a baby, 17mos old. ever since then her attitude towards sex is like "blah". and the thing is, she lost all her babyfat and now her features have improved (all 3, a**, breast and "tunnel of luv") and bodys even sexier than ever but now it seems that the things that used to turn her on, do nothing for her. i mean she literally passed her libido with her placenta or something. she gets more annoyed than turned on during 4play and basically ends up having apathetic sympathy sex. we dont even kiss anymore. i mean we kiss, but we dont "kiss". to be honest, i believe she wants out of marriage for some reason but she wont admit it when i ask, but she wont try to change either. i love her and i know that our marriage isnt based on sex but when shes unhappy and unwilling to accept help then it makes one start to wonder whether sep/div the best thing for both of us. """"LADIES"""" any recommended actions i could take to appeal to her again

2007-09-01 01:11:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I opened my husband's email last Sat. (never felt the need before but had a gut feeling) & found confirmations for 2 different websites. Logged into the sites, 1 is a dating site & he filled out 3 pages worth of questions. Listed himself as divorced, no kids (neither is true). The other is a vile sex hook-up site & he indicated that he's interested in "group sex" and "sexual relations." We've been having problems but he always tells me how much he loves me, how he'd never hurt me, how I'm his best friend & the best thing that ever happened to him. He denied the profiles at 1st but couldn't when I told him I was looking at his picture on the screen. He now says he wanted me to find it (also admits he knew how much it would hurt me) because he was desperate for us to go to counseling. But he was hiding it and removing the visits from the history as well as doing this at work. He insists he wasn't "looking" for something & didn't cheat. How can he say he wasn't looking?

2007-09-01 01:09:38 · 38 answers · asked by RF 1