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2007-09-05 00:32:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st the AVARAGE couple can take up to one year to become pregnant. 2ed having sex EVERYDAY will lower sperm count. It's best to not be doing it everyday. When we were trying to concive the doctor told us to wait 2-3 days before with NO SEX then have sex the day before ovulation the day after ovulation. Sometime stress can cause a women to not concive. If you are putting presure on her your just hurting your own efforts. RELAX then stop having sex so often.
2007-09-05 00:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, going at it like that, your sperm count is probably low, among other things. Stress from trying so hard will adversely effect the process as well. Put a pillow under the wife's hiney and have her stay in bed for about half an hour afterward. Start counting from the first day of your wife's menstrual cycle and on the 14th day, she should be most fertile. You should also check into getting a basal thermometer so she can see when her temp. rises and falls so she'll have a good idea of when she's ovulating. Do either of you smoke? That can hinder conception also. If all else fails, get a round of Clomid from your wife's doctor. LOL, worked like a charm for me!
Ps. Unless they've changed the guidelines, you're not really considered having a problem until you've been having unprotected sex for 12 consecutive months without conceiving.
2007-09-05 00:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by Superfluous 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you go at it TOO much, the number of little swimmers you have decreases so you're less likely to get her pregnant.
She could try taking birth control for a month or two, just to make sure she's ovulating normally. She'll be super fertile after stopping the pill. If after 6 to 12 months you still haven't gotten pregnant, time to call a fertility specialist. One of you could have a problem.
Just a hint - you've only been married for 4 months - you shouldn't be thinking about having children at this point. Take time to get to know each other, and to enjoy each other's company. Once you have children, there's no more alone time for at least 18 years. Your marriage will thank you
2007-09-05 01:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me about a year and we weren't trying or not trying. We had sex a lot though. So, sometimes it is just relaxing and not worrying. I was 18. I had my first at 20. When I threw my Birth control away after 6 yrs. I got pregnant right away with the second. So, maybe God wanted me to be 20 when I had my first, maybe I needed to be married for a while before having a child. So, don't panic. Some people have tried and tried then went on vacation and gotten pregnant. Maybe a retreat will do the trick. I have also heard that a tilted uterus might be one cause and that having her hips raised up on a pillow while making love might help with that. Good luck.
2007-09-05 00:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are trying to hard. Relax and it will happen. Why are you so concerned? You are newly weds and should be having fun as a couple. You are in an adjustment time with stressful things going on in both your lives. Now, if in a year or so there is still no blessed event on the horizon then you should consider seeing a Doctor but until then I wouldn't worry so much.
2007-09-05 01:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Sherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can take the average couple up to a year to get pregnant. If it doesn't happen after that, then there may be a fertility issue. For now, just have fun trying. Don't make it into a chore, just do what comes naturally and relax.
2007-09-05 00:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have low sperm count, she is on the pill and not telling you, she is not fertile, stress factors of trying to get pregnant and can't will prevent from being successful, your wearing a condom and forgot.....
Could be any number of reasons, best advice is for both of you to go visit a fertility doctor and have her and you tested to see if one of you is not fertile.
Good luck.
PS. why would you want to get pregnant so soon after being married? You should enjoy this time of just the two of you before you have children. Not that I'm saying you shouldn't, I love my kids, but this should be your time together right now. The children will come along when the time is right for both of you.
2007-09-05 00:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by sesamenc 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you afraid if he's purely 4 months youthful than you? we at the instant are not speaking 14 years - yet 4 months? You look youthful - and marriage isn't meant to be taken gently and neither is parenting. i might propose retaining off on marriage till you be attentive to what you pick for - and make experience once you're asking the wide-unfold public that can assist you you with one in each of those ridiculous question! With one in each of those vast sexual prefer, it seems such as you won't be waiting to calm down.
2016-10-09 23:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of reason for this I have to say, if your wife was on the pill for example then it could take a year for it to clear her system, stress too will affect the conception process, you should be enjoying this honeymoon period and Doctors will suggest waiting for two years before they will even think that something is wrong. Good luck...
2007-09-05 00:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by patlynn2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes time I say give it at least three more months, also you can buy a test is like a pregnancy test but this one tells you when she is ovulating, and after that if she still not pregnant consult your doctor I am sure is nothing wrong but it would help consulting your doctor.. try the ovulating test..good luck.
2007-09-05 00:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋