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I caught my husband in bed with my best friend twice. He said he wanted her body so bad. I am going to oblige him and make him very much more feminine looking so that no woman will ever want him again. I already threw out all his clothes and I control all the finances. I revoked the insurance on his car cancelled his credit cards and since I have signing authority on all the bank accounts he has no money whatsoever. He doesn't work. He married into money so I have complete control. His friends are all my friends so he has no support there and nobody would dare cross me.The thing that pisses me off is he is more upset about me cutting him off financially than he is sorry about sleeping around. WOMEN GIVE ME SOME HELP HERE. I HAVE AN ORIGINAL IDEA FOR PAYBACK AND INTEND TO CARRY IT OUT.

HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED

2007-09-05 12:47:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

29 answers

Well enjoy this moment if you must, you clearly intend to. But I think long term you need to address your anger, jealousy, and resentment, otherwise you will end your days a bitter, dried up, and lonely woman...

2007-09-11 03:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

While all this sounds great and funny in a "She-Devil" kind of way, why would you want to waste your time on him? He obviously doesn't want you. Let him go. Find happiness. Find you a man that will treat you like a lady and not sleep with your pals. You will get a lot more satisfaction from that. He can't sue you for allimony if he committed adultery. But be careful, because if you let him stick around and condone it, the courts will see that as an act of forgiveness and an adultery charge is out the window.

2007-09-13 06:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Brooke 4 · 0 0

He wants money he needs to get a job if you pay for everything then he can go to hell for being a weak willed over indulged gluton and if your friend lied to you about or didnt tell you about sleeping with him then kick her to the curb she and he will be a downfall of yours if your upset about him being more mad about being cutoff from money then sorry for sleeping around on you then it sounds like he still has the advantage somehow and she needs to get the **** on you are way to much women for him he needs to be with someone who is underhanded and coniving and weak willed as him because that would be the best carma he will find that life without your graces and favour is pretty shitty and any other female besides you that would be with him wouldnt be enough for him either and would cheat on him too so to hell with him sorry your best friend sucks

2007-09-12 20:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by malice749 1 · 0 0

Hey gal! Good that you could make him suffer a little, although it's sad to hear that you had to witness it twice.But I'm sure since he has cheated you twice he will do it again, so best thing to do is just divorce him and get on with your life. Life is to short for you to waste it on a worthless person like your hubby.

2007-09-13 07:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

but what price are you paying for this? you have to have a gut wreching like no one else. its hard to breathe etc. i can only guess what type of stress you are going through and to what end? i wouldn't want him around and you are just keeping him around for what. hes already lost and you are still havinghim there. cut the ties and get rid of him and be done with this mess and live better and more then stress can cause heart attacks strokes etc. that is not worth the problems you can occur.

2007-09-10 13:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0 0

It sounds like you've covered your bases quite well. I hope you dump his sorry butt, along with your "best friend". What a couple of weenies. I'm dying to know what your original idea for payback is. If it's really good, my sister could use some good ideas too. Good luck!

2007-09-05 12:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by katydid 7 · 0 0

If you intend to stay with him, treating him as terribly as he has treated you isn't going to help anything. If you want to make things work get some marriage counseling. If you're through with the marriage get a divorce. Don't just stay together and make each other miserable.

2007-09-13 11:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by atomzer0 6 · 0 0

You caught him TWICE? AND he's still your husband?Doesn't that make you nearly as much of an *** as him?
Of course he's not sorry - and you're still wasting your time with him? Screw the payback. Get the best atty. your money can buy and divorce him!

2007-09-10 13:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor B 1 · 1 0

try leaving him. he obviously doesnt love or respect you. sounds like he wanted you for your money in the first place. If you have already given him 2 chances to sleep with your bestfriend what are you waiting for? to become a step mom when the two of them have a baby?

2007-09-05 12:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 0 0

Go Girl! Good for you. Divorce is not punishment enough. Your best friend?? TWICE!?!? Only buy him extremely tight fitting pants, and pink polo shirts. Make sure he never has any facial hair, and don't buy boxers, only bikini briefs.. No, thongs. Ha ha... do what you do, girl, it sounds like you got it under control! Good luck, Hun!

2007-09-13 08:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by sskstru 4 · 1 0

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