my boss is asking me to do dirtry things and i want to do them to him!! but im married!!! he wants to do horrible stuff like (excrete in mouth) but i think its dirty. shall i do it to keep my job?
2007-09-02 07:14:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give it a shot, you might like it and then you might get a big promotion.
2007-09-05 08:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life!
You put yourself in a situation where you allowed someone to treat and talk to you disrespectfully.
Now, you don't sound like you have no resources, so I take it you are not a refugee who'd have to put up with bosse's cr*p to keep your job. You could have the support of your husband, despite wanting to cheat on him in the first place, then there are rules and regulations so that your boss has some powers, but not complete power, so that you can still challenge an unfair dismissal.
So, my point is that you like attention, and are not quite right in your own mind to have put yourself in such a situation.
IF you want respect, First, show that you deserve it by putting things in their right place: YOU're married, and you go to work because you're trying to earn a living. And, your boss is just that at work.
If YOU allow him to cross the line and walk all over you and even use you as a chamber pot, then it'll be YOUR choice.
2007-09-02 14:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Stay faithful to your wife, if she finds out (these things have a way of leaking out to them) she'll divorce you. I don't think want to do that. Think about this, which is more important? Keeping your loving and faithful wife or keeping a job by doing gay stuff with $@&# of a boss? Tell the creep no, you're married. If he keeps doing it, stay strong and tell the police he's sexually harassing you. Yeah, I know that sounds all girly but that's what it is and you don't deserve to be treated in that manor, you're much better then that!
2007-09-02 14:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by DallasStar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want to do that? Hmmm...well I guess everyone has their turn ons. I guessing that as soon as that stuff hits your taste buds you'll be regretting that decision though.
Keep the sanctity of your marriage intact. If you want to become a freak with someone other than your wife than get a divorce first. You owe her that much.
And never do something like this just to keep your job. You always want to use it as leverage for a raise or promotion.
Good luck friend!
2007-09-02 15:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by gh0st 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From the sounds of it you want him to excrete in your mouth. Go ahead. Remember he will treat as a whore while you work there. Then he will fire you because you have something over him. Oh yea, file for divorce first because if your spouse finds out, you will lose your marriage too.
2007-09-02 14:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Arvind N 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Answered your last question already. Well you set the stage, all it takes is once and it will be expected. You said before you were gay, what about your wife? Tell her who and what you are. Like I said she will find out herself if you don't tell her.
Gay or straight, cheating is cheating, you did it. Now you also have lying on the list. Tell your wife, quit your job, oh and you will probably need a lawyer when it is done.
2007-09-02 14:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by bkdrm41897 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no.if thats his little game then you should tell him no and if he fires you so what,at least you still have your dignity and pride.i'd never let someone force me to do something i don't want to do.EVER.no job is worth that.you say you want to do dirty things to him but not the other,as i see it if you do any of it then he's going to expect it all.think about it,this could go where you don't intend for it too.both of you have wives and playing around with each other,why not play with them,their your partners not the other way around.
2007-09-02 14:19:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You boss is a jerk for even asking you to consider such acts.....but can I ask one thing ... you say "but im married". Does that mean if you were not married you would actually consider doing this?
2007-09-02 14:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by girlielikesfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: Where do ya'll work? This sounds like a dirty flick. LOL
2007-09-02 14:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mirch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do what he wants there are many perverts like that you have to watch that and that is not the only job there is you can find another one.
2007-09-02 15:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋