Marriage & Divorce - 5 September 2007

if u got a great family..with loving parents, sisters and brothers..
they take really good care of u...they are your everything and all your life u feel they are the only love u have in this world u can't live without them...!!!

but out of a sudden u met this guys that are really good to u and wants to married u....
how do u deal with the feeling of leaving your own great family and married this guys...?

2007-09-05 14:43:41 · 8 answers · asked by nightowls 4

...but whom he lied to about being married?

If there was no sex, it was only a couple of dates, a few phone calls and emails over a couple of weeks, and the second she found out he was married she tore him a new one and dropped his sorry ***. Would you still think she was a 'ho?

2007-09-05 14:26:22 · 29 answers · asked by Singinganddancing 6

My wife is self-employed and rents a booth in a nail salon. She called me yesterday at my office (my business partner was in my office during the call) to tell me that the salon owner was going to close down her salon. My wife will have to relocate her business to another salon.

Last night she asked me if I said anything to my business partner about her having to relocate her business. I told her I did, he (my partner) heard me saying, "Oh honey, that's ok, you'll find another salon".

My wife went ballistic and accused me of telling the whole world our personal family secrets. I told her that this situation doesn't qualify as a "family secret". She said to her, it was as personal as if I had talked about her period or what kind of sex we had.

Additional info: My partner's sister is a client of my wife.

This behavior makes absolutely no sense to me, completely irrational from my point of view. This type behavior happens every 3 to 4 months.

I'm lost, any insight?

2007-09-05 14:23:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Husband tells me that I don't start sex first he is always the one to enjage in it. When I do, do things I feel that I look stupid and or I look unattractive. What are some ways to turn him on and not look stupid?

2007-09-05 13:52:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just answered a previous questions about husbands and housework. I am a stay at home empty nester.I do most of the work around the home.My husbands offers to do things but with me at home all day I feel it is my job to keep our home clean and in order.I feel like our home is my job just like his career is his job.I have a great husband and I think I am very fortuate that I am able to stay at home. I held a job outside of the home for many years.I love staying home and I love my life. On the previous question someone gave me a thumbs down.I was just wondering what others thought about husbands and housework when the wife stay at home.Do you think the husband should be expected to do housework when the wife is home all day or do you think the wife should be responsible for the housework????

2007-09-05 13:48:41 · 20 answers · asked by Teresa 5

like most men say they turn to other women because their wives are ******, does not know how to run the house, not a good listener...etc etc..

2007-09-05 13:44:29 · 21 answers · asked by travlin soul 2

Since it isnt the 1920's anymore when women couldnt work, should the laws change?

2007-09-05 13:43:38 · 13 answers · asked by juju 3

I file for divorce from my wife and she took forever to sign the waiver....after I bugged her about it...and now she wants me to set a court date because now she want a divorce... but I don't want to I want to wait because she is trying to marry the guy she cheated on me with am I wrong.

2007-09-05 13:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do I do? my husbands son is my age basically and last Christmas I took home movie tapes of his (when I had been drinking etc - and i normally dont drink) none the less its wrong. I have said sorry few times etc.. but I guess he just really cant stand me I guess. My husband doesnt thinks he said to him when it happen that he didnt want me in his house.. which i can understand i did take precious something.. But im not like this really.. Im such a good person, i dont take things .. dont know why i did it.. I really dont.. But I am thinkin of just clarifing and sending him a text seeing if it would be a problem if I did come for Christmas? OR is it too early to even worry? I guess I jsut want to know if Im not welcomed or if its ok.. its buggin me thats all. I dont have family here they live overseas.. its bad situation...

2007-09-05 13:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by RAIN 2

I caught my husband in bed with my best friend twice. He said he wanted her body so bad. I am going to oblige him and make him very much more feminine looking so that no woman will ever want him again. I already threw out all his clothes and I control all the finances. I revoked the insurance on his car cancelled his credit cards and since I have signing authority on all the bank accounts he has no money whatsoever. He doesn't work. He married into money so I have complete control. His friends are all my friends so he has no support there and nobody would dare cross me.The thing that pisses me off is he is more upset about me cutting him off financially than he is sorry about sleeping around. WOMEN GIVE ME SOME HELP HERE. I HAVE AN ORIGINAL IDEA FOR PAYBACK AND INTEND TO CARRY IT OUT.

HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED

2007-09-05 12:47:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

iyour man looked at porn and you are very attractive yourslef is
it normal?
if you say yes in which circles?thnas !

2007-09-05 12:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 12:26:16 · 22 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4

The truth is, his mother is a manipulating, ridiculing, abusive, spawn of the devil. And he thinks she is God's gift to anything- she's always right, and nobody is ever right who opposes her. I believe she's tried to break up our marriage (luckily we moved two states away before she succeeded) But now that i'm in my 8th month of pregnancy, he's going to pay gas money for her and her daughter to come up here when I deliever the baby. When i asked, he said he was thinking of bringing her up around my due date!! OUr house is tiny! And she eats like a horse. She ridicules my house-cleaning and cooking. She is the type to literally take the baby away from me, and I know it. How can i tell my husband that I want at least a week with the new baby before either of our parents decide to sleep in our livingroom?! HELP!!!!!

2007-09-05 12:18:51 · 15 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2

I am a single mom that works full time, gets child support, and still has a hard time paying the bills. I work all day, come home and mow the lawn, fix dinner, get the kids in for a bath, read to them, then do the laundry before bed. And never get the dishes done. I just feel so tired and used up, what can I do to feel better?

2007-09-05 12:17:48 · 14 answers · asked by hthr_1974 4

This spring I had a small breakdown and was diagnosed with Bipolar type 2. I was able to get help and get on the right meds (took awhile) and finally feel like I'm on the right track, however, during that time I seriously neglected my relationship of six years with my boyfriend. This summer we started to fight and then last week I found out he doesnt think I'm "the one" anymore. We have decided to try and work on things, because he says he just doesnt feel that special connection anymore, and he says he still respects me and thinks I'm a great person and doesnt want to throw the last six years out in the trash, but he wants to be absoloutely sure. Do relationships come back from this? Or am I just hoping for nothing? Im still deeply in love with him, and am starting to feel great again about my life after a big depression, I just dont want to drag on the inevitable.
Also, he's told me that he has feelings for a girl at work, 8 years younger, but he's not sure about those either.

2007-09-05 12:07:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In todays world we have a good portion of married couples divorcing, cheating on their spouses. However if a man or woman wants two partners at the same time its unacceptable?

2007-09-05 12:03:55 · 13 answers · asked by Joey V 1

what are the yahoo answer points for .......if anything. what do you do with them??

2007-09-05 12:01:52 · 7 answers · asked by Ruthless 2

My mom and dad are divorced, my dad remarried about 10 years ago. His new wife is nothing but nice, but never was a mother in any facet to me (not that I needed or expected her to; I was already well into my teens). I have some stuff I'd like to talk to my dad about, some semi-serious stuff, but have thus far been reluctant because I feel it's his obligation to share with his wife, but I'd rather he didn't. Part of me thinks I'm being too proud and selfish by hoping for a little confidentiality, but the other half of me says I have a right to ask for this on occasion, an issue discussed between just MY dad and me.

Any thoughts?

2007-09-05 11:48:04 · 13 answers · asked by randyken 6

2007-09-05 10:58:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband got got rid of his snake but wants a pitbull now im 5 months pregnant he just don't understand and all he does is call me names and ignores me what im trying to tell him we dont need anything like that right now he wants everything his way im stuck and i don't know what to do help

2007-09-05 10:03:08 · 34 answers · asked by tiffany t 1

i am 22 years old muslim guy living in usa and this girl she is soon turning 22 living in bangladesh. we really love each other, but our situation brought us somewhere , that we cant even imagine now what to do. she is getting married iwth someone else in less than one week. i dont know right now what to do. we talked yesterday and i think thats the last time probably we can talked. she tried to explain her parents but they didnt listen to her, because everything was set with the other guy. i dont know what to do. we talked yesterday and she was crying badly. telling me everyone has been invited, everyone knows now that she is getting married to someone. and if something happens, such as if we elope it will hurt her parents and its involve with their respect as well, but she cant live without me thats for sure, plz guys tell me what can i do. since we cant contact anymore, and even if i go to bangladesh , just by me what can i do. god plz tell me, plz give me ur best thoughts,

2007-09-05 09:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our relationship , in my view, is utterly destroyed due to her alcoholism, depression, suicide attempts. Please don't judge us, I know it takes two to tango. I had affairs, turned into a workaholic, was un-supportive of her and generally hardheaded. Now we are finally at the end of a nasty divorce and she is laying the guilt on thick. She say's she's a changed woman but I don't see it. She claims I am abandoning her but I think we left each other a long time ago. She seems to think that I should automatically be totally in love with her, after all this time and thru all the ugly things, now that she has quit drinking. It goes on and on and it's driving me crazy.

Why would she want to stay with me and how can I get her to quit bothering me with text messages and the like?

2007-09-05 09:54:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been engaged for several months, and we were planning on getting married next June, but I found out a few weeks ago that I'm pregnant. We're both really excited about it, as are our families. Sure, our families would rather us be married before having kids, but they are happy for us. We've been living together for a little over 6 months, both have nice jobs, are renting a nice house, and have been financially independent from our families for a long while. We were planning on paying for our wedding ourselves, so it's not like mommy and daddy or the government are going to be taking care of us, or our child. We were thinking about pushing the wedding back another year, my due date is mid April, that's about a 1 1/2 months before our wedding, things would be little rushed. Some people have been telling me how important it is that we are married before having a child, but should we rush into a wedding just so we don't have an illegitimate child?

2007-09-05 09:48:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I was at home and just decided to look through my husbands phone history (he has done stuff before) well I saw some 866 numbers. Then since we have internet on our phones I looked at his web history. He had a yahoo search for phone sex and several porn sites. Its my personal belief that porn is cheating. Well i confrunted him and he said that it was all pop-ups. Ok whatever our phones dont get pop-ups like computers. Later that day we went to a lake. I ignored him the whole time we were there. After we got back I took his phone and tried to confrunt him again for the truth. Both the phone history and web history were deleted. He claims he didnt do it and has no idea how it happened. The he said "when could i have done it you were with me all day today" So now I have no evidence to confrunt him with and he keeps saying he has no idea what im talking about and that he never got onto porn sites. Then we argued and he said "I'll admit to it even though i didnt do it to make you drop it"

2007-09-05 09:43:47 · 30 answers · asked by Worried wife 3

our local has a large room thats for men only,, my mrs and several of her female mates are campaigning to make it open to them as well,, where the fuk we gonna go to get away from them when we take them to the pub if they are successful

2007-09-05 09:31:00 · 13 answers · asked by country boy 5

to anyone who was/is married

2007-09-05 09:30:00 · 33 answers · asked by sasamijurai18 2

it is clear to me that if you have to ask the question the answer is sleave. Even the bible lets you leave a spouse for cheating because it is hard for people to truely forgive and forget. Only a very low number of marriages ever turn out good when someone has been unfaithful.

2007-09-05 09:23:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I overheard my boyfriend of 2 years & his friends talking. No I was not eaves-dropping but we all work together & I over-heard them & they didn't know I was in the other room. So their talking about the lottery & what they would do with their money & his friend said I bet you could put Vanessa (me) in the parking lot and she could make that much money....as if that's not bad enough my boyfriend says I doubt it and they all started laughing, his friend said dang and I thought I was being cruel....then my boyfriend said I really hope she isn't in there (meaning the room I was in) but...I was and I heard it and I am hurt for one that he didn't take up for me when his friend said that then he said he doubt it...I took it as he doubt's I'd would be that good. I don't know...what does this mean? Do I have a right to be mad? We live together, therefore ride to work together, I am tempted when leaving today walking by their desk telling him I will be waiting in the parking lot to see

2007-09-05 09:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by Vanessa 1

I've been wanting to ask for days. Sorry to be so ignorant. But I've never heard the term before coming here. Enlighten me.

2007-09-05 09:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by meagain 4

What exactly is cheating?
Talking to another woman or man on the phone?
Emailing another woman or man?
Having sex with another woman or man?
Or All of the above if you dont tell your partner that you are communication with the person?
I ask because I just found out that my husband has been emailing his old girlfriend from 8 years ago when we were in highschool. He laughs and think I am over reacting. It's just emailing he says. I think it is cheating. Cause I did not know and I accidently found out about it. Dont any one agree? Or do you all think I am blowing a little issue up? I am ready to leave our 7 year commiment.
Thoughts Please!

2007-09-05 09:17:43 · 49 answers · asked by mother of two 1