Marriage & Divorce - 2 September 2007

took her out to diner and then we went shoping, she got what ever she wanted and did . I spent over three hundred dollars on her. on the way home she did nothing but complain about somthing dumb and stupid. y can't she just be happy that I do things for her.

2007-09-02 08:50:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i confront him and ask why he never wants to spend wkends with me, we end up in a massive row where he accuses me of trying to tell him what to do and asks if i want to get a timetable.. i feel unwanted and im ready to quit

2007-09-02 08:30:02 · 39 answers · asked by loulou 1

He has been working in the US for 5 years, paying taxes and still is not a citizen. He claims to love me very much but Im afraid if I marry him it may just be for his citizenship! I just don't want to marry him until he has his citizenship so that I know he really wants to marry me for me. He has bought me a ring and I turned him down. He says I dont love him because I won't marry him. I do love him but I have heard of so many horror stories about these aliens who sweep woman off their feet and divorce them after they get their citeznship. What do you think?

2007-09-02 08:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by 112 4

I was in that hospital once, it was really bad, everyone bundled into one room, with different diseases and conditions, and there was that woman in the corner, crying constantly. She got ill suddenly and they took her to this charitable free hospital, and while she lay there, her husband threw all her things away and brought a young woman home.
And she had no money and could not pay for drugs and treatments, and no food, and her neighbour brought her some food, and she just sat on her bed and cried all the time.
I was so impressed by this woman. How do you know your husband won't do the same if you are chanced to get ill?

2007-09-02 08:10:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, am going to marry my bf this november. I met him from matrimonial service last february then I came to visit him several times in UAE and found that he is the guy am looking for the rest of my life. We are from different nationality, he is indian and I'm indonesian.
Everything with us is almost perfect, only 1 thing is bothering me that his marriage status. He's been separated morethan 3 years and the wife now living in UK with her bf & his kids . Since we are muslim and there's a rule that muslim man may have till 4 wifes, but I don't want someday she comes to UAE & claimed my husband as hers too since they don't take legally divorce.
I talked about this few times but he always said "no worries at all ", so tell me what to do now ? I do love him but dont want to be in trouble someday.

2007-09-02 08:09:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-02 08:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by Cari A 1

I am sick and tired of my parents fighting all the time and my dad threatening my mom and us all the time. Im miserable and so are my siblings. I try to talk to my mom about just leaving him but she never wants to hear it. She always says oh he'll change and that everyone has their moments. Im tired of this and sometimes I never even want to come home. So how do I make my mom understand that by staying in this stupid marriage she's just hurting us,the kids. All of us want it to end already. We're all sick and tired of this crap we have to deal with everyday.How to I try to talk to her and convince her its for the best. She thinks that she cant survive without him which I dont see how that is becaouse he doesnt even work or do anything. I dont know what to do anymore. Im tired of fighting and standing up to him because she wont when he threatens us or her or does some other crap. Anyways I need help on how to talk to her. Sorry for it being so long. I just needed to vent.

2007-09-02 07:58:30 · 7 answers · asked by lilcutie8899 4

I think I have somewhat figured out part of this relationship problem I am having. We have been dating since we were young about 16or 17 I think. we are both 28 now and have to beuatiful children together. She is working with a bunch of single women who are about two to four years younger than her that she is calling friends I mean they are that is good. But what I think is going on is she is seeing these single people some mothers all going out and having a good time at bars and other places and she never got to have that life and now she wants it but she has given up on our family to be able to do this I dont hate her for it but I dont agree with the way she is approaching it. she wants to ba able to go out and do all of this stuff and she dont relize that she is hurting our family by wanting to seperate to do this I want to be with her and would love to be able for her to go out and be with friends and hang out with her friends but I would have to beg her to spend any time with me

2007-09-02 07:51:23 · 24 answers · asked by mising her 2

I know a man and his wife ran away with another man to Monaco (from London). And they do it so often, run away, I mean. Why? What's the point nowadays? Why can't they just tell their partners that they do not want them anymore, why do they go somewhere secretly first? They will have to meet them more anyway, for divorce and things.

2007-09-02 07:45:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to figure out what to do with my life. I have 3 kids and I am married. I want to go back to school and get an education. I have a GED because I dropped out of high school due to an unplanned pregnancy. I would love to be able to support myself and my three kids financially by myself if I ever needed to. The problem is that I can't find my passion in life.
I do like photography,animals and nature. But I just feel like I'm not really good at anything. I grew up in a very dysfunctional family (which probably led to the early pregnancy). Basically I have no one I can really count on for support. So is there anywhere I can go where I can be motivated and led in the right direction? I really want to succeed in life and I want my children to be proud of me.

2007-09-02 07:37:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

sir, Iam 44 n my wife 43 yrs. our is love marriage , she loves me much we are blessed with two childrens. she very sexy in the begining 3 yrs after wards her sexual interest has gone down ,last t3 yrs she not at all interested in sex n she will not allow me to touch her , last 3yrs we didn't have intercourse ,she faithful to me even iam faithful to her we do not have any other relations , she has joint pains n financial problems ,i used to think she is tensed with these problems but now these problems are not there what ever she wants she is getting , now iam unable to understand whats the problem with her , kindly advise me what to do, eaither medically or any advise.

2007-09-02 07:33:45 · 16 answers · asked by abidaskumar 1

my boss is asking me to do dirtry things and i want to do them to him!! but im married!!! he wants to do horrible stuff like (excrete in mouth) but i think its dirty. shall i do it to keep my job?

2007-09-02 07:14:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been living with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We planned on getting married one day...But now we are having a very hard time getting along, he goes out drinking all weekend while I am at work. Lately he hasnt been coming home at night-to drunk to drive and crashes at his friends. And when he is home he is in a bad mood. So today I said that we are over. he says that he will move out, but when he can afford it. Which will probally be never the way he has been spending his money. I dont think that it is fair that he can come and go as he pleases, living with me while we are breaking up. I want to try and resolves our issues, I just dont know where to start, he is my best friend and we had a loving relationship. Should I just pack my things and leave? Or wait it out and see what happens? I have been calling him non-stop, which is making things worse.

2007-09-02 07:10:39 · 15 answers · asked by chelchel 1

my wife of 21 years still doesnt know im gay. i cant keep my eyes off him. (the boss) he is also married and we had great fun last nite. can anyone help me??? what should i do???

2007-09-02 06:55:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

When me and my ex wife split she said I hope we can be civil but she doesnt talk to me about my daughter and wont even look me in the eye. Yesterday I saw her at a tailgate party I said hello to her and she just turned around looked at me then turned right back around as if we had no history together. This is a woman I have a child with and seeing how she left me three days after my return from Iraq for another man seems I should be the one who is uncivilized how do you deal with someone youve tried to be kind and rational with but who doesnt say two words to you I dread my daughter going to school and having to deal with this person forever

2007-09-02 06:37:05 · 17 answers · asked by Eric B 2

My ex bf and I broke up over 2 months ago after a long-term relationship. He cheated on me and I never got over it, so we mutually decided it wasn't working out. However, after a vacation away from home, he came back deciding he wanted me back. I had moved on by then and was dating someone new and was happy with the way things were and didn't want to go back to all that bitterness and anger I felt with him. When he found out I was seeing someone, he couldn't handle it. For the past 6 weeks or more, he has called and emailed constantly begging me to come back. I said no repeatedly. He started calling me at work when I wouldn't answer at home or on my cell. Then, in the past 2 weeks, I have stopped all contact whatsoever. So now he has found out the phone number and email address for the guy I'm seeing and has started emaling and calling him telling him things to try to make him stop seeing me. This is getting crazy. There has been no physical threats, but is this harassment?

2007-09-02 06:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 6

I'm engaged to be married and I do love my fiance very much. This new girl started not too long ago at my work. She is pretty and we smile at each other, but I don't think nothing more of that. The thing is is she will always come up from behind me and grab me quickly, like she is trying to scare me, and the other night I did the same thing to her, but I was just doing it to get back at her for scaring me. She hardly speaks a lick of english (she's hispanic) and she tries to talk to me..even though I can't understand her. Like I said I don't think nothing of any of this because I love my fiance, but is all the smiling, talking, and attempting scaring flirting? Honest opinions please

2007-09-02 06:10:48 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for the last 8 years and are perfectly happy. We travel, we have plenty of money, and we are not bound or restricted by anything (other than each other lol) We just have no need to have kids, some have told us that it's not right to be married and not want any kids. Some have called it selfish and others have called it immature but either way we're happy so it doesn't really matter in the end. Though I am curious what the general public (aka you people out there) think of it.

2007-09-02 06:10:44 · 35 answers · asked by John S 2

we dated and i had a child for him, he left me 2 marry another girl,and now he says he doesnt wanna talk bout our child, and he still comes around tells me he cares but i shouldnt blackmail him with d child, should i tell d wife?

2007-09-02 06:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by halima 1

I am going through a divorce. We are on speaking terms & still love each other but are not right for each other. How do I get on with my life? How do i stop from calling him daily? No kids. No infidelity in the relationship. He just can't keep a job and does not get along wth my family.

2007-09-02 06:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by kimhomeloans 2

I don't know the stats but it seems like most newly weds stay married for at least 3 to 5 years then they call it quits. Then you have the veterans. They've been married for at least 8 to 14 years and one day out of the blue (they stay together for the sake of their children) they decide to call it quits. Then you have the "faithful" few. These are people who "come hell or high water" they're sticking it out no matter what. Your thoughts & comments are welcomed.

2007-09-02 05:57:27 · 35 answers · asked by Kooties 5

K here it is. I am a completely crazy horney person, when I am drunk. I do the craziest sexual things. My hubby loves it and therefor always wants to get me drunk, becuz I don't do these things otherwise. My question is I need some ideas to spice up the love life, without having to be drunk. I have been with him for 13 years, (since I was 17).

2007-09-02 05:57:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has to take classes near his home town for his job, he went down there for a four day class and stayed ten days, six days longer than his classes to hang out with his buddies and party. We just moved to a big city, I'm 7 months pregnant and I'm terrified of everything, and we have some really creepy neighbors, is it wrong of me to think he has a responsibility to be home with me. I'd understand a few days, but not so long. Is it okay for a man to do this?

2007-09-02 05:43:09 · 17 answers · asked by Jeennie H 1

Should a man put his wife first in front of other people and things before kids are involved?

2007-09-02 05:37:49 · 12 answers · asked by Jeennie H 1

Did you argue at all with your spouse before you guys were married ? did you argue alot or a little ? I met someone that I feel is my husband, but we argue alot about petty stuff, then kiss and make-up. is this a bad sign or normal ? I don't know . need advice

2007-09-02 05:30:49 · 22 answers · asked by 2teens2todds 1

My ex just called out of the blue and left a message saying he will be in my town for a week and wants to get together for dinner sometime.

I am horrified. Even though we split amicably 3 years ago, we haven't talked for over a year, I've moved on. I have no interest in him or what he's been doing.

I've been trying to decide:
1. Ignore the message, and hope he takes the hint and doesn't just show up at my house

2. Leave him a message and tell him I'm not interested. This might cause him to get drunk and show up anyway and cause trouble.

3. Or just go and meet him for dinner.

What would you do?

2007-09-02 05:07:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband is monitoring his wife's every move. The wife is not being unfathful or anything. He is being verbally abusive. I need to know if for any reason he has any rights to do this. I need to collect information for this lady so she can prepare herself for action against him.

2007-09-02 04:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

As per code it states I must notify her 30 days prior to departure, and if she doen't respond it constitutes acceptance.
It has been 30 days since she received the notice and the revised parenting plan. Local Lawyer all want a fat retainer just to chat with me.

2007-09-02 04:45:26 · 7 answers · asked by GONZO 2

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2007-09-02 04:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by reinformer 6

2007-09-02 04:35:19 · 4 answers · asked by nadella_sudhakar 1