2007-09-02 17:52:44 · 11 answers · asked by mindy w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if they do something out of the ordinary ! is usely the only way to tell. cause they can still act the same to you and still have sex with you to cover up !! you have to watch for small signs of something he is doing different!! they can be good and cover thereself!! they know if they act differnt to you you will catch on so sometimes they act the same ! you have to wait for them to slip up some were along the way!! keep your eyes and ears open and notice if he changes anything!! His underwear like buying new ones!, his smell of cigs if he don't smoke! going to the store alot when he could of made one trip out , but he makes alot of trips out of the house instead!! an excuse to get out !! may even speak different words sometimes words he has never said or used before! and you know he's never said that before! sometimes there is signs and sometimes not if there real good at it!!
2007-09-02 18:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by monkeymomma46 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something doesn't feel right, than it isn't. Anytime you are looking into something and the pit of ur stomach drops out. You know he is cheating! I tried to ignore the signs and just got hurt. 1) he is not working late 2) he is not out with the guys during the week 3) make sure ur mail comes to the house and he does ot have a po box 4) always have a key to the house and every car, if not he's hiding something and 5) make sure u have complete access to accounts and credit cards!
2007-09-03 01:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by *star chick* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex life goes to hell.
Suddenly works all the time or works out of town more than before and doesn't pick up his cell when you call.
Makes a lot of excuses.
Woman are emailing/calling.
Suddenly real suspicious that you may be cheating.
Defensive.
Unavailable emotionally, physically. Distant.
Most men try like hell to hide it, but if something is going on, you can feel it, so sit him down and get to the bottom of what is going on. What needs of his or yours are not being met in this marriage? What would make you both happier?
Time for a talk with hubby. Hope you get it all worked out.
2007-09-03 01:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually men give away signs that they are by becoming distant, coming home later than normal, acting differently towards you, picking fights, making excuses to get from under you, bringing you flowers when they normally dont do that. Acting out of the norm basically...
2007-09-03 00:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by faisonik 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are some signs.
Lots of overtime but no money to reflect it.
A sudden need to update the wardrobe.
A keen interest in personal hygiene, including hair gels and colognes.
When he gets home, he takes a shower
A tailing off of sex with you
2007-09-03 01:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't be my husband anymore.
2007-09-03 01:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he comes home late from work, with excuses about
traffic, meetings etc.
doesn't ask for sex
starts dressing up more
just a few for starters.
2007-09-03 00:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mary S 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask he's probably cheating already.
2007-09-03 00:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're asking this question, he probably is. Ask him straight out. He may lie. Then pray to know what to do.
2007-09-03 01:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by rose 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he give you an STD.
2007-09-03 01:04:50 · answer #10 · answered by ivory1 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋